How to look at the worse mentality in today s society

There is a saying in China: human nature is inherently good. That is to say, when a person is born simply and kindly, then how do those bad habits, psychology, and practices appear in the future?

When a child has perception for the first time, the first person he comes into contact with is his parents, and he has been imitating his parents' actions, words, and dealing with others since he began to babble. Therefore, parents play a vital role in their children's later life. When a child reaches adulthood, most of his personality is formed at an early age.

Have a good personality and stress resistance, and you can better solve it when you face various pressures in society in the future. So parents are their children's first teachers.

It's the age of the internet, and people are mostly staying at home. The Internet is a quick way for them to get in touch with the world. But now there are all kinds of things on the Internet, all kinds of pornographic and violent videos fill the entire screen, giving people a wrong value and world view, and no one tells them what is right.

Today's society is in a fast-paced state, and young people who have just entered the society in this state will have a lot of pressure, so there will be two situations, 1. He can withstand the pressure and solve it. 2, he can't stand it. If he can't stand it, there will be negative things, evasion, condemnation, anger.

At this time, if there is no correct guide, then the matter will expand, either commit suicide, or touch the bottom line of the law to do illegal things.

In China, I still can't correctly understand the profession of psychiatrist, because he is under the name of psychiatry, and he always thinks that going to see a psychiatrist means that there is a problem with your nerves, which is commonly known as "neurosis". In fact, in many Western countries, their parents will send their children to see a psychiatrist when they encounter various age-inappropriate practices or psychology, and adults will go to a psychiatrist as long as they feel that there is something they can't figure out or can't solve, and they see a psychologist as often as we see a cold. But Chinese will always look at those who have seen a psychiatrist with colored eyes, resulting in those who really need to see a psychiatrist dare not go, those who can't stand the pressure can't find a person who can guide, then some bad behaviors are just a way for them to vent.

It's better than bad, not better.

The mentality of people is very interesting, and many people show that they are warning others, don't get close to me, don't lie to me.

Because it's really hard to be a good person, most people are actually good, but they all need a bad to cover up their goodness, if a person is very kind and easy to talk, don't you especially like to talk to him? But real hypocrites will go out to deceive those who are really good in various ways, so being a good person is mixed, but don't be too entangled in good people or bad people, the important thing is to be kind in your heart.

The mentality of the bad guy is very good, no matter what he faces, he can face it with a good mentality, in fact, the bad guy is not born bad, but with the change of time, the different environments have changed their mentality. Originally a good person, he didn't control himself, and it was easy to change from a good person to a bad person. <>

The real bad guys are very smart, and they can get what they want to know by relying on their diligence and studiousness, and the bad guys are also very self-motivated, always hoping that everything they can handle perfectly.

The desires of bad people are infinitely magnified, for their own little interests, they will even do things that violate morality, they have a fluke mentality, they always feel that they can live with peace of mind, and they want more things, and they often struggle to do some unrealistic things with their minds.

The ambition of the bad guy is also relatively large, a small thing can not always satisfy him, he has to do some big things, in the eyes of the bad guy, there is no so-called success, he has no definition of success, what he needs is to live exactly as he wants.

The mentality of a bad guy is also very smart, he is not a real bad guy by nature, and it is also with the change of time, the change of the environment makes him a little bad.

The real bad guys also have their own smart minds, completely relying on the knowledge they have obtained through their diligence and studiousness, the bad guys are not as bad as they think, they also want to do a good job, so they work hard every day.

This is the bad guy, a normal mentality, they all have a really generous heart, so that they can do things without any hindrance, and they can always make themselves very successful in doing something.

This is how a person can always make his own real achievements when he has perseverance, and he also has a normal mentality to find his true value in his life.

They also have their own skills, and they can only have a place in life by relying on their real hard work, which is a very smart bad guy.

And this kind of wisdom is also based on their own experience accumulated in life, little by little to learn and change their life status, their mentality is very good, every day is constantly growing to make themselves stronger.

This is the mentality of a bad person, who always has a self-motivated mind who changes his life and his true destiny.

Social phenomenon: The phenomenon of chasing stars is common in society, and some people are so crazy that when a star wants to get married, they actually choose to commit suicide by jumping off a building....Ask a question:

What is the mindset of a star chaser? What the hell are they thinking? Why are you so crazy that you have no ego?

If we want to solve this problem, I don't think about the problem with the mentality of ordinary people, look at their behavior, and evaluate whether their behavior is in line with conventional ethics. Because of the difference in concept, you can't dismiss them with your experience or thoughts, it's just that the pursuit and outlook on life are different. Take me as an example, among the many stars, I only like Han Geng (a Chinese singer who went to South Korea for development).

Honestly, I don't know what I like about him? I rarely listen to his songs, rarely watch his news gossip, rarely watch his movies or entertainment films, because I'm not a star chaser, but when I see his photos, I shout his name like a nymphomaniac. My friends say I'm a star chaser, but I'm going to ask:

What are the criteria for being a star chaser? Tell me about one of my experiences, maybe Kaina to explain why I like Han Geng. On the first day of 2009, Su Yuan and I went to Xishan, and when we climbed the mountain, we met a group of people, one of whom was very similar to Han Geng (I only found out later, I thought who he looked like, and then I felt like Han Geng), the memory at that time was still very deep, and the memory they left me was very deep.

Therefore, according to the behaviorist point of view, my liking for Han Geng is the result of strengthening, and for him, it is just an appreciation, and there is no element of chasing stars. So I guess that if someone likes a certain celebrity, perhaps one of the factors is that the celebrity's appearance (temperament, behavior, etc.) conforms to the template in their hearts, and on the premise of their favorability, they constantly strengthen this emotion, so that they become star chasers. In fact, the phenomenon of star-chasing, in my opinion, is the result of the intensification of appreciation.