Love is in a dilemma, what should I do? 20

Updated on society 2024-05-21
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hello. There are three possible reasons why your boyfriend doesn't want you to leave: 1; I don't want to leave you, I want to see you every day.

    This reason doesn't seem right, you've been together for almost five years, and you can't stick together every day. 2;He wants to be by your side to take care of you to ease the burden of your graduate school entrance examination. I think I'm too already working and shouldn't have time to take care of you.

    3;He doesn't want you to go to graduate school. It will take you three years to go to graduate school, and after graduation, your education is higher than his, and he is afraid of losing you. I think this reason is possible.

    If the two love for a long time, how can it be in the morning and twilight? "He's so decadent in Shanghai alone, I'm afraid he won't be able to stand it after I leave", I don't believe this, you've been together for almost 5 years.

    As a female medical student, it is still necessary to take the postgraduate entrance examination, which is very necessary for future development and career. I suggest going to the entrance examination near the school, wholeheartedly going to graduate school, and working hard for four months, and you will be greeted by a bright tomorrow! As long as you are admitted to graduate school, you will have a double harvest of love and career!

    Of course, you should communicate well with him and understand the other person's thoughts. It should be better to review near the school, the key depends on your mentality, as long as you adjust your mentality, it will be the same there.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Then go and hurt, be careful that men fall in love with others...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Postgraduate entrance examination in Shanghai. There's always a bit of compromise.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Since time is so tight, don't make extraneous branches, let's go along with him, adjust your mentality yourself, and wish you good luck!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you really care about his feelings and don't want to be separated from him, you can study for graduate school at one of the universities in Shanghai, where there should be many like-minded people like you

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This is actually the time for you to choose whether to be a strong woman or a homely woman.

    Of course, the premise is that you don't regret this choice, because if you want to take the exam again after giving up the graduate school entrance examination, it is a matter of age, but a problem of unfamiliarity. If you give up on your boyfriend, don't feel guilty about whether you can get out of the way when you meet a new boyfriend in the future.

    There is giving, only then can it be gained, and it is called giving, depending on which is important in your eyes. Unless you say that your boyfriend agrees with you to go to graduate school.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    My opinion is that you have to believe that as long as you become better than the original, you won't have to worry about finding a better one.

    If your boyfriend really loves you, he won't care about waiting two more years. I think you yourself can understand what I mean.

    When you are young, you should have the determination to give up everything for your ideals, otherwise you will regret it when you are old.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't know what school or major you are admitted to?

    A very real problem is: it is not possible to achieve any life ideals by going to graduate school. The employment situation for graduate students is also generally not optimistic (but it depends on your specific major).

    If you want to be a teacher, then you go to graduate school; If not, then late employment is not as good as early employment. Nowadays, companies are no longer looking at your academic qualifications, they are more interested in your ability, your experience and so on. Nowadays, many graduate students are admitted to graduate school not because they want to study, but to escape from society and the very grim reality of employment.

    After graduate school, you can work and get in, but if you lose a boyfriend who loves you, you may not be able to find it again

    So, be realistic – your boyfriend's mood is understandable, and you should put yourself in your shoes sometimes. Because everyone is a realistic and selfish individual, people can't be too naïve and idealistic, and any "waiting for you for a lifetime" nonsense in idol dramas is a lie to children

    I suggest that if you meet a good man who loves you and you love him, get married quickly

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Boys who are not willing to sacrifice for your future, I think it is worth reconsidering......

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Exam, men are unreliable Don't think about relying on a certain man, try your best to persuade your boyfriend to support you in the graduate school entrance examination. It is estimated that your boyfriend is afraid of losing you, if you really love him, tell him that it is okay to get married after being admitted, and let him put down his ideological baggage and support you, after all, the head of the graduate school entrance examination is easily affected by external conditions.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's pressure. There is a kind of girl who wants a boy to love her, love her, and spoil her, like a child. Looking at your description, he doesn't look like that type, you seem to have a money problem, not a two-person problem.

    There is a lot of pressure for men to enter all aspects of society, and your half may also have pressure, she doesn't spend money like hers, maybe she has her reasons, there is time to care more about her, and the two of you can communicate. Whether you can go to the end depends on the fate of the two of you, two people will feel that each other is very mysterious and suitable when they first start dating, I don't know if the two of you have reached the love menopause.

    You must have a lot of common language and common goals when you are admitted to graduate school. What you said above just now is not an obstacle for the two of you, it is recommended that you sing K, drink, climb the mountain another day, and it will be fine. Then go to the graduate school entrance examination and get a high score.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It can be seen that he doesn't care about you very much, he is very tolerant, he is more future-oriented, just to make you tired, both add money and people, there is no need, it is recommended that you think calmly, talk about it if you can, talk about it if you can't do it, after all, the future of the graduate school entrance examination is important, when you are excellent, there are naturally people who chase you!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't you have to take the test? Let's put these things aside for a moment! If she really likes you, she won't care about these days! Or get your relationship in order and then devote yourself to revision! Finally, I wish you a smooth passage!!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Let's take the test together, cooperate with each other, learn and live at the same time, and in the future, it will inevitably be an experience of sharing hardships and hardships.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Let go of your feelings first, after all, the graduate school entrance examination is only a matter of a month.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Since they are all tired, they will definitely not be able to do it in the long run. Tell her your concerns and grievances tactfully, and see how she reacts. If you can get in, you will score sooner or later.

    If your girlfriend loves you, she will understand your feelings and understand you. If you're so tired now, you're not happy when you're really married.

    And some people have to inch in. I'm also a girl, and if I like someone, not a boyfriend, or a friend, I will understand him and won't trouble him. You're tired of it's bad for anyone.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Liberate, there is no grass at the end of the world.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you really love someone, don't care too much, but the premise is whether she is worthy of your love? At present, you should focus on your studies!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I don't think I'll be disgusted with my beloved no matter how tired I am! It would be nice if you were learning to speak clearly. I'm in a long-distance relationship, and I see each other once in a few months...

    You're all right. Sometimes give her more space. After all, you're all busy studying.

    I hope you will last a long time

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    May all wishes be fulfilled.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Missing is something that everyone has, but in any case, it is a good choice to give the other person some space appropriately, so that the other party feels that you trust her very much. Sometimes, although it is out of concern, the other party may not be able to understand your kindness, will think you are very annoying, and even feel that you do not trust her enough, in short, give the other party a little more space, give yourself more opportunities to be able to walk into the marriage hall with your beloved! I wish you all the best in the future to stand in the marriage hall and love you for a lifetime!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Hey, I can't stand it when I take the girlfriend exam once...

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Girls value men's self-motivation I don't understand how your girlfriend is like this, when you are young, everyone has nothing, they all rely on their own hard work, since you have a long-term vision, you must strive to get her understanding.

    And in this society, a family of two, your girlfriend goes to the business, you go to the career, it should be the safest choice, I think you should go on according to your own ideas.

    A family, career, and love are equally important, and when it comes to choosing, don't have either side in the film.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's not easy to be in love for six years.,If you don't find his shortcomings, you really shouldn't give up easily.。。

    And it's not a conflict. It's good that you go to graduate school and work for him.

    But in fact, I think that if there is a suitable job, it is not necessarily necessary to go to graduate school, first, it is not easy to go to graduate school, and secondly, it is very good for the two to work together.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Love continues

    Ignore the outside world. Meals are still to be eaten with him.

    I still have to go home with him.

    Sent downstairs still rejoicing.

    Love goes on.

    Academics continue to learn.

    Nothing to delay.

    I wish you all happiness and success in your studies

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You should believe in the relationship between you as much as you believe in yourself, since you have both been 6 years, then the relationship should be very stable, if you can, you can go to get a marriage certificate on the day you get your graduation certificate The graduate school entrance examination and your relationship do not conflict! I wish you all happiness

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Is it a boundary between graduate school entrance examination and love?

    I'm an undergraduate, and my GF is a graduate student. LOVE OF COURSE GOES ON ...

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I support getting married first before going to the exam.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Career first, love second.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    To answer your first question first, I also have three books, but there are a few 985 students in our school every year, as long as you are willing to pay, there will definitely be a return. The postgraduate entrance examination should pay attention to the review of English, the postgraduate English is very different from the usual English test, politics can be applied for a training class, the rest is nothing, professional courses can go to that school to get some information or something.

    I don't know what about the girls in the graduate school, but you can find the university in the 985 women, and I'm afraid I can't find it, and I have a little confidence in myself.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Haha, it's important to find a companion, but it's better to find a good teacher to cooperate with your graduate school entrance examination, it's not necessarily who regrets it when you are admitted to graduate school, others can only say that she is not blessed, right, brother, study wholeheartedly, introduce some tips for public classes to you, don't be disappointed.

    English: Words must be started to grasp, but memorizing words is too boring, it is impossible to hold a word list all day to memorize, so you can't memorize it at all, you have to start with reading, and find the words that you can't find by doing reading comprehension, at this time look up the dictionary and remember it. Then read it repeatedly, look up the dictionary repeatedly, and you can remember it after a long time.

    Composition now is not in a hurry, you think you don't even know the words and can't write, how can you write a good composition, so now the key is to memorize the words through reading, you can do Zhu Taiqi's review guide and his matching vocabulary manual, my friend just signed up for their class and read those two books, 09 years of 50 points, already very good, he said that the progress has been great.

    It is recommended that you sign up for a systematic tutorial class, and follow the teacher to know that you have a plan and learning method, and you will not take detours, and your own method may not be right. It is recommended that a more experienced and professional teacher guide the maze, ask Mr. Zhu Taiqi, and he will tell you.

    It's still early to see politics, you can wait until July to see it, and it is also recommended that you sign up for a tutorial class, because the political changes in 2010 are relatively large, so it is better to sign up for a class and let the teacher tell you what to test, or everyone has no bottom. Report to Ren Rufen's, ** cheap, the teacher is the most experienced, and the cost performance is higher.

    Anyway, if you don't report this thing in politics, you won't have a bottom in your heart, and it will be useful if you sign up for classes, at least you don't have to waste your precious time.

    Politics: Ren Rufen (Haitian, Taiqi Graduate School Teacher), the review material is "Postgraduate Political Theory Review Exam Guide".

    One, the. II.

    Three, four, a total of four.

    English: Zhu Taiqi (Taiqi Graduate School Teacher), review materials include "Zhu Taiqi's New Master's English Entrance Examination Review Guide" and "Zhu Taiqi's New Master's English Entrance Examination Vocabulary".

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Hard work will be rewarded, and everyone can succeed!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    As long as you put in the effort, you will be admitted to the ideal school. Love is hard to come by. It's as if they want to follow fate. It doesn't have to be a graduate school to have beautiful and cute girls. Hurry up and learn and don't dwell on these issues. An inch of time, an inch of gold...

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    How can it be said that change is the depth of love. You still have the sanity to know what you want to pursue. The more careful you are, the faster you will lose it.

    The difference is that I believe in this sentence, fate cannot be forced. Who can say what will happen in the future, a normal heart, cherish every day together, go if you can go down in the future, and let go and turn away if you can't go down.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Anyway, it's not very far, so I'll meet when I have the chance.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It is not easy to fall in love and go to graduate school. When you're in a dilemma, it's best to think about what you value most and focus on it. There are many things that we can only do our best and resign ourselves to the destiny of God.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Do you have to give up the graduate school entrance examination if you chase her? What if she gets in and you don't? Are you willing? So let's get in first! Academics are important!!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    All the male students I have been able to "grasp with both hands" have been admitted, and there are girls or not.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    haha!It's best not to say it now, put it in the bottom of your heart, take it as a default agreement between the two parties, and wait for the graduate school to be admitted to graduate school, and then express it, such a love is romantic and warm! As expressed, love will involve a lot of things, and she is also a person who wants to be admitted to graduate school, and she will think about it this way when you said it!

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