It s been more than 2 years, but GF says he can t forget the one in high school

Updated on amusement 2024-05-21
51 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The feeling of first love is always the best, no matter when the psychological side always leaves a small space for the first love, but it is not necessarily that he is still in love. I think you gf may be angry about the unclear breakup of the previous relationship, or he made a lot of excuses for him in his heart, I think she should have a good talk with her former boyfriend, ask the reason for the breakup, maybe the boy is because he doesn't love her anymore or feels that it is not appropriate to be together. I think it's best for you to talk clearly, when you really choose, you can understand what is most important to you, any girl wants a stable and sincere love, I believe you gf will definitely figure it out, I wish you happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I don't think you can force him, it will have the opposite effect, people will have a kind of rebellious mentality, the more you don't let him do things, the more he wants to do it, and I have a good relationship with my boyfriend now.

    But occasionally I will contact my former boyfriend, although there is still a little lingering affection for him, but the past is always gone, we couldn't be together before, we won't now, and we won't in the future, but I still have a special feeling for him, and I will have more intimacy than ordinary friends, after all, we have known each other and loved each other.

    If you really love your girlfriend, you should believe in her, believe that he can grasp this measure, and believe in you, believe that your love can influence her, so that he can cherish and treat your feelings.

    You can't force her to do anything, and even if you can, you can't force his heart.

    So all you can do is treat her well.

    Make your relationship stronger.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    To use an analogy. You used to dump the woman first. What's your mood?

    You'll always remember her, too.

    Your girlfriend is that kind of mentality.

    Even if your girlfriend is with that high school again, she will break up soon.

    Your girlfriend just thought I dumped him. Instead of liking her.

    She said he couldn't forget him. I just can't forget that he dumped her!

    Do you understand? Two years is not a long time, it is not a short time.

    If your girlfriend is sane. He will choose yours.

    You brought her. And the one from that high school brought her. The definition is different.

    No one can forget their first love. (That's it).

    She loves you and doesn't leave. If she doesn't love you, you can't keep it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    No way, generosity is graceful. Tolerance is the most important thing, because you like him, use your sincerity to impress her.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Ay. Forget it, the manly man is generous.

    If you have faith, her days will be yours.

    You've got a lot of thought about the past, and what you're doing.

    Besides, didn't you say they rarely see each other anymore?

    There is a brokeback mountain in everyone's heart, the love that can be seen but cannot be touched.

    Don't you have it in your heart?

    Be lenient.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Leave such a woman, she is not worthy of your love, guarding a person who does not love herself, do you think that is real love?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I can't forget my one, we didn't even hold hands, I can't get it, and it's easy to arouse nostalgia for what has been lost.

    I want to say that sincerity is open. "That person loved you in the past, and I will love you a hundred times more than him".

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    People always have to look forward.

    Whether it was joy or sadness, it has become a thing of the past, cherishing the present is the most realistic, and not letting the bubble of the past make you hold yourself back is the most important thing.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You have to persevere. Believe that your love is not so easy to destroy.

    Have faith in yourself.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Apart for a while... Let each other think about it ...

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If she really loves you, no one else can take it away.

    Firmly believe in this.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You shouldn't restrain her

    Personal opinion.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Why forget? People always have to leave some memories for themselves, so that they can take it out to kill time when they are bored, whether it is sweet or bitter, as long as they can move themselves, it is worth remembering, and no one has the right to deprive it. Comrade, be open-minded, if she can take a fancy to you, who she is thinking about, it will not affect the relationship between the two of you, and maybe it will also reflect your goodness, if she doesn't like you, it's useless.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Because you gf loved that person with all your heart at the time!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Don't force it, be considerate, be tolerant and maybe it will pay off, and if your feelings are genuine, don't be afraid, and don't waver.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's normal to not forget, it takes time, 2 years may be a long time for some, but it's also short.

    GF may be a very dedicated and simple person in love, such a person is easy to be deceived, and you should care about it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Can you forget your first love?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The first love will never be forgotten for a lifetime.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I can't forget the concept that is different from liking it.

    If you can tolerate it, continue to be together, and if you can't bear it, break up.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    ……Poor man.

    I think she and you just went to forget about the one in her high school where unfortunately you became a replacement.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I'm 20 years old and I can't forget the 10-year-old one.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Learn from me! I broke up with my ex-girlfriend, and I started out like you, but then I figured it out, nothing, isn't it just a breakup? Without her, wouldn't there be any other excellent girl in the world?

    In fact, the key is to look at your own mentality. To know how to give up, know how to learn. What are you doing with the impossible?

    Looking farther, there are still many interesting things waiting to be done in life. Wouldn't it be better to go to a good place to have fun while you are single, to see the outside world, and to relax by the way?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    People have to look forward, they can't always live in the past

    It's okay to be nostalgic, but you can't say it absolutely"I can't look down on all the ladies in the future"Got it? It makes me feel too naïve, do you want to hold on to the memories for a lifetime?

    You can say she's the only person you love, but she's not all you, there's still a long way to go, and you're going to meet different girls, so take advantage of it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Don't always think about her good, think more about her shortcomings, and then think about why you broke up, whether you are not good enough to bear her, then please work hard to make yourself better, I think you will be able to find a better one.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Give yourself a chance not to hang yourself from a tree and remember one thing: good horses don't eat back grass. Always keep this in mind and trust that you will get better in no time.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's really too infatuated. Envy her.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's not that you can't forget, it's that you don't want to forget.

    If you forget, you will forget.

    Fall in love with someone again.

    Don't give up an entire forest just because it's a small tree

    Hehe, that's a joke

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    A friend of mine is the same as you, I have asked him more than once, why can't he forget, since he has broken up, it means that it is in the past, and not forgetting can only make himself more uncomfortable, I don't know that feeling, but I think since the breakup means that you are not suitable, then why not learn to forget, to find your own lover.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Try to reach out to other girls, I'm just like you.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's useless if you can't forget, you can't be with her again.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Forget about her, start anew, think about everything, it's not a big deal, memories are always her best gift to you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    One should move forward and not stay in one place.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Actually, you're not opening your heart to accommodate another person.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Hopefully you can cheer up sooner. It makes sense that love can't be reluctant, just imagine, he is not with you because he loves you, even if you get him, you will not be satisfied, but the person you hold is thinking about others, it shouldn't be better than now. Of course, it is possible that things will happen in the future, but people who easily betray their feelings are not worthy of love.

    I suggest that you can do something that you have always wanted to do but did not do, your hobbies, and now you must be very impetuous, and you will feel that you have no mind to do anything. Listen to the song first and try to cry. Get a good night's sleep when you're tired.

    Wake up with a much calmer mood. And then. Do something that should be done, or what you like to do.

    Give yourself a distraction. It's better to leave yourself with no time to think. It's best to have a dream.

    Then you should have forgotten about it. After 3 months, of course, it may not take so long to think back, in fact, love, what do you like. It's really just a momentary feeling.

    In short, don't lose yourself. This is the most critical. One can correct one's shortcomings, but one must not lose oneself.

    I hope you'll be able to spend time with someone you like, but I'd suggest you find a new one. Maybe there was a lot of infatuation on TV, and the plot ended up together. However, in reality, many endings are still very cruel.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Try to be friends with him first ... Don't cling to him too much or always insist on liking him, which can cause disgust. It depends on the situation and then waits for the opportunity.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Learn to relieve loneliness in other ways and find someone who loves you.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If you're still a friend, you can contact more and see if there's a chance to get back together, but this kind of thing depends on fate, and it's useless to force it, if you want to open a little, there are still many good men in the world, and I'm a good example, hehe.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Time is the best medicine for wounds, and it will dilute everything.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It's normal to think about it, after all, it used to be a good memory

    Live more in the present, not in the past, cherish the present

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Time changes everything.

    It is impossible for us to forget a person, we can only downplay a person in our own hearts.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    I'm also a high school student who has just entered high school I have the same feelings as you Although I also have good friends in high school But I always think back to the bits and pieces of junior high school However, Wu Qinqin couldn't help but feel a little sad in her heart If you want to say whether this is a good thing or not, I don't think I can say for sure, but I think Maybe it's good or bad Maybe it's half good or bad High school is a new beginning, and the happy and unhappy in junior high school have all passed I used to like this sentence like this crazy I will never remember it and never forget it I hope you can understand this sentence The feelings of junior high school and all of them have become steam and dissipated into the air, so if you are still immersed in it, it is actually not much good for yourself, is it, a year later, maybe you will miss the life of the first year of high school, or the life of high school that you will start to miss three years later, every journey has a good memory, and you can only appreciate it after you have gone through it, as if you are now reminiscing about your junior high school life, it is the same, take your time, you will definitely be able to.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    There is no banquet in the world, sooner or later, one day will be divided into stools and noisy, look at the opening point, and then get used to it, junior high school will leave you good memories, and high school will also leave you some unforgettable memories.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I'd like to send you a word: every day is different, so it doesn't matter whether it's pain or happiness.

    It's normal that people with memories are the richest.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It's happiest to remember the past, but it's also important to grasp the present.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    People have to grow after all.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Why forget?Either go to him, or continue with your life, just like in a book it says, "Life is to walk a strange road, listen to a strange song, meet a strange person, and then suddenly find in a casual moment that the person who had worked hard to forget has forgotten so much." "I have a deep understanding of the following.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    It only takes 10 minutes to like someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone. You can see that you still like him, go find him, don't lose your happiness.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Work hard, do your job well, and try not to think about it. You can also try it out and find another one. Think more about happy things and spend more time with friends.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    You said it yourself, you can't be together anymore.

    If it's impossible, why be so persistent.

    Although it is difficult to forget a person, the more people who want to forget, they can't forget.

    Since we can't change the facts, we should try to accept the reality.

    Go and accept the days of slowly not having him!

    God just took away someone who didn't love you.

    In the future, I will give you a man who truly loves you, spoils you, and treats you as a baby!

    You don't have a relationship with him, or you don't have a relationship.

    Don't dwell on him any longer!

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Hehe, I think it's because your reflex arc is long.

    A year is not a long time, but it cannot be said to be very short.

    The reason why you can't forget him may be that you have deep feelings for him, you have too many good memories, and you have been deliberately forgetting him.

    In this way, it is impossible to forget at all.

    Remember, don't do anything deliberately, that will only backfire.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    It's not that I can't forget, but I don't want to forget.

    Every day, I talk about sadness and heartache.

    I want to forget.

    In fact, there is a voice deep in my heart that tells me to remember this person for the rest of my life and to protect the best memories between you.

    I always say I can't forget it'

    In fact, it was just a reasonable excuse for himself, and it was just an excuse for himself to remember him well.

    If you don't want to forget, forget it.

    After all, it is rare to meet someone in life that you love with your heart.

    Then remember him.

    Treat him as the most beautiful memory.

    Years later, you'll say to him with a smile.

    I'm doing well.

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