Why am I a person without love

Do you mean you don't love others or feel that no one is worthy of your love? That's because you don't know the honor of man: man is God's image of Himself, both you and others.

You may think that you are just a creature on this earth, muddy, but this is not God's intention, nor is it the true identity of man. The original identity of man is very noble, and even if he temporarily loses some of his good nature, it is still good. The first thing you have to do is to discover the goodness of people, and at the same time, you have to use your own love and behavior to draw out the love and beauty of others, because love and beauty are both attracted to each other.

Hello, I'd love to ask you questions, first of all, it starts with your life experience.

For love that can nourish people, there are quality requirements. Those conditional loves belong to low-quality love. For example:

As you want, I will be as you are. Completely unconditional love is rare, so most people, more or less, are looking for the missing part of unconditional love.

The lack of love in the heart is like the lack of nutrients in the flowers. The more is missing, the less brilliant the flowers will be. For people, let's pick a few typical ones, and the impact is mainly:

1.Lack of security, so you want to rely on someone. When you see someone who is good to you, you plunge into it and ask for it with all your might, until you scare others away, or until you find out the truth.

You don't see, scumbags are also loved, this is a reason! Most of the girls who can be deceived casually are extremely lacking in love.

2.Don't dare to express your needs. I'm embarrassed to refuse, I'm embarrassed to accept, I'm embarrassed to express my true thoughts......I feel that it is not appropriate, I feel that I don't deserve it, I feel that others are unhappy......They are all afraid of losing the favor of others and losing their love.

But I want to say, be brave and speak out, and you will get more love! Because, you help others to recognize your boundaries, your territory and your firmness in making decisions, will make you have a sense of power magic, which is very attractive!

3.He who lacks love will not love others. Yes, you read that right, people who lack too much love do not learn how to give others high-quality love from their nurturers, and this kind of learned environment does not exist, and this person grows up, and naturally he is also incapable of love.

In popular parlance, there is no ability to see each other. For example, if you put a child with a normal IQ in a confinement room, the child will of course grow up with all kinds of serious problems, but it must include:

Won't love others.

So, if you are facing the above problem, then you should be brave enough to face it and solve the problem at the root.

Why doesn't anyone like you? There may be the following reasons: first, the family economic conditions are not good, now it is the era of money worship, generally girls will choose good family conditions when they marry, if the family conditions are not good, they want good conditions, they will choose some skilled, capable, high salary objects to fall in love, as long as they have the economic ability, even if they grow into a dwarf, there are still beautiful girls to chase.

The second is that your appearance is not attractive, maybe you look very average, you don't attract a girl's temperament, you don't have a man's taste, and you will be overwhelmed by the crowd when you go to **, and it is generally difficult for this unprominent image to attract the attention of girls.

Third, the environmental impact of work. Many boys are very prominent, handsome, very strong in their work ability, and their economic conditions are also very good, but they can't find a partner, because of the influence of the working environment, there are no girls in their environment, basically all boys, and there is no opportunity to contact women, so they are single, such as doing computer science and science and engineering.

It can only be said that you are a person who has not opened your heart to yourself and to others.

Try to love your loved ones, friends, or accept the love that others have for you.

Don't think it's all fake, of course you are used to loving others and being loved.

You'll feel like you're missing out on a lot before and now.

It's not that there is no love, it's that you haven't met the person you love.

You have to try to love others before they will love you. The vulgar point is that love does not wait, it creates opportunities by itself. Discover opportunities for yourself.

Because you don't love others, others won't love you either.

Because you are too pessimistic, you have parents, friends, it is impossible that no one loves you.

Pessimistic people are characterized by unhappy and pessimistic people in their bones, and perhaps the intensity of their emotional experiences is higher, in other words, they are more sentimental. This type of person has a lot of mood swings and a more intense emotional reaction, which may be just a small thing that will trigger a big reaction.

For example, when couples quarrel, some girls cry so much that they cry, and some girls cry silently. The former also often have a strong sense of frustration when they encounter difficulties in life, all of which are controlled by genes.

Mental activity is directed to sexual characteristics.

It is often said that a person is introverted or extroverted, which actually means that their mental activities point to different positions. Some people like to get ideas and information from the outside world, such as those who are cheerful and lively, they like to talk to others, express themselves, and at the same time react positively to others and think less.

And some people like to immerse themselves in their inner world, and tend to gain new insights through reflection, reminiscence, etc. The former tend to be less preoccupied, and even if there is, attention is quickly diverted. They tend to refuse to think and tend to gain insights from actions and practices, so they are not prone to falling into sadness.

The latter often seem preoccupied, and their brains never stop resting. They reflect on what they didn't do well enough today, they plan what they will do tomorrow, and in short, they are immersed in their inner world and need more personal space.

Summary. Love is about to think when you can't see it.

What is love, why I can't love someone else, I haven't loved someone in the real sense.

Dear, glad you questioned.

Love is about to think when you can't see it.

And then I want to be together for a long, long time.

It's because of this person.

And not because.

Other. You didn't fall in love with someone because your fate hadn't come yet.

Hope mine can help you.

I don't like anyone else.

It's because you haven't met yet.

17 I haven't been in love once, and I've been in love a few times, and I've been chased by others, I can only be loved, but I just want to escape from these things.

You're too young.

Words of love. Actually, let's be honest.

It's about weighing the pros and cons.

There's the kind of love that comes from TV dramas.

Running away: I don't have any thoughts about these things other than running away.

You don't run away.

You are because of your family of origin.

Can't fall in love with someone?

I don't know, I can't even talk about liking it.

That's because I haven't met that worthy person yet.

I have seen it anyway, and I also believe in the purpose of falling in love, men will always only have a purpose to achieve and will not cherish it, and women are just enjoying the process, I haven't seen anyone who really wants to get married, I just feel that falling in love is a trade-off, yes.

Being in love is really weighing the pros and cons.

Marriage too. But there is also that kind of love.

I haven't met it either, though.

I feel that human nature is always selfish, and it will never really cherish the present, and getting married is just a bad individual who chooses to choose his limbs after weighing the pros and cons, even if he doesn't like it, but he has to live, yes.

There is this aspect. But that's how everybody lives their whole life.

How did you suddenly see so openly?