He loves me, but he has low self esteem, who can help me?

Updated on Financial 2024-05-24
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Encourage him more, be there for him when he's lonely, and talk to him!

    I'm so much like him, and I really want someone to be there for me when I'm lonely and laugh with me when I'm happy! I think introverted boys think almost like that, they really need an audience, a heart that cares about them! Because I think most introverts don't actually close their hearts, but they don't want to release their feelings in public, they are very shy and low-key!

    Unless he really has an autistic mentality, hehe! I'm sure yours he won't be like this!

    PS: From your short two lines, I think you are a cheerful, outgoing, and bold girl! Have the courage to pursue what you love!

    I admire girls like you, really! I think it's a good fit for you two to be together! It's like "my sassy girlfriend" who often bickers!

    Actually, I personally think it's much more interesting to fight than to talk about love often when two people are together! Ha ha.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Since you love him too, it's easy to do, you have to make him feel that you love him deeply, what do you love about him? This is definitely his strength, you have to encourage him to play to his strengths, re-understand himself, regain self-confidence, in front of him in terms of his advantages you ask him, you can't show too strong, I believe that he will change in this way, come on we believe you can.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You must be better than him, otherwise he won't be inferior.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The bell also needs to be tied to the bell.

    Since the reason for his low self-esteem is "worrying that in a few years he will find out that he is not the person you want", then the key is on your side, and you hold the key to untie his heart knot. You should show enough sincerity and means to make him truly feel that you love him deeply, and no matter how things change in the world, you will not change your choice. In this way, after taking the "reassuring pill", he can also rest assured that he will love you boldly, wholeheartedly and without worries, so that your love can get a qualitative leap!

    I wish you all a happy and sweet !!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    More time to spend with you, more praise, more sweet words, before that, make sure that is not a reason to shirk.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    With such a person, you will be very tired, are you ready to sacrifice, your nature is difficult to move, you have to be prepared.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You just have to behave yourself.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It depends on the individual, some people mind, some don't.

    Is the aesthetic different?,It's just that I haven't met someone who appreciates his style.,When you meet it later.,It's different.。 Don't be discouraged, a thousand Hamlets, a thousand readers. I'm only 158, my boyfriend is a little bit taller than me, I never thought about height, just because it's him, and I just met him.

    Lucky to meet him.

    Life is to see for yourself, choose for yourself, and choose more every day.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hello: In the face of low self-esteem, you can improve from the following aspects:

    1. Correctly understand yourself and improve your self-evaluation.

    Be good at discovering your strengths, affirm your achievements, and don't see others as perfect and see yourself as useless. Self-confidence can only be improved by improving self-evaluation.

    2. Correctly understand the pros and cons of inferiority complex.

    Some people regard inferiority complex as an incurable disease with disadvantages but no benefits, and thus feel pessimistic and hopeless, which is an incorrect perception. Psychologists believe that people with low self-esteem are much more likable than arrogant people, and they have many characteristics, such as: they are often very modest, good at understanding people, will not earn fame and fortune with others, are easy-going, good at thinking, cautious and cautious, steady and meticulous, value feelings, value friendship, and are generally happy to get along with them.

    Therefore, people with low self-esteem should see their own advantages, enhance their courage in life, serve their inferiority complex, and improve their self-confidence.

    3. Conduct positive self-suggestion, self-encouragement, and believe that things are done by people.

    When faced with a situation where you feel low on confidence, you might as well give yourself courage: "I will definitely succeed!" "Everybody can do it, why can't you!" "If you engage in activities with an open-minded mind, you will have confidence, do a good job, and reduce your inferiority complex.

    4. Actively interact with others.

    People with low self-esteem are often withdrawn, unsociable, and isolate themselves. Psychologists believe that in order for people with low self-esteem to overcome their low self-esteem, they must actively interact with others. Only when superfluous people interact with each other and make the mood cheerful, can we correctly evaluate others and ourselves, reduce the inferiority complex, and change the inferiority complex in the atmosphere of interacting with others.

    5. Pay attention to self-motivation.

    People with low self-esteem are generally more sensitive and fragile and cannot withstand the blows of setbacks. Therefore, if you want to deal with inferiority complex, you should pay attention not to always have extravagant expectations, and be good at self-satisfaction. Whatever you do, don't aim too high and don't get your hopes up.

    Contentment and happiness, from small successes, continue to get joy and encouragement, and gradually overcome the inferiority complex.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Let him know more about you and slowly infiltrate the content of your life. Don't rush it!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Since it is, but, even so, the appearance of him still loving you in his heart still represents a certain meaning. I have also thought about this issue carefully and have been thinking about it day and night. Vegetius once said that if you want peace, you have to prepare for war.

    This seems to answer my doubts. We have to face a very embarrassing fact, that is, he still loves you in his heart, how to achieve it. For me personally, his love for you is not only a major event, but also a life-changing one.

    The proverb sums up his life experience into this sentence, saving time is prolonging life. This sentence is like a beacon light that guides my progress, illuminating the way forward in my life everywhere. With these questions, let's examine whether he still loves you in his heart.

    The proverb once mentioned that it is about eating or home-cooked meals, and about wearing coarse cloth clothes. This sentence pierced my heart like a tattoo. Well, it's inevitable.

    I think from that point of view, right now, it's very, very important to solve the problem of whether he still loves you in his heart. Therefore, Anonymous once mentioned that there must be a rise and a failure, and there must be a benefit and a disadvantage. This sentence is like a bosom mate in my life journey, constantly motivating me to move forward.

    Generally speaking, we all have to think carefully. Understanding what kind of existence he still loves you in his heart is the key to solving all problems. From this point of view, we might as well think of it like this:

    A folk proverb once said that one man is invincible to two wise. With this in mind, we need to look more carefully at this issue: I think we have to address this issue in the face of this inevitable conflict.

    We have to face a very embarrassing fact, that is, the so-called he still loves you in his heart, the key is how to write the need for him to still love you in his heart. In life, if he still loves you in his heart, we have to consider the fact that it appeared. Generally speaking, we all have to think carefully.

    In my opinion, Bacon summed up his life experience in this sentence, man is the center of everything, the axis of the world. This sentence brings us to a new dimension to think about this question: as far as I am concerned, the meaning of his love for you in my heart cannot but be said to be very significant.

    He still loves you in his heart, how to do it, and how will he still love you in his heart. The folk proverb inadvertently says that human affection is as thin as paper. This seems to answer my doubts.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    He still loves you in his heart, but he wants to give up and disappear because of his inferiority complex and cowardice, and you don't know if he really gave up, and I don't know if he should insist, you still love her very much, I think he may have just been hit by a moment, like you said, he still loves you, and you love him very much, my advice is to hope that you can wait for a while, set a time for yourself, if he can come back, you continue, if he exceeds the time and has not returned, then separate, after all, you can't wait for him forever, And I think if you are afraid that if you don't come back for a long time, no amount of love will disappear!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    How can you hold on to it when everyone is gone, let go and move forward, there will be more suitable people who are destined to occupy your heart, just let time erase everything.

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