Is it that boys don t like trouble, and women don t like trouble, and what psychology does men have?

People are different Love you care about you if you will often call you** Now who wants to send a message If he doesn't want to send a message and don't even ** it will be quite boring I used to be in two places with my husband He played me several times a day** Every day Now I am with my husband He has another colleague and a girlfriend who has been with him for 7 years are also in two places He always calls her girlfriend** Just like her girlfriend is by his side Report everything to his girlfriend But it's not forced It's voluntary When he saw us one-on-one, he thought that his girlfriend in the field couldn't control it, so he hit ** This thing is from the heart Men and women are the same When you love, you don't know what the trouble is, if you are afraid of trouble, you will fight** and it will not be troublesome.

It's okay not to text too often, if you don't message your boyfriend after a while, I think if he cares about you, he will definitely panic and definitely send you or call.

Hehe, that's not it, I like to text very much, ** I don't know what to say when I'm always silent, your boyfriend must care about you!!

When you have time, you can send it, go to work, surf the Internet, etc., sometimes, you feel that texting is boring, and it is better to call ** directly,.

Yes, it's just that I'm not good at expressing it, and I definitely have it in my heart.

I'm a woman, and I'm troublesome.

I think that when a woman is not willing to trouble others, she should be like someone like the following, such as:

First of all, the inferiority complex in the heart. Some people have a sensitive personality and are full of low self-esteem. I never wanted to bother people for fear that my request would be denied.

In real life, they are rarely affirmed and always deny their worth. If they are denied a request after making a request, they will suffer psychological pain. Therefore, such people are never willing to disturb others.

Lack of security. From a baby born to an independent adult, it is impossible for a person to grow without family, school, and social ties. Some primitive families lack the cultivation of children's mental health, resulting in their children being insecure from an early age.

When they grow up, they rarely turn to others, including their parents, for help, even when they encounter difficulties. Even if they grow up with difficulties, they don't want to bother others to help them.

Self-esteem is relatively strong. This kind of psychological person has a strong self-esteem and indomitable character since childhood. She is reluctant to bow to others and thinks it is shameful to trouble others.

In fact, to some extent, bothering others means that the person making the request should be in a relatively low position in the relationship. At this point, we have turned ourselves into a "weak" person. How can a person with a lot of self-esteem tolerate being in a vulnerable position?

Afraid of trouble. There is also a kind of person who is never willing to trouble others, because she is afraid of finding "trouble" for herself in the future. You can say that this kind of person is selfish, or that this kind of person is very indifferent and does not understand the principle that "the grace of a drop of water should be reciprocated".

In short, this kind of person is a person with a strong psychological defense. They fear that there will be a "price" for accepting help from others. In some things that need to trouble others, they would rather take responsibility for themselves than accept help from others.

So I think when a woman doesn't want to trouble others, she should be to someone like above.

In fact, it depends on how you like it, if you only keep this like in your heart, then it will not have a big impact on him, and it will not make people feel distressed or irritated. But if you know that he doesn't like you, and you still stalk him, of course your behavior will affect his normal life, and of course it will make him feel annoyed. Therefore, there must be a degree of such liking, and you must control this degree, and don't lose the watermelon and sesame seeds.

It is the right of each of us to like someone, and sometimes we can do anything for that liking, but you have to express it in the right way. Knowing that it is impossible, you can let this feeling hide in your heart for a long time, you are still good friends, you can also use the identity of a friend to stay by his side all the time, watching him work, get promoted, get married and have children, you can feel his unhappiness for the first time, and he will also want to share the joy with you for the first time, so that the friendship between each other is not a kind of enjoyment.

In fact, how can you bear to annoy someone if you like someone? Take this matter as a normal thing, treat what you should do with a normal heart, don't be entangled in a stubborn way, and don't be reluctant. If you can't see that his happiness is given by others, then you accompany him through the most difficult road and leave in style.

That way he will only remember your goodness. Even if he marries someone else and has his own family in the end, there is a place for you in the deepest part of his heart.

If you say that you don't have such a "ruthless" heart, then I advise you to really stop bothering him, don't approach him from the beginning, so that you can watch from a distance, and it won't hurt when you turn away at the end. Maybe after a long time, you will find that the one who was stupid and liked him at that time really only liked his appearance or that liking was really just worship. You can also tell him out loud, but it should be difficult for you to be friends from then on.

If you like someone, you have to remember that you have to be a better person for this like, so that one day he does turn around, he will be the first to see you.

Liking a boy who doesn't like him will annoy him. I'll tell you a little bit about a friend of mine. <>

She is a very beautiful girl, everything is good, but her personality is a little prodigal. Since junior high school, she has been secretly in love, I will do the math, when she graduated from junior high school, I couldn't count the boys I talked to. She is also a very rebellious person, in school, although the teachers have repeatedly banned students from falling in love, but she has never listened to the teacher's words, and she has been criticized many times.

I have also been called parents many times. To be honest, I envy her occasionally. <>

When she got to high school, she talked about a boy again, that boy was on the sports team, I heard that he was more than 1.8 meters tall, and he was good at playing basketball, my God, isn't this the male god in the minds of our girls. Later, I also met that boy a few times, really good, sunny and handsome, I remember I made fun of her at the time, saying that she earned it, and she also blushed and told me that this is the boy she really likes, and she hopes that they will never break up with each other. Then in the second year of high school, we split up, I went to the science class, she was in the liberal arts class, and I heard that she and the boy were separated after not long together, and it was the boy who proposed to break up.

And after that, she didn't talk about it. I've heard from people that she's been waiting for the boy to come back and wants to continue with him. Maybe my friend is too face-saving and can't let go of it, but if they meet, they don't look at it, and the two become strangers.

But the providence is a thing that no one can say, when we repeated, the three of us actually got together in a class, and he was still at the same table, my friend was really happy, and bought food and drink for the boy every day, and even the most expensive Anmuxi yogurt I thought was the most expensive at that time, she warmed it every day and brought it to him from home to drink. The banana was also peeled for her to eat. The pocket money on his body every day basically bought cigarettes for the boy.

Seeing that my friend still couldn't let go, I asked the boy if he still liked my friend, and he said that he didn't like her, and that she did something every day that even made him a little annoying, and it was impossible for them to be together. It wasn't long before the boy got a girlfriend who wasn't mine. The friend was annoyed, and the two had a fierce fight in the class, and the two have not spoken since then.

I was angry, and ran to duty him, he said, he didn't like her from the beginning, and then he broke up because he couldn't stand her, he told me how bad his friend's temper was, that his friend's behavior was really annoying sometimes, and he didn't like such a prodigal character, how could he provoke her again. What else can I say, I can only hope that my friend can figure it out for himself.

Liking a man is not a mistake, and anyone has the right to like someone else. It would be nice to let him know, and he wouldn't feel anything? If he doesn't know, he won't know anything.

You don't want to bother him every day, you can be silently by his side and look at him, isn't this what you want most?

Treat it with a normal heart, don't harass it every day, boys also need to be free, if you take care of him like a mother, he will feel very upset, and even very disgusted with you, as soon as he sees you, he will stay away early, so the gains outweigh the losses, and girls must be arrogant, like a person is waiting for others to chase, not to chase themselves.

Just treat him as an ordinary friend, how to do it, play happily when playing, if he doesn't feel for you, it's really no feeling, no matter how much effort you put in, it's useless, just wait silently next to him, if he really likes you, he will chase you, then be with him, mutual love is love, a person lovesick is strange. <>

Don't be anxious, don't be impulsive, calm down, don't let the fire burn yourself, you still have a lot of things to do, do your own things well, become an excellent girl, an excellent girl will attract others, one day she will be attracted by your figure, what you need to do now is to make yourself work hard to become better.

Always be full of hope for the day, let yourself be full of youthful vitality, treat everyone well, everything, you do it right, and you will not disappoint you, I also have a sentence to say, this sentence is, companionship is the most affectionate confession, and then accompany a boy for a long time, the boy will also be very grateful, will treat you as a treasure in his heart, he will not know, one day he will find that when he finds out is when your happiness comes, you don't need to do anything, Just wait silently.

This one is for sure, if I'm pestered by someone I don't like, I'm definitely going to feel annoyed! And it's going to hate this guy!

It depends, if the guy really doesn't like you or even hates you a little, you pursue her like this, and she will feel troubled herself.

Not necessarily. While a guy doesn't hate someone or something, which can be understood as having a neutral or positive attitude towards them, it doesn't necessarily mean that they like it. Liking is a more accumulating emotion that involves a deeper level of connection and emotional investment.

A boy's attitude towards a person or something can be influenced by a variety of factors, including personal tastes, hobbies, values, etc. They may maintain an indifferent or neutral attitude towards some things and do not express clear likes or dislikes. In addition, the level of liking also varies from person to person, and different boys may have different levels of liking for the same thing.

Therefore, to determine if a guy likes someone or something, it is best to communicate and communicate with them directly to understand their thoughts and feelings. It is only through communication and understanding that we can get a more accurate picture of the boys' preferences and attitudes.

A boy says he doesn't hate you, he definitely doesn't really hate you, even if he doesn't really like you, he really loves you, at least he won't hate you, and he treats you like an ordinary friend. Hates a person, that is a very dislike of a person, or even dislikes him, and since a man says that he doesn't please you, it proves that he hasn't hated you to that extent. <>