Shouldn t you get married without savings, what do you think?

I like a quote from "Lovers in Paris", "There's no reason to fall in love with someone." When you fall in love, everything about her becomes a reason." And the best way to love someone is to give them a good family, which has nothing to do with whether they have savings or not.

If there is love, there will be bread, and there is no fixed order between the two.

When two people are together, they can not have much savings, but they can't be without all the time.

When my aunt married my sister-in-law, my sister-in-law was still a poor boy and the family conditions were not good, but my aunt didn't care. At that time, the sister-in-law felt that her conditions were poor, and she didn't dare to mention the matter with her aunt, but the aunt took the initiative first. The aunt said that she had taken a fancy to the person of the sister-in-law, and she was not afraid of hardship, and she believed that he would definitely be able to give her happiness.

When they got married, they didn't have a banquet or anything, so they simply got a certificate, and the two families sat at the same table and ate a meal, which was considered to be a marriage. After getting married, the sister-in-law wanted her aunt to live a good life, so she worked hard.

Later, the two also opened a clothing store together. The sister-in-law is responsible for the purchase, the sister-in-law looks after the store, and if she is free, the sister-in-law will also do some private work with others. In this way, life gradually got better, and the two of them also had some savings, so they were ready to have children.

Later, my aunt's business became bigger and bigger, and my aunt didn't have to go to the store, so she basically took care of the children at home and did something she liked. Now they are still in a good relationship. My sister-in-law often said that everything he had was brought to him by his aunt, and without my aunt, there would be no my own present.

So it doesn't matter if you don't have savings when you get married, as long as you have a motivated heart, be a down-to-earth doer, and work hard for your family, everything is not a problem. I'm afraid, I'm afraid, I don't have savings before marriage, and I still have to live a good life after marriage.

If you love each other enough, then both of you please do everything you can to convince your family that it is up to you and your boyfriend to fight together.

<>First of all, ideally, you will finally achieve the right result after sharing weal and thin. Realistically, what about the arrangement of the wedding room? What should I do with the wedding wine?

What about renovation? What should I do if I accidentally have a baby? I'm not against an ideal union, but let's be realistic, getting married without savings is irresponsible to each other.

Marriage is just a formality, and life doesn't treat you very gently just because you get married, it only treats you harder. Money is the foundation of your marriage, and it is useless to talk about feelings without the foundation.

There is a house at home, the house is all decorated, it is for us to get married, set up wine, wedding photos, ceremony, car, honeymoon, and the man's parents are all included.

Didn't you say you wanted to save up to buy a house? It's still hard, it's hard.

Yes, I used my family's new house for marriage, this house is in my father's name, and we will buy another house for both of us after we get married.

With a question mark on his face, I said that I would take out the money to buy a car and pay a down payment to buy a house, and you told me, why do you want so many houses? Why buy a house?

I'm sorry, I mean now that we have a place to live, there is no need to rush to buy a house now, the transportation is very inconvenient, and it is difficult to move an inch without a car, so we decided to solve the problem of the car first.