Should you continue to entangle with your ex who doesn t know whether you love you or not?

There's no need to dwell on your ex anymore. Although you don't know if your ex loves you or not, but since you are already your ex, don't continue to entangle, there must be a reason for your separation at that time, so even if the entanglement continues, the two of you will get better again, then they will be separated again because of the same thing in the future. Since separation is a common choice for the two of you, then don't continue to entangle, it's good for both parties.

Love is just something you love and I want, but sometimes you have to have your own basis, and you can't blindly believe in love.

No one can really understand love, everyone is insignificant in the face of love, since we don't have the courage to love strangers, then love our precious self, even if it is the ex, we must have the idea of loving ourselves, and we can't blindly entangle with the ex. If you are separated, there is no need to get back together, if you get back together, then you will break up again for the same reason as before, everyone is equal in front of love, there is no need to humble yourself to the dust. The ex is already the ex, it's gone, as the saying goes, "a good horse doesn't eat grass", so don't do unnecessary entanglement with your ex.

Love is an inscrutable word, and some people have not figured it out all their lives, but love brings us a different kind of sweetness. If you break up with your lover, then don't pester each other anymore, breaking up is a matter that needs to be carefully considered, if you break up easily, then it means that it is not important in the other party's heart, since you have said that you have broken up, then don't entangle with your ex anymore.

Regarding whether you should continue to entangle with your ex who doesn't know whether you love you or not, in fact, when you think about this question, you already have the answer in your heart, but you don't want to let yourself make this decision, and you still want to deceive yourself.

It's like girls who know that the other person doesn't love them, but they always have to find some clues that he loves you, as if they will feel better like this. But in a relationship, sometimes we have to learn to stop losses, especially if you don't know if the other person loves you or not.

If it's just two lonely hearts looking for someone to talk to for comfort when they are empty, then this person is still familiar with the past and has the closest relationship, and it seems that there is no problem, but they are actually digging a hole for themselves.

Maybe you used to love each other, but there must be a reason why you broke up. After breaking up, they are still entangled with each other, and they are not clean, aren't they playing hooligans under the banner of their ex? Shouldn't the correct posture for a breakup be a return to a relationship that is just to know each other and not to be disturbed?

Otherwise, what's the point of breaking up?

Even if you go through something with each other after you break up, and for some reason you clearly get back together again, it's better than such an unclear entanglement. Staying together in a clear relationship is a sign of respect for each other.

In your relationship, it's clear that you care more about the guy, and you don't know the guy's attitude. Except for the relationship that you are ex, you are now in an ambiguous relationship. The boy's attitude towards you is not to take the initiative, not to refuse, not to express his position.

Even if he takes the initiative to find you, it is likely that he will just use you as someone to pass the time. Although it hurts to say this, it is true that many people who are in this state have a good psychology.

So for your situation, if you still have a trace of fantasy in your heart, please take the initiative to pierce the window paper, either get back together, or break it clean, so as not to delay each other to find the right person.

This is indeed a very complicated matter, after all, this is your ex, a person who has had a relationship with you, and a past relationship may have failed for some reason, and even left you with a psychological trauma or emotional shadow. Your ex is still struggling with you, so here's my advice to you:

The first point, that is, the first thing you have to do is to confirm whether you really still love your ex, because your ex has been pestering you, but this only means that he wants to save the relationship with you, the key is whether you still love him? If you don't have this person in your heart, I don't think you should have anything to do with him, and if you still love him in your heart, then you can consider starting over with him.

The second point is that you have to confirm whether the previous contradictions or problems between you still exist, because your previous breakup can be said to have a reason, or there are problems, if these problems still exist, I am afraid that even after you get back together, the same problems will be highlighted after getting along for a while, such as sometimes there are flaws in the personality of one party, and then there is nothing to do and always like to lose your temper, I think this is often irreconcilable, and you can only choose not to entangle with your ex.

The third point is that you have to determine whether he is true love for you, which I think you can add some tests, don't let him pursue you again so quickly, even if you have the idea of getting back together, don't say it, but keep a certain distance from him, but don't reject him so early, so that if he can continue to pursue you, I think you should be sincere, and it is better to get back together at this time.

No, because there has already been a relationship, this ambiguous status quo still has to end as soon as possible.

I think that since I have become an ex, and you still don't know whether you love him or not, then I think you should decisively cut off all contact with him.

I think if he really has no feelings for you, it's better not to dwell on it anymore, after all, he doesn't have feelings for you either, so if you are together, it will also be a harm to yourself.

I think there's a passage that suits you perfectly:

I was walking on the road and met you.

Everyone nodded and smiled, and went on a journey together.

The edge is deep and shallow, and the edge is gathered and scattered.

Break up when it's time to break up, and meet again when it's time to get back together.

You don't have to climb the fate. Just follow the fate, no need to force it.

Be sure to ask, but you have to protect yourself. He took the initiative to break up with you, he probably didn't like you, and he probably knew that you still liked him and was taking advantage of your liking for him. Women must learn to protect themselves, and only if you love yourself more, others will respect you.

There must be a problem with character, since I don't like it anymore, I still entangle you, and I can't let you go, it's very contradictory, I can only say that he treats you as a spare tire, if there is a suitable one, he will kick you away, if not, just continue with you.

I think the ex took the initiative to break up with you, he must not love you anymore, and then he came to you again, maybe he just wanted to use you as a spare tire, and it is the best choice for such an ex to break up and not contact again.

My ex took the initiative to break up with me and said that he didn't love me, but he still came to me and entangled with me, should I ask him if I should ask him. Maybe it's a man who drags mud and water. You can make things clear about him. Don't be vague and delay your time.

He may want to treat you as a spare tire, because he doesn't love you anymore, and after breaking up with you, he didn't find the right person, so he continued to pester you, think about it, if you don't love him that much, there is no need to be nostalgic, because you can find someone who loves you very much, aqui te amo.

I've broken up and told you that I don't love you anymore, and now I'm still pestering you, you should ask your ex why he did this, since he said he didn't love me, we broke up, please don't bother and harass me.

It is estimated that he treats you as a spare tire, and thinks that you will definitely accept him, so he maintains it with you like this, and if he can't find a better one, he will get back together with you, and if there is, then ignore you. Personally, I don't think you need to talk to him, just ignore him, and if you break up, it's best not to disturb each other.

It depends on whether you still love him, and you shouldn't care about this kind of person. You just tell him directly, don't come to harass me, we can't do it, if you come again, I'll call the police, let him die, don't bother her.

Since you've broken up, why bother with it, I don't think you should have this way even if you love you, but if you love him too, choose to get back together, maybe you will cherish each other more in the future.

You yourself don't feel like him, you just treat him as a regular friend.

Now that you've broken up, there's no need to dwell on it, you don't have to bother at all, and find your own happiness!

Then you should ignore him, and you have to have your own point of view to draw a line with him.

When it is broken, it is broken, otherwise it will be messy if the cut is not straightened.

Whether it is in a relationship or in a marriage, quarrels are an inevitable thing, after all, even if your relationship is good, there will be times when there are conflicts, and once there is a conflict, then it is not far from quarrels. But in fact, quarrels are not a big deal, it can be said that as long as they are handled properly, they will hardly have any impact on your relationship, but can sometimes deepen the bond with each other. Of course, it also depends on whether your handling is appropriate, and some people are really bad at handling it, which will have a great impact on their feelings.

And sometimes you will find that your man seems to ignore you completely after a fight, which makes you feel very uneasy, and once thought that the other party was going to break up with you. But it's very unlikely, and many times they do it for another reason. Generally speaking, a man completely ignores you after a quarrel, it's just because of these three reasons, don't fall for him!

If it were me, if I knew that I would never get back together with my ex, then I would definitely not have to entangle again, because I knew that it was impossible, so why would I force myself like this? And it's just going to make people look at your jokes and make them look down on you. If he really wanted to get back together with you, he wouldn't let you do it, and he wouldn't let you take the initiative so much, and he would have brought it up himself.

I think in love, in addition to feelings, the most important thing is a dignity, when together, just be together, if you don't love, then decently separate, and now I know that it is impossible to have any results with each other, then I might as well simply let go, from now on you take your Yangguan Road, I cross my single-plank bridge, and it is also the best thing to not get along with each other.

If you don't have a possibility of getting back together with him, it is likely that he already has a new partner, and in this case, if you stick to him, it will be a big problem for her and her new partner. And the two of them will also jointly look down on you, thinking that you can't let go of this relationship, after all, everyone walks away so freely, and you are still addicted to this relationship and can't extricate yourself.

Love well when you love, and leave a decent look for yourself and each other at the end, don't do too much indifferent entanglement, this is a meaningless thing, it will only make you humble to the dust, but it will not bloom. To be precise, it's a very meaningless thing, because even if you pester him, he won't be with you anymore, but will let him and the people around him see your jokes. Instead, he will think that his decision to break up with you was the right one, otherwise you will pester him for a longer period of time, which will make him very uncomfortable and his new partner even more uncomfortable.

Of course, I won't pester each other anymore, because I know that this relationship is completely gone, so I won't bother each other's lives.

I'm not going to dwell on it, because now that I know the outcome, the two of us won't get back together, so why bother.

I don't dwell on it, even if I love my ex again, I won't dwell on it if I know there is no possibility of getting back together.

Love is happy and sweet, and each of us pursues to have the most perfect love and get the most satisfying love. But the reality is often not as you want, and once you find that you are not suitable for each other with your lover, the two will break up. ......After a breakup, some people will continue to focus on their ex's life, but I don't do that.

The reason why I don't pay attention to my ex's life after a breakup is because there is no relationship between two people after a breakup, it makes no sense to pay attention to each other, it will deepen my emotional pain to pay attention to my ex's life after a breakup, and I should look forward after a breakup and not always look back on the past.

1. After the breakup, the two people have no relationship, and there is no point in paying attention to each other.

For two people who are in love with each other, love is the bond that maintains their feelings and relationships with each other. Once this bond is broken, the two people break up. At this time, there will be no relationship between the two people, and there will be no more joint and stupid ties between each other.

Therefore, it makes no sense to pay attention to the life of your ex in such a situation.

2. Paying attention to your ex's life after a breakup will aggravate your emotional pain.

Although two people who are in love may break up rationally because they are not suitable for each other, after all, after falling in love, there will still be deep feelings between two people. ......When two people break up, although they no longer contact each other, that emotion will still remain in their hearts. At this time, if you pay attention to the other person's life, it is bound to aggravate your emotional pain, which is very detrimental to yourself.

3. After the breakup, you should look forward and not always look back on the past.

Although it is painful to break up in love, when everything is over, we cannot always live in the shadow of the past, let alone always look back on the past and give up on the future. ......We should raise our heads, look forward, and welcome our new life with a new state of prudence, so that we can pursue a happy life.