Have your parents ever invaded your privacy?

There were. It was in junior high school, the first and only time.

When I was in junior high school, I had a habit of writing letters with my friends. After graduating from elementary school, I went to school in another city. At that time, I didn't have a mobile phone, and I didn't have a ** at home, so I could only contact my friends through letters.

We will tell our secrets in our hearts, just like writing a diary to convey our emotions. I have a friend who, because she is older than me, talks about her boyfriend very early and often shares with me about her relationship with her boyfriend. Once she asked me if I had anyone I liked, and I wrote to her about a boy I liked in my class.

In this way, many times in the letter, they talked about the people they liked each other and said something from their hearts.

My parents never had the habit of looking through my things. One is because they're really busy, and the other is because they think I don't have any secrets. So I don't have a habit of locking cabinets, and those letters are left everywhere.

There were several letters about people I liked, and I put them under the pillow.

My mother saw that the weather was very good, so she was ready to take out my quilt to dry, and wash the sheets by the way. She saw a pile of letters under my pillow as she made the bed, and probably out of curiosity, she read mine. The letters frightened her, she thought I was secretly in love at school, and she called her dad to see them.

That day, the class was going to have a blackboard newspaper, and I went home late, and I didn't get home until about 7 o'clock. They were already very angry when they saw me coming back so late, and thought I was fooling around with the little boy. As they spoke, they went into the letter, and when they learned that they had read my letter, I lost my temper with my parents for the first time.

I locked myself in my room and cried for a long time, never trusting my parents again, and the next day I went to the supermarket and bought a small lock, and locked up all my private things in that cabinet.

I'm glad I have a pair of enlightened parents who never invade my privacy. If your parents invade your privacy, don't know how to be afraid, don't worry, they are also for your own good, there is a pair of parents in the world who are not for the sake of their children, they look at your things, in fact, sometimes they just want to know you better, you can try to communicate with them, tell them that you are very unhappy to see your privacy, if they want to know what you are, you can call them to ask you, you should also reflect on yourself, why parents want to see your privacy, Is it that you usually talk to them less, so there are two sides to everything, and you have to reflect on yourself.

No. Growing up, my parents respected my world.

Unless you want to turn against your parents, there's no good way to go about it.

As the saying goes, it is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs, even if there is an external intervention, it can only play a role in alleviating at most, and cannot solve the substantive problem, so either he is financially independent and moves out to live by himself; Either let yourself have no privacy, and there will be no so-called invasion.

If you are a minor, the privacy in your mind is actually nothing great in the eyes of your parents, because they have experienced it, therefore, for you, there is no real privacy with your parents, even if it is some menstrual problems, you can ask your parents for help. Perhaps the most fearful thing for young people to let their parents know is love (early love), but even if they let their parents know, it is not a bad thing, and wise parents can better guide you to avoid letting you be hurt and affect your future.

In fact, for you, as long as your parents don't make a big deal about what you think is 'privacy', it is not unacceptable, the key is to have a good communication mentality.

Personally, I think that everyone is an independent individual after birth, everyone has their own privacy, and as a parent, they can't interfere with their personal privacy, if the parents seriously interfere with their privacy, or even use violence and other means, you can call 110 to call the police.

How old are you? If you have the ability, stay away, if you don't have the ability, endure it, or make it clear to your parents. If they still don't respect you, you have to stay away from them.

I feel the need to tell parents that children are also independent people and have their own opinions.

What about parents violating an individual's privacy? Sometimes you have to communicate well with your parents and let them understand you, so that you can avoid a lot of problems.

No matter how you say it, you can't do anything Actually, you can talk to them about not caring too much about you, and don't think about anything else.

Legal Analysis: When parents violate their children's privacy rights, the best solution is for children to take the initiative to communicate with their parents, explaining that their behavior is disrespectful to themselves and also an infringement of citizens' privacy rights. If parents are stubborn, they can turn to school teachers or even relevant departments to help negotiate a solution.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1032: Natural persons enjoy the right to privacy. The privacy rights of others must not be infringed upon by any organization or individual by means such as espionage, invasion, leakage, or disclosure.

Privacy refers to the tranquility of a natural person's private life and the private space, private activities, and private information that he or she does not want others to know.

1) Intruding on the tranquility of others' private lives by means such as **, text messages, instant messengers, e-mails, leaflets, etc.;

2) Entering, photographing, or peeping into other people's residences, hotel rooms, or other private spaces;

3) Photographing, peeping, eavesdropping, or disclosing the private activities of others;

4) Photographing or peeping at the intimate parts of another person's body;

5) Handling the private information of others;

6) Infringing on the privacy rights of others in other ways.

1. It shouldn't be counted, but it's not right to do so, in the cognition of many parents, children are always children, no matter how old or young they are, parents can unconditionally participate in or even interfere with everything about their children. But in children's cognition, when they grow up to a certain age, with the awakening of self-awareness, whether it is life or future development, their psychology has already planned, and they do not want their parents to make decisions for themselves in everything. Even if it is an intimate relationship, respect is the premise.

2. In fact, everyone will have their own "little secrets" and unique social circles in the process of growing up. When these are violated, everyone will get angry and build a higher social defense against the "other person" who violates them, damaging mutual trust. Therefore, to a certain extent, one of the prerequisites for the healthy maintenance of the intimate relationship between parents and children is to respect each other's privacy.

But this is not to say that both parents and children are silent about each other's concerns, but rather to take a more comfortable and gentle approach to find a fulcrum that balances their relationship. 3. Children need private space and personal belongings, whether it is a favorite tree, a book in the corner of the closet, or a tent on the sheets. They need to understand that while they can't turn their parents away.