I m so unconfident in love now, so conflicted.

It depends on your choice, a man in charge should look at this matter rationally, if you really love her, do it with your heart, if you still want to meet better and more beautiful in the future, then you don't want to hurt her.

Let go or continue?

You don't even have the courage to try, so how can you let go?

Now retreat, you will certainly not be together.

Now confession is still possible.

If you don't try it, how can you know the answer?

You said no?

First of all, this is because people have been getting along with people for a long time, and it is inevitable that they will fall in love for a long time. But you don't even know if there is a other party in your heart now, you still don't know, how to decide? If you have the other party, you will struggle.

Men prefer women, women also prefer men, please see the color clearly when you fall in love! Since you like it from the bottom of your heart, don't give up. A woman doesn't have to be pretty to attract you, but her temperament has conquered you, as you say, there seems to be a charm that attracts you.

Haven't you tried to think about anything? If you really like it, you have to have the courage to face it, and if you are not sure about your feelings, then wait a lot, don't hurt others and hurt yourself.

Love over time!!

The answer you want should be told to you by the girl you like.

Since you're sitting in the trap, you have to find someone who can run the house and help you with ideas. It's too beautiful, and it probably won't help you anything other than helping you spend money.

When you are stable, what do you want when you really get up?

Be brave enough to confess to her, get along more and get along with more feelings. I'm sticking with you.

Here are three ways to regain your confidence in love.

1. Forget all kinds of unsatisfactory and betrayal in the past.

Because what causes a person not to believe in love is nothing more than the failure of the previous relationship. Your other half is very bad to yourself, or a cynical person, or a very material person, which affects your view of love. When a woman is hurt, her heart will no longer open easily, it will not open easily, not that it will no longer open.

2. Read more books that are positive to the public.

Because some positive energy books bring us some positive effects, they can guide us, so that we don't have to be afraid of failure, so that we have the courage to challenge, which is also helpful for us to regain our confidence in love.

Then you can also get to know more about those who are very happy together. Because happy people will tell you that love has always been there and never left, what they have experienced, some of the ways they get along, and some feelings may be able to drive you and make you have a longing for love. The last aspect is that you should know how to be hopeful about life, only if you are hopeful about life and believe that the future will be better, so that you will believe in love.

3. Meet the right person.

When you meet the right person, you will regain confidence in love, maybe it is not as vigorous as you thought before, but it is to make you feel excited, let you feel a kind of happiness, maybe you feel that love will not come to you again, but at that moment you just feel that love is not far from yourself.

So if a woman wants to regain confidence in love, she still has to wait slowly, you have to believe that there will be a right person waiting for you, he will tolerate your little temper, and he can accept those shortcomings in you, just because that person is you, when you haven't met him, you have to work hard to make yourself excellent, so that when you meet the right him, you will have enough courage and confidence to be worthy of him.

The above is the way to have faith in love, go ahead and try it.

Then consider breaking up. Good love should not make you suffer from gains and losses, you will show that the other person does not give you enough security, maybe separation is a better ending.

You have to think about whether you love him or not, and if you love him, you tell him how you feel and see what he does. If you don't love him, breaking up as soon as possible is also a relief.

Don't think so much, love is a natural thing, don't lock your heart, you need to accept love peacefully.

If you don't have confidence in your love, it may be that you don't love each other enough, so it is recommended that you communicate and find out what the problem is, and see how to solve it.

Love without faith should not be together, because love is mutual, equal to each other, and without faith there will be a feeling of inferiority.

I think you can calm down, think about it, improve your self-confidence, relax your mind, learn to trust yourself, and believe that you will have a good love.

If you don't have faith, then break up, if you don't have faith, then what are you still doing together? Don't break up early, I'm looking for a new one.

I think I should strengthen my confidence, go out with my lover more, as long as my confidence will be very strong, I will have confidence when I talk to him.

I think you can calm down and think about it, try to improve yourself, and communicate with the other person to find the reason for your lack of confidence and overcome it.

Don't think too much about it first, watch while walking, break up if you really can't do it, there is no shortage of love in this world, you will always find a love that suits you.

Go with the flow, this kind of psychological suggestion is better for you, so when you face yourself withdrawing, comfort yourself like this, good and bad lovers or love just go with the flow. Quieting our emotions and psychology is conducive to learning to accept the arrival of love, we are eager for love, but we are afraid of love. Only by convincing ourselves to wait with peace of mind and accept it calmly will we have the opportunity to taste love.

What love is, I don't know, is it two people in love, I can't tell if it's love or something else. When I like him, I want to take him for myself, and try my best to achieve this goal, at that time, I didn't think about what I would do in the future, and then the relationship was determined, and we got along, and experienced what all lovers will experience, but each of us feels different, and the experience may be similar but different things. There will be some growth or deepening of the relationship.

We don't know what it will turn out to be, so why should you worry about love, those sadness that belongs to love belong to those who have experienced it, not your own love. So, don't let those sad emotional experiences affect you, you need to experience it for yourself and tell the good from the bad.

First of all, you have to know yourself in all aspects. Why don't you have confidence in yourself? What are you not confident enough about?

In love, you don't have faith because you care too much about the relationship, and you suffer from gains and losses. Love is beautiful, and you put it in the forefront. You want something in return for your efforts. You want the one you love to give you the same love.

In love, you don't have confidence, perhaps because the other person is better than you in many aspects. So you feel that there is a sense of distance between you, and you are afraid that one day you will not be able to keep up with him, and the relationship will be broken.

I've had this experience before. When I was in love, the other party was much better than me, and he was better than me in all aspects of study, life and work. The other party is well-informed, and I feel like a lonely person.

Often, many times it is reflected in personal taste. At that time, I thought I was not good-looking, why did you choose me? Why did you choose me if you were not in good shape?

If you don't have a family, why did you choose me? There have been countless moments when I felt so unreal. She is beautiful, excellent, kind, generous, well-off, and modest.

Why did such a good person end up in love with me?

But she brought me a lot of different scenery. It made me see that people should continue to improve themselves at all times. Only by having hobbies and embracing oneself and learning to love oneself can we love others better. Only when you have the ability to love yourself can you have the ability to love others.

I went from low self-esteem at the beginning to a sunny, confident and responsible man five years later, and I am very grateful for her company and encouragement. I hope that I can get better and give her a happier life in the future.

I also hope that you will have confidence in yourself, adjust your mentality, live every day, make yourself more fulfilling, learn a little bit every day, and improve a little bit every day. Make yourself better and better!

Everyone has a different understanding of love and has their own definition, some people think that love is to not be lonely, some people think that love is to reproduce, and some people think that love is particularly beautiful and ......sweetBut not everyone yearns for their own love, some people are afraid of the coming of love, some people are looking forward to the coming of love, but I think the advent of love will always come when you should come, don't be afraid of the time sooner or later, it will always be yours, and the last will be the best, you must have confidence in yourself, don't be afraid, there is a solution to everything, don't let yourself have fear, face it bravely.

The first time I fell in love was when I graduated from junior high school, it would be really an ignorant teenager, I never thought that I would fall in love so early, in junior high school, I always resisted this kind of thought, I told myself that I don't want to fall in love, I won't fall in love. Maybe it's affected by my family, because my parents' relationship is not very good, so I've always been very resistant to falling in love, I have always had a shadow in my heart, I think I will be hurt if I fall in love, and I haven't felt sweet love and married life. But after graduating from junior high school, the boy confessed to me, and I always refused, I told him that I was not in a relationship, and I refused.

But my girlfriends all persuaded me to try to accept him, this boy is very good to you, you can try to have a relationship, but I told them I resisted, I didn't want to.

After a while, because they are very affectionate, their love is very beautiful and sweet, they told me that I must believe in myself, don't let myself not believe in love with a failed example, there will always be a sweet love that belongs to you, that is someone else, it does not mean that you will not have sweet love. As long as you are serious and have three views of two people, you will have a very beautiful love, it is normal to quarrel, it depends on how both parties deal with it, emotional things are on both sides, not everyone is pessimistic love, you must believe in yourself I can have a beautiful love. Believe in yourself from the bottom of your heart, always tell yourself that I can do it, and don't let fear defeat you.

A beautiful love will definitely belong to you.

The main reasons for low confidence when facing feelings are as follows:1You care too much about your feelings, and you take the gains and losses in your relationship too seriously; 2.When love comes, you are always the weaker of the two.

Another thing you need to understand is that although everyone will become a fool in love and become like crazy to please each other, the premise of wanting to have love is equality. No matter what kind of love, one of the necessary conditions for it to happen is the equal mentality of both parties. If two people are no longer equal in love, then this love will inevitably face a lot of problems, and even end up in the opposite side.

So before choosing a relationship, think twice about whether you are equal in all aspects if you are together. After thinking about it, if you feel that you can be together, it means that you are equal, and you can go on for a long time, and there will be no more problems with lack of confidence.

Life is not short, but it may not be enough to make up your mind to make a brave choice for yourself. Life is not long, but it is enough to give up. Therefore, when facing feelings, please be more confident, less hesitant, if you make up your mind to pursue a love after a long thought, then choose bravery, otherwise you will face more unhappy than the previous long thinking.

Make a brave and confident bet with your own life, after all, you have to live with life for a long, long time, and you have to look at yourself at every moment.

I've heard so many great truths, but I still can't live this life. Especially when it comes to love, there is never a fair word, well, there is always a lingering question between choosing someone who loves you or choosing someone you love. Can't make up your mind.

Everyone longs to be the one who has the advantage in love and the one who is loved.

But this problem comes, there is always an inferiority complex at work in love.

When I was with my boyfriend, I said to him, "I am willing to be better and better for the two of us." After that, in our good days, this thought ran through my whole heart. During that time, I was also under a lot of pressure, and I always felt that I was not good enough to be worthy of him, and when would I be able to become thin and excellent.

The more I think about it, the more sad I feel, and the more I think about it, the more I feel inferior, and I have no self-confidence.

This mentality caused me to think a lot, and sometimes when he joked that I was like a pig, I would cry in annoyance, thinking that he was disgusted with me when he said this. I love to look at his eyes and face when I talk and do things, and I am very afraid of him. We had an argument over this, and he didn't understand why I was so timid.

He hated my lack of self-confidence, and I hated my low self-esteem.

Then we got into an argument over a trivial matter, and we talked all night, and he spoke to me like my brother. Through this night's conversation, I also understood that two people are equal together, and it is good for me to want to be perfect, and I don't have to feel sorry for my shortcomings and not worthy of him. He chose to be with me because he wanted to, and two people who can't see the disadvantages together will also be the advantages.

Now I am very confident in front of him, and when I get along with him, I only think about how much he loves me, and our relationship is getting better and better, and we are getting better and more tacit. A person must have self-confidence, especially in a relationship, loving someone is to become excellent, but this is my own business, the most important thing for two people to be together is to be happy. Being able to tolerate each other is the key to keeping love fresh.