I don t have confidence in my future, I always miss the past, what should I do

Sad state of mind, man still forward.

Set your mindset and time won't stand still because of your nostalgia. Figure out what you want, and then go for it.

<> recognize the reality, and then insist on the impact of reality on people, so that people no longer believe in hope, but are unwilling to despair all the time, then the meaning of recognizing reality is that we accept those cruel facts, we accept that we are born unfair, accept the imperfection and even ugliness of the world, accept the deceitful, naïve and absurd group communication, accept our own limited ability, and accept that the gap between ourselves and others is very big.

Acceptance, is not to compete, not to compete with reality, but not to compete with yourself, acceptance, does not mean compromise, because you have no prospects, life is a mess, so you are at a loss to mix, but after recognizing, choose to insist, seemingly humble persistence, why? Because I can't help it, <>

In fact, in today's society, even if I don't say it, most readers and friends will understand such a truth, the longer you work hard, the more you gain, and this more is not to subvert your own life, but compared to people who are messing around, there are indeed more advantages, more, not more, so why do we work hard for these "few advantages"? Or the same sentence, because there is no way, if you want to be stronger than others, that is, from these few advantages, little by little accumulation, little by little change, lucky, or people with high understanding, may seize it because of the appearance of an opportunity, it will change from not much, to more unattainable, more enviable, more unbelievable, so if unfortunate, if the understanding is very low?

The accumulation of life is like a snowball, in the process of your continuous correction of direction, you are walking more and more steadily, and you can clearly feel the changes brought about by the harvest, such as fitness, a person who does not exercise all year round, begins to adhere to systematic training, does not need to insist for a long time, half a year, only half a year, the physical change will be obvious, and the spiritual change, only he is the clearest, further, when the person develops the habit of insisting on fitness, his physical state, The mental outlook will be positively improved for a long time, and the gap will often widen, and the more it will be stretched, the more unattainable it will be.

The confidence in the future is given by yourself, and there are some words that you may have understood early on, but you just didn't do it, and you didn't do it for various reasons, is it really impossible to do it? Is it really that you don't have time to do it? No, in fact, you might as well start with persistence, give yourself a chance, don't think about the future first, just say now, let yourself develop a good habit that you want to develop a long time ago, and change from now on, will let you gradually understand that all the efforts you have made now are for the future, and you are working hard for the future and future self-confidence:

The biggest surprise in life may be a chance, a coincidence, a possibility, but the most valuable surprise in life is the hope you give yourself.

See what you do every day and what lessons you've learned. How these experiences can help you in the future.

I recommend the book "The Four Teachings of Liaofan".

Confused? Hehe.

.No one will know what the future path is, it's not that you lose confidence, it's just that you don't dare to face it, you are afraid of failure, what you believe is: I will be confused in failure, lose myself in confusion.

If you believe you can succeed! Your future is well organized in your plans.

You have dreams, you have beliefs, you can take on the responsibilities that a person should have, you have slowly become mature, Lady Luck must be by your side, what are you afraid of at this time? Do you still need to be confused at this time?

I firmly believe that I can succeed; I firmly believe that my future is beautiful and wonderful; I firmly believe that 'nothing can stop me from reaching the other side of victory!'

Have you been bored all the time?

Have you been living with a deep sense of guilt and guilt?

Forgive yourself. Forgive others.

When you laugh, you will be happy, and when you are happy, you will laugh!

Fill yourself up, laziness is a breeding ground for fear.

Stop being anxious, irritable, and self-blaming because you have nothing to do.

I hope you can cheer up, all difficulties are just a dirt bag, and no mountain can stop you from moving forward.

！You can always stand at the pinnacle of victory, I believe in you!

The road ahead is very long, and if you lose confidence in yourself, who will have confidence in you. Please cheer up, step by step and move forward, even if the road ahead is very confused, now you are a blind man, but you can also grope forward step by step, there will always be a day when you will reach the destination. Don't be in a hurry and lose faith.

German man Eckhart Tolly:

When I was 29 years old, I was living in a state of anxiety and anxiety, and I often had terrible feelings.

The silence of the night, the vague outline of the furniture in the dark room, the noise of the passing trains, all of them were hostile, so lifeless that I was deeply disgusted. However, the most disgusting thing is my own existence. Why bear this burden of sorrow, and what is the point?

What's the pain of a never-ending struggle? My desire to destroy myself and make my own non-existence far outweigh my instinctive desire to survive.

I can't live anymore, I can't stand myself. The thought kept swirling in my head. Then I suddenly realized the peculiarity of this thought.

Am I one or two? If I can't stand myself, then there must be two mes: the 'me' and the 'me' that I can't stand.

I thought, "I'm the only one of them that's true." ”.

That day he was enlightened—the depression, fear, and despair that had been building up for a long time suddenly disappeared. Over the past 10 years, he has become a world-class spiritual mentor.

Confused? Hehe. No one will know what the future road is, it's not that you lose confidence, it's just that you don't dare to face it, you are afraid of failure, what you believe is:

I will be lost in failure, and I will lose myself in confusion. If you believe you can succeed! Your future is in order in your plans, you have dreams, you have beliefs, you can take on the responsibilities that a person should have, you have slowly become mature, Lady Luck must be with you, what are you afraid of at this time?

Do you still need to be confused at this time?

I firmly believe that I can succeed; I firmly believe that my future is beautiful and wonderful; I firmly believe that 'nothing can stop me from reaching the other side of victory!' Have you been bored all the time? Have you been living with a deep sense of guilt and guilt?

Forgive yourself and forgive others. When you laugh, you will be happy, and when you are happy, you will laugh! Fill yourself up, laziness is a breeding ground for fear, and stop becoming anxious, irritable and self-blaming because of idleness.

I hope you can cheer up, all difficulties are just a dirt bag, and no mountain can stop you from moving forward. You can always stand at the pinnacle of victory, I believe in you!

Life is the process of making you constantly lose confidence and get it back, if you give up on yourself there is nothing, think about the people you care about the most, cheer up.

Who is in the distant night sky.

Waiting for a meteor to fly by.

See whose path it illuminates.

Who walked into whose dreams.

Who with a big smile.

Draw a rainbow on the horizon.

Who's singing, who's singing, who's listening.

The gentle heart is beating.

A phantom city above the rainbow.

Like the longing of love.

Who's dreaming, who's intoxicated, who's waking.

Whoever laughs is heartbroken.

Who stands in the city waiting for you.

Who is waiting for me outside the city.

Watch the fireworks in the sky city.

What illuminates is loneliness.

A phantom city above the rainbow.

Like the longing of love.

Who's dreaming, who's intoxicated, who's waking.

Whoever laughs is heartbroken.

Who stood outside the city waiting for me.

Who is waiting for you in the city.

Look at the smoke and rain of the city in the sky.

Wet is parting.

Confidence is cultivated gradually, set yourself a goal that you can achieve in one leap, and if you achieve the preset goal after hard work, your confidence will follow. On this basis, set a higher goal, and strive to achieve it, your confidence will increase greatly, and every time you complete a goal in the future, your confidence will increase a little, and in the long run, you will find that your potential is so great, and at that time, you will be very proud to say"I can do it, I'm the best"!

Well, how to put it, find a way to adjust yourself, if you don't even believe in yourself, who else can you trust.

Or just take a gamble on one thing, and you'll be sure to make a difference, and then you'll know that you're good too.

It's true that sometimes people don't know how good they are if they don't push themselves.

If you go to the countryside and look at the hard-working peasants, you will know that they have not lost their confidence in all the hardships, so why should you lose them?

We have all experienced such years, we have all walked through them like this, and the reason why the future is dark is because we have not taken a firm step in any of the human things, either we have not started, or we have started but keep looking back, every step is hesitation!

I also lost my faith in life for a while, but God will always give you some good when the time is right.

Don't let you get lost all the time, so wait... It's a matter of time when good luck will strike.

Find something you can do that you can find a sense of success, and you will have confidence in yourself.

Suggestion 1: Find and establish your motivation goals, which can be for a person, for a purpose, for a house, a car, etc., having a goal and motivation will naturally make you confident.

Suggestion 2: Put down the work in front of you (if you are not a student) and go on a trip, you can go to see the vast grassland, you can go to the seaside, you can go to the mountains, you can climb the mountains, and when people relax in the natural environment of mountains, rivers and visions, they often have unexpected gains and pride.

Suggestion 3: Read books, classical classics or Yu Qiuyu's books, as long as you read them with a deep heart, you will realize what you are missing and how to build your confidence. (If you are a student, study the textbook knowledge first, try to finish your studies and then look back at the state of this time, I believe you will smile easily).

Why do you lose confidence, there are more people who are not as good as you, look at the people who are not as good as you, and think that you are already a lucky person.

I've read psychology, it's a manifestation of people venting their dissatisfaction, they feel lost, but don't lose yourself, it'll be fine after a while. Or go for a bit of exercise and find a way to vent your frustrations.

Find yourself a near, achievable goal, rather than an unattainable goal, step by step. Don't be ambitious, be calm. If you are still young and you have time to settle, it is better to think too much than to do more.

Go all the way, affirm yourself more, be more optimistic about the positive side, face up to the bad side, give yourself an improvement plan, change one small step at a time, success is not achieved overnight. Although there is a lot of truth, it depends on your own mentality, and adjusting your mentality is the key!

There are gains and losses in life, and we must be able to afford to let go. The poem says, "Thousands of sails pass by the side of the sinking boat, and ten thousand trees spring in front of the sick tree." "Say no to horns and dead ends.

A road is not passing, why don't we change the angle, change the mood, down-to-earth, do what we can do, we must always firmly believe: the road is tortuous, but the future is bright. I hope you cheer up soon.

Why do you feel that way? Get to the root of the problem, and think about it, and I'm sure you'll understand what you're going to do next. Come on! Everyone feels this way, but the important thing is whether you can adjust your mindset in time.

Then you're losing now, keep exercising, think about good things every day, and you'll get better.

The society is developing fast, in this society of money and real estate, everyone is the same, I don't know what the future holds, the main thing is to try to live every day, I don't have to know what the future is, as long as I live well today.

Put your mind down, you first have to feel first, don't resist to "see" your feelings, and after being confused, everything will be relieved. And then there's waiting, there's going to be a surprise, it's true!

You have to believe that there is always an aspect where you are better than others, but you haven't discovered that aspect yet.

If only you still have faith in life!

1. Believe in yourself! You are the best, maybe you think that you are better than others, but you are still the best; You have your own environment and life, no one else can imitate it, it is yours and unique. You just have to be yourself.

2. Believe that you can surpass yourself and go better! Through study and hard work, you will definitely succeed, and this success is also your own success, not anyone's, nor compared with others. You'll feel like you can be so good!

3. Life and the future are originally one, and your future is the accumulation of your present life. Believe in yourself, and your life will be happy and your future will be beautiful.

4. But it is important to understand that life is not enjoyment, but a kind of pain and experience, in which there is suffering and happiness.

Hope your life and future are getting better and better!