I feel like my boyfriend is like my brother. Is it time to break up?

First of all, what you're saying is that he hasn't changed at all, and I think he's definitely not doing well enough in some way, and you want him to change. However, it is almost impossible to change a person, let alone be naïve, and he will change for you. Take ourselves as an example, if the other party doesn't like us, let's change it, can we change it?

It's definitely not going to change. What's more, we don't necessarily think of sand as sand in the eyes of the other party. Also, you said that he made you feel like your brother.

I don't know if you're saying he's not mature enough, or if you're not as tall as you are saying in parentheses. If it's the former, I advise you to leave, if you have to worry about everything, you won't be exhausted to death when you get married in the future! If it's the latter, and you feel that there is a gap in your image, it also depends on how much you care, and if you care very much, then it won't work together, which is likely to become a fuse and make you quarrel.

If you don't care very much, and he is good to you, this is not a disadvantage. The main thing is: men are used to rely on, so be sure to find someone who is reliable.

No more need to ask if you mind, because since you've come here to ask this question, you certainly do.

This is very insecure, love is like this, and it will be even more insecure when he gets married and lives in the future, and he will be used to letting you arrange everything, and he will rely on you upside down.

It's okay to be short, but if you're also psychologically 'short', it's better to break off early.

Do you still have feelings for him?

If you don't feel it anymore. Let's disperse.

Everyone has the right to pursue happiness.

You can choose to separate or continue.

Of course, you'd better think about it before deciding.

If you like it, you'll be together.,There's no big problem with height.。

It's up to you how you feel, love is a feeling, it's not fun, it's not like it, it's not interesting to be together.

Look at your name, you better not look for a man, live alone.

Find a man who feels safe.

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I feel like my brother is like my boyfriend. Should I break off the relationship with my brother?

Reward points: 10 - 14 days and 23 hours until the end of the problem, I feel that my brother is very much like my beloved boyfriend, and I go home every day to see my brother, but my brother has not changed at all, and I still feel so much like my boyfriend. What am I going to do.

My brother is younger than me).

So why did you want to be together in the first place?

Summary. Hello dear, he may think that there is no difference between himself and your peers, and he wants you to treat him the way you treat your peers instead of treating him like a brother, that's why it's like this.

The boy younger than himself wanted to recognize him as a younger brother after breaking up, why didn't he want to be friends.

Hello dear, he may think that there is no difference between himself and your peers, and he wants you to treat him the same way he treats his peers instead of treating him as a person who is just a younger brother, so he will be so chaotic.

If you encounter a vague problem, you should ask in time, get a lot of effective information, I hope it can help you!

I didn't quarrel with him, and when I was separated, I also had feelings for each other because of some unavoidable reasons, and I didn't have a good time with him after separation, he refused to see me, refused to reply to my messages, picked me up, and asked him to delete my WeChat and refused, every time I ran to see him, he refused to see, but Lao Mu Ming finally came down to see me and then ran away, I didn't want to break contact with me so I said another way to get along, recognize him as a younger brother, he refused to be later I soft grinding hard bubble answer silver response, He said that being a friend and not being my brother, why don't you want to be my brother? He was already 7 years younger than me.

Hello dear, considering that you have had a relationship with him, it is not very suitable to be a younger brother, I hope you keep your distance from him.

My boyfriend is not mature enough, like my brother, and the advice I can give to this problem is to either break up, or correct my mentality, learn to enjoy the current state of love, and wait for him to 'grow up'.

On the one hand, you don't reject sibling love, so it's not a problem to be one or two years younger than you, you just feel that your boyfriend is not mature enough, and often does some nonsensical things that you can't understand, and you feel that there is a bit of a 'generation gap' between you; On the other hand, he is more like your brother than your boyfriend, making you feel that such a relationship is tiring and annoying. So whether he is mature or not has a great impact on you, and in this regard, you can solve the problem of whether to recover after the breakup, although it all depends on your own true inner feelings, but I am here to help you show those options that have the possibility.

One is to choose to break up, if you really can't stand his childish behavior, feel that you can't bear it for a moment, then simply break up, after all, love can't be settled, unless you have a firm determination to redeem, or you hope to change the status quo after redemption through your own efforts, then breaking up is not your choice. The other is that when he grows up, everyone needs to go through something to become mature and stable.

I don't think so, I used to be immature too, and then after my ex-girlfriend broke up with me, I didn't have a relationship for two years. It wasn't until I met my current girlfriend that I realized how ignorant and naïve I was.

When his brother hates you, whether to break up depends mainly on how much your boyfriend loves you, the most important thing for two people to be together is how they feel about each other, although marriage is not a matter of two people, but only your boyfriend loves you enough and can think about you, and whether he can think from your point of view when you have a conflict with his family is important.

Of course, it would be best if you also loved him enough, were willing to change for him, and were willing to please his family. In short, it depends on the foundation of your relationship, if you love enough, then nothing can stop you, if you don't love enough, please let each other go.

First of all, we must determine a premise, that is, you two really like each other, you are very happy together, he can't hesitate to you, he must really like you. He may withdraw because he is not assertive in front of his family, but you have to make sure that he really likes you and wants to be with you, or if he doesn't like you so much and is not willing to work hard and face some difficulties in order to be with you. If it's the latter, it's not so easy.

Don't make a big deal about it, try it down. The happiness of the two of you is the most important and the only thing that matters, and if you are happy, their families will be reassured. Don't talk about it when you two meet, there's nothing to talk about, it's hard to convince his family to change their minds through one mouth.

So, don't say it, do it, they're not very satisfied, it's not to the point where they won't let you in, right? Then go and hang out often, go and see them if you have nothing to do, bring something with you, buy some fruit, buy some cigarettes and alcohol, whatever, no more, not empty-handed.

There is no real handle, just saying that you are from the city, this reason is too vain, mouth dessert, hands and feet are diligent, let them see whether this big living person is really as bad as the legend. Under normal circumstances, his family should not tear their faces and say that they don't want you to enter the door, and they will not deliberately make things difficult.

To break up. In this way, the problem is fundamentally solved, and it doesn't matter if his brother likes you or not, and you won't worry about these things.

You can tease his brother and make him feel good about you, and then buy him some delicious snacks, which children love to eat.

There is no need to break up. Because in the end of life together, you and your boyfriend have no relationship with other people, don't care if others like you or not.

Yes, if his family doesn't like you, then how can you survive in his family? Then you will be sad and unhappy.

I don't think you need to break up, you can coax your boyfriend's younger brother and buy her more snacks and toys to make her happy and increase your relationship with him.

You don't have to break up, he's your boyfriend's younger brother, you don't care what she thinks, as long as you and your boyfriend get along well.

It's a pleasure to answer this question for you, and to see your description of this issue, my personal opinion and advice to you is this. First of all, you describe that if you don't get along with your boyfriend's brother and sister-in-law, your boyfriend will break up with you, why is that? The first point is that your boyfriend values his brother and his brother-in-law.

Pay attention to the relationship in the family, and then feel that if it is so noisy, this home is not a home. So you may choose to break up with you, and the second point is that your boyfriend treats them more seriously than you do. To put it bluntly, that is to say, I don't love you so much, I don't like you that much.

If he really loves you and really likes you, he won't just choose to break up with you. Instead, he will give you some advice to get along with your family slowly, and then he will also tell his brother and sister-in-law that everyone's personality is different. Together, we have to run in a lot.

And it's not that he directly chooses to break up with you, so your boyfriend doesn't love you that much. If he really loves you, then he will be willing to mediate this contradiction and reconcile this contradiction between the two of you, or between the three of you. Let you slowly get along well, slowly run in together, and finally enter the marriage hall with you.

This is the person who loves you, but sometimes men are stupid and they don't know what to do, so they may say something that makes you sad, and my personal advice to you is this. First of all, whether you're on the same page or not, I think you should call your boyfriend, come out and find a place to talk, you eat together, watch a movie, and then what? Let's talk about that.

If you are calm and put your heart into your heart, you will tell him that it will be divided, and you must also solve this contradiction and solve this misunderstanding before dividing it, because in this way, there will be no regrets in your heart, and there will be no regrets. Talk about your feelings, talk about your liver point, but the attitude and emotions must be calm, don't get angry, don't get too excited. Otherwise, it will only backfire, you just say this to your boyfriend, you just say that in fact, there is nothing that you can't get along, I think we are slowly merging, slowly running-in, or we can get along with each other to the second, after we got married, the two of us were together for a longer time.

Nor will I be with them all day. If there is anything I can't do before, I apologize to you and your brother and sister-in-law. After all this, I believe that your boyfriend's heart will change a little, and then you will tell you the reason why you really can't get along, what is the reason?

Your boyfriend, I'm sure he's going to change, there's a chance he's not going to break up with you, but to go. Reconcile your relationship in the middle, so that your goal will be achieved, if your boyfriend still insists, then if you say this, your heart will be better, and you will not leave regrets. So that this matter can be solved, I hope this examination can solve the confusion in your mind, suggest the doubts in your mind, and finally wish you a happy life.

I think he must be very selfish, thinking about his family, but never thinking about you, because he used this excuse to separate from you.