Why are there more and more leftover women around?

If you can't make it low, you can't do it. I feel that most of the people nowadays are college students, their ideological concepts have improved, and they all have certain material requirements for life, which is understandable, after all, most people's conditions have become better now; However, many people, especially girls, hold the idea of "marrying a rich man and seeking good material conditions", but do not consider whether their own conditions can meet the requirements of a "rich man" to marry a wife.

Basically, I feel that the requirements of relatives and neighbors to find a husband are all "no requirements", but they all have a "hidden attribute", that is, good people, good family background, good work, and having a house and a car are the basic conditions.

For example, I have an aunt's daughter, who has graduated from college for 3 years, is 27 years old, is a substitute teacher, and her family conditions are not very good, and her parents are both part-time workers. And then my own appearance is not good, I am 160 tall, and my face is full of scars left after previous acne, and my whole face is really pitted, and I really don't dare to look at her face every time I see her; And then the person is still very dark, and the facial features are very rough.

When others tell her about matchmaking, they are all talking about the kind of duty, and then they have a house of their own, and ordinary people who do small business or go to work are already very compatible in the eyes of us outsiders, as long as people don't dislike her face, it's already very good.

But she can't look down on people, she either looks at people as "this person is too honest, and honest people have no future", or "the family conditions are too poor, and several of my classmates are married to tens of millions of assets, and I can't be worse than them". No one is enthusiastic about introducing her to her anymore, after all, she's 27 years old. What else do she say about the seven aunts and eight mothers-in-law over there, my family's xx conditions are so good, I have to find a rich one.

Can there be no women left like this?

Choosing a different way of life, and unwilling to adhere to the original way of choice, has led to getting older and older, and it has become the "leftover men and women" of some narrow-minded people. If you are not married at the end of your life, that is called the real "leftover". Anyone with life still has a chance to get married!

1.Men are less willing to put too much effort into chasing women 2Men pick women with a horizontal line down, and women pick men with a horizontal line up.

Housing prices**, high-quality boys in the eyes of leftover women have plummeted. They are not alone, anyway, I am a Buddhist, I love to talk about it, I love to marry or not, I love to marry or not, I love to give birth to children, I love to be sick or not.

Foolish, which eye did you see a leftover woman?

The remaining men and women are delayed in going to college, going to college is right, the problem is that most of the junior college students are three books and two of these non-heavy books, such students 23,24 graduation prospects have not wasted a few years looking for a job, can not find and go to graduate school, graduate school entrance examination found that it is the same, in the blink of an eye, I found that the heavy undergraduate career is successful, I can only mix in the middle and lower classes about 30, the marriage object is not, the marriage market atmosphere is very poor in the general environment, and it is no different from buying and selling, so I can only helplessly send chicken soup to blame each other and comfort myself.

Or the same sentence: the grades are too poor, you can learn a craft after graduating from high school, don't go to school again if you get married, the university is for a few elites, there are about 8 public universities in a province, and more than a dozen public colleges and universities are required to pass the exam.

Not everything should be popularized, especially higher mathematics, 1 3 people have been to it, they have a future and are qualified to marry later, and the rest of the honest craftsmen use blood and sweat to reach the middle class, and it is more appropriate to start a family early.

Over thirty is a leftover girl, it's not good to be too picky, my cousin is 4o years old, unmarried and childless, and my father has died.

More and more men agree with the folk saying that female juniors hold gold bricks, and they are implemented in the process of marriage and love.

More and more male parents will also agree with the statement that female juniors hold gold bricks, so that they fall in love or go on a blind date with a relatively older woman, and their parents will express their support. Although the female junior includes the woman who is exactly three years older than the man's age, it is not limited to the woman's age being just three years older than the man, after all, the female junior is just an imaginary number, and the woman's age is only about three years older than the man's age. As for why the folk will spread the female junior, it is unknown that the saying of holding gold bricks is unknown.

Second, there are more and more leftover women now, and since it is not easy for leftover women to find men of the same age, they will also look for men who are relatively younger, and the concept of marriage and love of leftover women will gradually sink.

As long as the leftover women pay attention to maintenance, even if they are in their thirties, they will still look young. Moreover, since most leftover women are relatively good, their age and ability are different, and they take what they need from young men. Moreover, the number of young men is large and endless, and it is naturally easier for leftover women to choose a marriage partner who you and I want.

In fact, the situation of leftover women is almost the same as the situation of leftover men, the key depends on whether there is strength, if you have strength, if you want to fall in love with the young opposite sex, you will fall in love with the young opposite sex, the reason why there are more and more sibling loves, and the increase in the number of powerful leftover women is closely related.

Third, the success rate of sister and brother love, whether it is a love relationship or a blind date, is higher, and the cost of trial and error for men will be lower.

Since women are older than men, they also have more sense of crisis, whether they are in love or on a blind date, they will cherish it more, and the probability of falling in love or failing on a blind date will be lower, so they will hear and witness more and more couples or couples composed of sisters. Moreover, women are older than men, women know how to tolerate men, and in the actual process of dating, if women are older than men, they will be coquettish, willful or vexatious less often. As long as the love between sisters and brothers is agreeable, as long as you love me, the age and distance are not a problem, after all, being able to manage love well, and then being able to manage marriage is the last word.

In fact, any form of marriage, regardless of the starting point, regardless of the benefits of the process, depends on the success or failure of the result.

The reason why there are more and more leftover women now is because more and more people are getting married later, so they leave such an impression.

In psychology, there is a term called "role separation", which refers to the fact that people maintain a certain distance from another role in the life of one role.

That is to say: when a person is in an unfamiliar but preferred environment, he will often have a sense of rejection of this environment, and at the same time, it will be difficult for him to adapt to this environment or completely lose his original life.

Now, with the development of social economy and the progress of the times, women realize that only doing what they want to do and what they are good at is the most important, and they are more and more aware that self is the greatest wealth in life.

They have a clearer understanding of what they want and are willing to work hard and strive for this goal, so that they can become more and more confident and independent.

Article**2: Increasing Female Sense of Independence.

Women are becoming more and more independent because they are becoming more aware of what they want, not who made their wedding dress, and who is not just marrying for the sake of marriage.

We can see that in married life, women usually balance family and career well; Men often choose to sacrifice a certain amount of time and energy to take care of their children and spend time with their families because of family and career.

This shows that women have a certain degree of independence from the family economy and are no longer dependent on men.

Men are different, most of the time they tend to put work first, because only by working can they have economic income and ensure the stability of their families; And this has led many men to choose not to work so hard after marriage.

Therefore, women will be very decisive and crisp when they choose not to get married.

Article **3: The improvement of women's social status.

With the development of the times, the status of women in society is slowly improving, and more and more men are beginning to accept this status quo.

Therefore, although most women have changed a lot in their lives, they are still more willing to devote their time and energy to themselves to enjoy life. With the development of society, the current marriage chain is no longer as "matched" as in the past, if both parties do not like it too much, it is easy for two people to quarrel together.