I studied well and looked handsome, but I just couldn t find a girlfriend

Hello, after reading the question you asked, as I understand, the average student often gets bored in his relaxed environment when he enters the university because the university in his mind is too far from his reality. And as you mentioned, I'm sure it's not the main reason for your loneliness, but it's part of it.

The main reason you are lonely is that you don't get the attention of your female friends. And what you can't figure out is that you are handsome. Then it is certain that the reason is that you have a deviation in your communication and performance skills with others.

I think the reason for this bias is as you said: you feel that they have no topic and can't play. So I want you to seriously consider what is the difference between the other party's topic and your own topic? Why do I have a better topic to communicate with my male friends?

After thinking about the problem clearly, I think you should conclude that it is caused by the different ways of life, the level of life, and the perspective. In that case, the next thing is that you need to change your life. As you said, your previous life was just surfing the internet, watching football, going to the lab, and so on.

It seems,That's the problem.。。

ok。。Time was in a hurry, and the answer was hastily answered.

Academic performance has little to do with having a girlfriend, you should have more contact with girls, even if you don't talk about friends, it's good to have an ordinary friend! Isn't your personality a little cool, easy-going! Quietly asked:

The university you didn't get into wouldn't be Tsinghua University and Peking University, if so, then your IQ is really outstanding, but your EQ may be. Hehe, just kidding.

I've asked people that question, and that's what they said

It's because you have too few friends for girls, and you never go out to play, and you are often nervous and say the wrong thing in front of girls, and others think you are a weirdo, so they will be afraid of you.

I like to "surf the Internet". Watch "Football and the NBA... What else .........

It's all things that otaku do... Corresponding to the revolutionary spirit of the older generation, "go out, please come in" don't stay at home...

After reading your profile, I found that you have a tendency to become gay, dangerous.

It's okay to be indifferent to beautiful women, don't be indifferent to women.

What country are you in?

Is there any kind of gyophobia?

Nonsense, big brother tells you, if you are cheap, there will be girls.

I feel very lonely, although the relationship between male friends is good, but many times they are not considerate of me and care about me at all.

You're about to become gay.

what kind of hobbies do you have

Seems to have a phobia !

Somewhat... Horror, good men have become gay, what about us women

1. Because a girl is good-looking and has a good personality, it may make people think that she is very cold or has high conditions for finding a boyfriend, which is a matter of understanding the suitor, and often boys with average conditions are discouraged! Caused by a lack of understanding and communication! 2. Girls know that their conditions are good, and they will not take the initiative to show favor to boys, after all, girls are still more subtle in terms of feelings, influenced by traditional concepts or strict family education; 3. It may be that you really didn't meet the boy you like!

The girl knows exactly what she wants! Belong to smart women! Such a girl will generally end up with a happy marriage and future!

A girl with good conditions, why can't she find a partner? Because the requirements are too high.

Good girls may make boys feel discouraged, so it will be difficult to pursue, so most of them are cheap for those thick-skinned gangsters, but this type of girl doesn't know it, plus this kind of girl is the image of a good girl, and the narrow interpersonal circle is the result, my suggestion is to meet the favorite does not hinder the initiative.

Why can't a good-looking girl with a good personality find a boyfriend? It's not that she's proud, it's just that she has a good personality, but she doesn't belong to that kind of person with an open personality. So she won't take the initiative to pursue her boyfriend.

Today's men are more willing to deal with those fashionable and hot women. Your boyfriend can only be about the same as you, maybe if you want to find a boyfriend, you can only ask a friend to introduce you to the relationship. Or maybe you haven't met a boyfriend who is chasing you yet.

In fact, there are a lot of good-looking girls who are good-looking and have a good personality, but they just can't find a boyfriend, this phenomenon is very common, relatively speaking, there are many excellent boys, obviously very handsome, and the conditions are also very good, but they can't find a girlfriend for a long time. But for others, it's a bit too high, that's a point.

Secondly, that is to say, the prediction in their hearts is within the scope of their cognition, but it is not the same in the cognitive range of others and others, and often excellent people, they will have their own opinions, and they will have a more of their own time arrangement, which may often cause such a result, they will say that there is no time to fall in love, no time to fall in love, and no time to say, go to his other half.

It's often an excuse like this, it takes time to fall in love, it takes time to chase someone, and the flowers and energy are not achieved overnight, or the kind of love at first sight, there must be a process for warm-up, right?

It has always been said that love is wonderful, because love comes very suddenly, there is no reason, there are no symptoms, and it will not be separated by the factors of personality, country and race. It's not because you're good enough that you can find a good man, but because you're fated enough to be together.

It may be that there is still a difference between this man and a woman, if the man is better, it is easy to find a girlfriend, if the woman is better, he has higher requirements and higher vision, and she can't look down on ordinary men, so she doesn't have a boyfriend.

Because the requirements are also high, the average boy and girl can't look down on it, and the excellent boy is what she will like, so the chance of meeting an excellent boy is small, and it remains to be found!

and fate have not yet arrived, he is good-looking, and his personality is good, maybe others have not found out his goodness, he will definitely find someone who likes him.

According to the situation you described, the main thing is that in high school, your main task is to study, not to fall in love, so you will not be able to find a boyfriend, and when you go to college or graduate, I believe you will definitely be able to find a good boyfriend.

Why can't a good-looking girl with a good personality find a boyfriend? This is just a fortuitous event, not necessarily.

is good-looking and has a good personality, she can find a boyfriend for girls, and the reason why she can't find a boyfriend is because he has too little contact.

Finding a partner is all about opportunity, and if you don't meet the right one, you probably won't want to be with him. It's good to wait until you meet the right one.

It may be too good-looking, and the boy feels that he has no confidence to pursue it, or that he is insecure

Why do girls who are good-looking and have a good personality have no boyfriends, maybe girls are a little introverted.

Maybe I don't think there is a suitable person, and I don't want to settle, so I'm single.

If it's too good, no one will dare to pursue it.