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The child just went to Jinbeibei Kindergarten in Xuhui District, Shanghai last week, and studied in a private kindergarten for half a year in the second half of last year, so the basic things the baby will be, and it is also very well-behaved, every time I ask her what she has learned in school, she can tell me. But since I got into this Jin Beibei, I went home and asked her what she had studied, and she said, "I won't tell you!"
Today I went to the school to ask the teacher, the teacher said that there is nothing to teach now, I asked the baby what the personality is, the teacher said that it is more internal, I asked her if she has any good friends here, the teacher asked me to ask the baby, I said she refused to say, the teacher said that there is no. From the beginning to the end, the eyes didn't look at me very much, and they went to get other children in the middle, and they didn't greet me, is this not very disrespectful to me?? Every time I pick up the children, it seems that the teacher is very warm to other parents and children.
Is it because I don't give gifts, so the attitude of the teacher and the child is different?
By the way, it's been half a month since she went to school, and the baby said that the teacher never hugged her! 1500 yuan a month, it really makes me feel that it is not as good as the 500 yuan a month school I went to last year!!
Oh, I'm also thinking about this this morning, alas, I feel that there is still a difference between giving gifts and not giving gifts, but the interaction between you and the teacher is also very important, communicate more with the teacher, and the teacher also likes to be more attentive parents.
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The teachers here do not reflect the situation of the child at school at all, and the child has become less timid when he goes to kindergarten, and he does not like to talk, and he is very worried.
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In fact, the social copy atmosphere is like this
Let's take an analogy. You are the URA job du
Personnel, that teacher Zhi will buy a house in the future, maybe you will have to ask someone to give you a gift, let you intercede with the real estate company, and sell him cheaper.
A dog has his day.
Rely on the mountains to eat the mountains, rely on the water to eat the water.
There are no unspoken rules for which industry to do.
Alas, even the ordinary employees in the company still want to overquote the expenses or steal some paper, pen and ink or something to take advantage of it.
Don't say that you never take advantage of such and such advantages, never eat invitations, every penny is fair and justifiable, so think about it, everyone should be at ease.
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I also think it's good not to give gifts, maybe this teacher is just unintentional, and you, as a parent, are very attentive to your child, so you will have this kind of thought, you should communicate with the teacher seriously, say your idea, please ask the teacher to care more about your child, she will take it seriously.
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You don't need to send it, why send it?
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The teacher is not so bad, it depends on your own thoughts, you can send it if you want to, and it doesn't matter if you don't want to send it.
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Who said it, who said that parents don't give gifts, teachers don't give a good look, and every child is treated the same. Do you think kindergarten teachers are good, do you know that kindergarten teachers are paid low? If you don't know, don't talk nonsense here!
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It can only be said that you are unlucky and did not meet good people.
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It's not surprising that the social climate is like this, you might as well have some blood for the sake of the children.
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Nanning Qingxiu District Jinbeibei kindergarten fee standard is the local first to establish a preschool education funding policy system, the specific funding methods and funding standards by the provincial ** self-formulated. **The government will provide subsidies according to the subsidy policies, funding and implementation effects issued by the local government. The main objects of pre-school education funding are children from economically disadvantaged families, orphans and disabled children who are studying in inclusive kindergartens approved and established by the education administrative departments at or above the county level, and are funded by the local government.
Kindergartens should withdraw 3%-5% of the funds from the business income to reduce or reduce fees, provide special hardship subsidies, etc.
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Parents can choose between private or public kindergartens according to their financial situation. Private parks generally have better hardware facilities, but the fees are relatively high, generally between 10,000 per year. Public kindergartens are divided into grades, a first-class daycare, about 300 yuan per month for those over three years old, and 350 yuan per month for those under three years old; For second-level and second-class kindergartens, daycare is about 200 yuan per month for those over three years old, and about 250 yuan per month for those under three years old.
The cost of boarding kindergarten is 100 yuan more per month. There is a way to know whether a kindergarten is good or bad:
1. Talking to the principal is the best and most direct way. Parents do not have to worry about rejection because the principal will not refuse a parent who wants their child to be admitted to the kindergarten for consultation. The broader the question, the more in-depth it will be and the more it will help you make the right choice.
2. Take the opportunity to take your child home and talk to other parents of children in this kindergarten to get as much information as you want.
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There is no need to give gifts, just communicate with the teacher about some of the child's problems, so that the child is healthy and happy.
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It depends on your local habits, if other children's parents send it, it will be a little bad if you don't send it. If everyone doesn't send it, then it's okay to send it or not. You can communicate with the teacher more and understand the teacher's interests and hobbies, so that it is more convenient to do what he likes.
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I heard that they are all cards, and several teachers in the class send them. Some people send the Mid-Autumn Festival, some Spring Festival, and most parents are Mid-Autumn Festival. Generally, each teacher will receive a shopping card of 200 yuan. Of course, not every teacher dares to accept it. The technology is alive.
Some parents who are very good at giving more than 200 to each teacher, and such parents will inadvertently reveal that their friendship with teachers is extraordinary. And casually "secretly" ask, you can get the answer immediately. These parents tend to live in "upscale neighborhoods" that they often deliberately emphasize, and it's easy to notice.
In addition, some kindergartens have a really good style, and no teacher really "dares" to accept them. If you can avoid all surveillance, such as outside the kindergarten, or even away from the kindergarten, and "inadvertently" hand it over to her alone, I think there will be a heart of "hoping to generate income and increase income".
In addition, don't refer to the above for gifts in elementary school, completely different ** rules.
In the end, this kind of atmosphere is a "small whirlwind" in Xiamen Island, and it is said that there is no such "whirlwind" outside the island.
The child is sent in, which means that the hostage is in the hands of others, and many parents still prefer to believe that they have it, and the moth fights the fire.
Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, teachers and teachers, there are teachers and no teachers!
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I don't have to send it. Choose the right teacher, wisdom for a lifetime; Choose the right partner and be happy for a lifetime; Choose the right friend and benefit for a lifetime. Good teachers are chosen.
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Whether you send it or not depends on whether this teacher is worth it! Even if you send it, don't send it in front of your child, so as not to affect your child's worldview.
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That's up to your teachers.
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Then you go to the principal.
Maybe something for you.
Only the head of the garden can solve it.
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But at present, the preschool education industry is getting more and more attention, with the two-child policy, the preschool education industry is more popular, many want to share a soup, so now the second and third tier cities are rapidly emerging a lot of kindergartens or early education institutions, but if you want to do a good job, you need to surprise excellent children's space design, because now parents are different from the older generation, not only to see the education but also to see the space, excellent kindergartens can be more attractive.
No, it will corrupt the atmosphere! If you think about the baby starting to give gifts when he is in kindergarten, how much will you give when he goes to college?
Take your child out to play more often, step by step, never criticize your child, carefully observe what your child is interested in, and then establish a common language with your child, and use euphemism to tell him the meaning of the collective. I wrote it myself, and it was a suggestion hope.
Kindergarten teachers should not teach children to read, that is the kindergarten elementary school, children in the kindergarten stage, mainly through games to train their thinking.