Self inflicted sentimentality hope sincerity 20

Anyway.

You can see that she has feelings for you.

The reason why she is lukewarm to you is because she is not sure if you like her too, so now your question is that you should find a time to talk about it.

Make everything you want to say to her.

In the end, no matter how it ends, you figured it out and tried hard.

There will be no regrets.

Actually, you don't need to explain what happened before.

That will make you worse and worse the more you explain.

All you have to do is find an appropriate time to tell her a fact that is happening right now, and that is that you like him right now.

If she asks you why you didn't like him before.

You tell her sincerely that she didn't like you before.

Now that I like it, I want to be better for you.

What was before will always be the past.

Why should you let the unhappy things of the past hinder your happiness in the future?

I think both of you are interesting to each other, and she may think the same as you, so let's talk to her! It's not a way for you to be nailed like this, and if it takes a little longer, maybe she will instinctively slowly move away from you, and slowly forget the love hidden in her heart.

Be open and open about your feelings for her, apologize to her Maybe she will throw herself into your arms and cry, and everything will be solved!

Because you rejected her before, she will definitely not dare to confess to you again, so hurry up and do what you should do!

She cares about you. Maybe it's because you're afraid that your second rejection will be caused by another confession, but now you just need to look into her eyes affectionately and say "Come back to me......"Absolutely! I've tried hehe.

Good luck catching her up soon :)

Hey, love is to say it out loud!

If you don't love her, you won't pay so much attention to her performance!

If she doesn't love you, she won't pay so much attention to you, and it doesn't mean that caring about someone must be in love with the other person!

So I hope you take the initiative to express it to him, and you will know whether she likes you or not!

I hope you can distinguish between love, like, and dependence.

You need to consider whether the word "deep love" is appropriate.

Because the authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear. It is necessary to confirm whether your feelings are true in many ways.

But, only you feel for yourself. Calm down.

I'm a very aggrieved person, and I think it's best to go with the flow, don't force it, and don't take the initiative to ......It's not good to force it, my wife and I are Liezi, I don't know when we started together, I don't know when I started calling her wife, and I don't know when I started kissing, but I know we are happy!

Dizzy, she cares about you, fool. All that was needed was an apology!!

If you love her, pick up the stars for her, reach out and pick the stars, you may not get what you want, but it won't stain your hands.

Confess, it's better than what you lose!

Ask if she likes you or not.

Love is to be spoken out loud.

You can try to read your post again, and you will find that there are unfortunate and happy things you described; There are temporary problems, short-term problems, and long-term problems; Some"Failed"It was originally a mistake, some"Failed"Just because you're only twenty years old. There are also many taxonomies that I hope will inspire you.

1.Hate, which means that you can't do anything about the status quo (give everything a reasonable, positive reason!). ), which also indicates the urgency of wanting to change the status quo.

2.Young people must have dreams. It is also necessary to understand the reality. Dream. The relationship between ideals.

3.It's hard to make up your mind, it's even harder to keep doing it, and it's even more difficult to face yourself, are you ready?

There's nothing wrong with you, it's just a pain in the process of growing up. But you dare to decide yourself, there is an element of risk-taking, and in the future you will do things in a planned way, because you are summarizing now.

Our ability to navigate the world is limited, and if there is a large gap between our abilities and expectations, anyone will be at a low point. You have admitted that you are not the most "miserable", but you do feel sad, and even successful people are also "cynical".

A lot of times we really need to keep a low profile with ourselves, so that we can have the courage to start from scratch. We can encourage ourselves for a little bit of progress, and gradually become self-confident, and you will find that when we rejoice in our own progress, we are actually doing it for others. If it's all for ourselves, we don't need to improve at all.

You have to strengthen the connection with your loved ones, even if it is a rule, and enforce it. If you slowly learn to give back to your family, you will also gain extra strength.

I feel that the reason is not what's wrong with you, but that you are empty and lonely in your heart. You need to feel a warmth, a feeling of being cared for. Twenty years old, it seems that you are only about 20 years old. Scold. I'm 21 ...

In fact, I often have this feeling, my heart is lonely and empty, after graduating from secondary school, I often go out to run, I don't want to stay at home, I want to feel a person who is not bound and free to be happy, once I quit my job and came home for less than a week, I quarreled with my mother because my mother didn't let me go out to work. In the end, I overcame and went out. I'm still working outside.

It's just that I have low self-esteem and always feel that I can't be respected by others, because they are all college students, and I'm just a small secondary school student, but I work in the same office, I feel seriously disregarded, and I often talk intentionally or unintentionally, because this is how I can get psychological balance.

Now that I have a husband, life is gradually seeing hope. /‘

I hope you can also find a good girl and live together, at least you have to work hard every day to take on the responsibility of supporting your family. In this way, you may see some hope and change the gloomy heart now.

I'm sad that you've suffered so much misfortune But cheer up Don't complain too much about life Let's live a different way Although you have so many misfortunes But you also say a lot of "lucky" This is enough to make you confident in life You said you don't want to go home This fact in the hearts of young people I'm as old as you I also have this experience But your current situation is different It's all wasted to wander outside for a long time Youth is very short You also said that you can't give your girlfriend happiness Now you know this Why don't you create happiness You can learn to do business at home You can also open a restaurant Learn a few years of experience Know how to do business You can also go out on your own When the time comes, it will not be like this In fact, life is like this We often encounter more setbacks than we imagine You have to be strong I support you I still have to build my own happy family in the future Don't fall back Faith I believe in you Since you can say these words, you will definitely be able to do it Dude, come on Finally, I wish you happiness "always" in the future!

Let's find the essence of life.

You are now accustomed to floating, go to find a relatively closed environment, be alone for a period of time, use a childlike heart to appreciate life, to feel the ordinary, relatively closed, or even relatively backward way of life for you, to find the feeling and purpose of life, to find the reason for your own life, why to survive, why to wander, really stay for a period of time and then look back at your life in recent years, you should have your own feelings, Such things can only be said to be ineffable, because people are different, their experiences are different, their personalities are different, and there is no law. Good luck

Do you know that you have one of the biggest advantages, that is, you can face up to your own shortcomings, be able to analyze yourself correctly, and give yourself the correct positioning, which is very good. But you can't just finish analyzing it, you have to change it if you know it's wrong, and as long as you remember it, you can correct your behavior or thinking at any time, and over time you will have fewer and fewer problems. In fact, you are not too miserable, at least there are many relatives around you who care about and love you, you should cherish it, you must know that your relatives (especially the elders) will slowly leave you, don't wait until you lose it to regret it!

From now on, set yourself a realistic goal, and work hard to complete it, because if you set too high and fail too much, you will slowly lose confidence, and then raise the goal after completing the current task, so that slowly you will have a direction and a sense of achievement. If you have a goal and a direction, you will not be empty in natural people, try it as I say, maybe it will have a little effect.

Let's fight the world by ourselves! Young people need to exercise.

Brothers! Don't do that! Find a moment to calm down and think! Through your telling, I think you will find the answer! Don't let others help you analyze anything, you know your own things best!

Adjust your mentality, be happy, and find yourself!!

In our lifetime, we will meet the person you love the most, the person who loves you the most, and the person you spend your life with. First of all, you will meet the person you love the most, and then you will experience the feeling of love; Because you understand what it feels like to be loved, you can discover the people who love you the most; When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime. But sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person; The one you love the most often doesn't choose you; What loves you the most is often not what you love the most; And the longest, it's not the person you love the most or love you the most, it's just the person who appears at the right time.

How many people will you be in someone else's life? No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, he can't pretend not to love you when he loves you; In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you. When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him, and if you don't love him anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem; If you still love him, you should want him to be happy, you want him to be with the person you really love, and you will never stop him, if you prevent him from getting real happiness, it means that you don't love him anymore, and if you don't love him, what right do you have to accuse him of changing his mind?

Love is not possession, you can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you; The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement. After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained; Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not strong enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment. So in the end, it is necessary to choose which one to believe in fate, everything goes naturally, I am sincere and sincere, I hope to exchange for your affirmation

If you grasp things too loosely, you can't hold them, if you grasp them too tightly, your hands will hurt, and you can't find a proper force, so you can't let things slip away or hurt yourself.

If the heart does not move, it does not hurt.

Just like it. Learn to be inclusive.

Learn to love. When you really understand.

You will find out. No matter what time it is.

What the situation. The first time.

It's the other party that's worried.

No matter what she did or said.

It doesn't matter. Because....Love, like.

Learn to mature.

Anyone asks these questions, but no science or religion will give absolute answers, and the most comprehensive thing is faith. If you want to become a monk, don't say anything else, but if you have a letter to ask you, please answer sincerely, your family disagrees, and whether the aftermath is good or not, your idea of becoming a monk is. What do you know about being a monk?

Unknown you, good!

First of all, I am not a professional, I do not have any recognized book or anything like that, in short, I am an ordinary person, I am just saying some things that I think are right, and I hope it will help you.

3.In order to live a better life for ourselves and the people involved, we then have something to do, which we call responsibility, or obligation;

4.People will die, it is inevitable, for the understanding of death, I think it is a kind of going with the flow, just like many things in nature that go with the flow, it is inevitable when you are troubled, but after understanding the truth, you can calm your mind;

5.Becoming a monk is probably a choice for you to escape, I don't know how much you know about temple life, a vague feeling after listening to the ancients say too much? There may be more out there that you don't fit into.

Maybe you do encounter something wrong, in any case, calm down first, think more about the people around you who really care about you, think about their expectations of you, think about how important you are to them... Notice that I'm talking about people who really care about and love you. If it's appropriate, talk to someone!

I hope it helps you, and I wish you a speedy way out of your psychological predicament!