Feelings are ruthless and troublesome, and good feelings are not afraid of trouble

It's up to you, and if you want to choose a good family, then choose your first boyfriend, so that you don't have to worry about life later, but at the same time, you will lose your feelings.

If you choose love, then be with the second one, and maybe you'll be miserable in the future, but you still have this love for each other.

Choosing a comfortable life = losing love.

Choosing love = losing a comfortable life.

It's up to you, be cautious...

Which one do you think you will be able to walk with for the rest of your life? There is also a person who has a character and is self-motivated. Matter can be changed, and those who have the power will have the same money in the future.

If your family is not very rich, you should choose the richer one (I personally think he is not rich enough to make you excited), I can see that you still have feelings for the one in front, but you are afraid that people will say that you are material, and you are afraid that the current BF will become contemptuous of your love, in fact, it doesn't matter. Take out the actual problem and talk to the bf, just say that your mother disagrees, depending on his attitude. It can also be a test.

Don't believe the words that give you too many assurances, it's just an expedient measure to want you to stay, and it shows that he is short-sighted; If he gives you a practical analysis and a workable approach, you can still consider it.

Solve it as soon as possible, otherwise no matter who you talk to, it will be a kind of hurt to your feelings, and it will not be good for you to be together in the future, in fact, I support you to find another one, don't choose them. Let's go on a blind date! There must be someone who doesn't need to hesitate too much. Find someone to live with for a long time.

Sometimes, love is really tired! But I am reluctant to give up! It's complicated! What is love?

I'm similar to you, and I'm annoying, except that in my case it's my girlfriend.

The only one who can help you is yourself, ask your heart, who do you love! If you truly love someone, you will not look at his family background.

You look at what is most important to you.

If you value feelings, marry your boyfriend, and if you value material comforts, go to your former boyfriend...

In life, many people want to be helped, but in the end, they hold on alone.

It's not that they don't want to ask for help, but they feel embarrassed to bother others.

Everyone will encounter hurdles that cannot be overcome, and if you don't trouble others, you can't talk about deep friendship.

On the contrary, if you trouble me once, I trouble you once, and the relationship will deepen.

The era of fighting alone has long passed, and only by learning to "trouble" others can we go further on the road of life.

I like a quote very much:

Friends are about moving around, and feelings are about interacting.

Knowing how to trouble others is a kind of high-level emotional intelligence.

Feelings are all troublesome.

The more you know about trouble, the better your relationship will be.

As Zhang Jiayi played Song Siming in "Snail House" said:

Relationship is such a thing, you have to move constantly. The more you move, the more you are involved, and the more you are involved, the more you will rot in the pot.

If you can always distinguish between you, me and him, you will be divided. ”

The trouble is to close the adhesive of the shirt tie.

Trouble each other, and the relationship will get better and better.

There is no longer trouble with each other, and no matter how good the relationship is, it will be "troublesome".

As someone said, "A true friend never bothers you, and no one who bothers you is a true friend." ”

In life, everyone cannot be an island.

Don't be afraid to trouble others, when the time is right, let someone else help you receive the courier and buy a breakfast.

And when others need help, they will naturally think of asking you to help.

Disturb each other and help each other, and the relationship will become closer and closer.

People who often don't "cause trouble" to classmates, colleagues, children, and lovers will eventually make the relationship cold.

A good relationship is never too troublesome.

Someone said, "If you want to make friends, ask him to do you a favor." ”

The best way to get people to like you is not to help them know that their socks are bad, but to let them help you.

For others, even a small amount of help is not a matter of course.

If you bother others with piety and gratitude, it will be difficult for them to reject you.

When you trouble others, they will also ask you for help when it is appropriate.

Knowing how to trouble others is a good way to live, and it is also a smart way to survive.

People who don't know how to trouble others will live a lonely life.

If you want to make the relationship last, then you have to ask others to do small things for you, which will make others feel present and important. ”

The feelings between people are deepened through contact and interaction.

Trouble and being troubled is a warm and sincere interaction.

No one in the world will ever need help from others.

People who don't like to trouble others are often lonely people who lack friends.

And people who have a lot of friends tend to like to trouble others.

True friends trouble each other and need each other, just like a fish can't do without water.

I hope that from today onwards, you can learn to be a person who is good at "trouble" others.