If a person is feeling hopeless, how should you enlighten him?

In this case, don't deliberately try to help him solve the problem immediately, stay with him for a while, such as pouring a glass of water, handing a tissue, etc., if you find that there is a danger to your life, you should stop it in time, if you find that there are knives and scissors that pose a danger to your life, as well as medicines, etc., immediately find a safe place to put it away, and slowly wait for him to calm down, the main thing to do during this time is to prevent the possibility of life-threatening.

In those desperate moments or days, I tried to use many ways to solve the despair in my heart. to see those who beg; to see those who are more disabled and impoverished than I am; Go to the hospital to see the people who are seriously ill and still trying to survive; Or drive around and let off steam; or invite friends to gather for trouble; or hide at home and read some inspirational books; Or listen to ** or watch TV or cover your head and sleep on the sky, etc., can not make the despair in the heart really disappear completely. Although it is temporarily lessened, it will soon return, and the despair may be even more intense.

All people out of despair are more paranoid and narrow-minded, not good at interacting with others, and lack the ability to deal with problems, so as his family and close friends, we should help him establish the confidence and ability to overcome difficulties, and have a sunny attitude, which is the only way to solve the problem.

For a truly desperate person, others are simply powerless, even if they take some so-called high-sounding, or passionate and inspirational some big truths, to self-mediation, it may not be able to play much practical role, on the contrary, put yourself in a bad position, the last battle of the ship, but can calm down, suddenly open up, put life and death out of the way!

What he needs is to do something that will put him at ease and rebuild a positive mindset.

Or live in an unfamiliar place for a while, so that you can let go of the past and start over.

Encourage him to put aside all his mental baggage, travel to distant places, find his own way to the future, and even temporarily cut off contact with his family, if he is willing to take you, you will accompany him, and if he is not willing to force it.

Don't care if the road you walk is difficult or not, take a break if you are really tired halfway, continue if you are tired, you can't walk if you are tired, you have to climb out, as long as you keep persevering, even if you only take a small step, you will be one step closer to your success, but you must not lose your fighting spirit, you have not done your best How do you know that there is no miracle? Miracles will only befall those who do not give up, only by moving forward, can we see miracles, do not drive ourselves to death, how can we experience the joy of life in a desperate situation?

You need to paint him a very good blueprint, which must be something that he has just been interested in or has been pursuing. Don't care too much about the truth or falsehood, the most important thing at this time is to pull him out of the abyss of despair.

People's lives are very short and can not be easily given up, we are all the first time to be a person, no one is born to be smooth sailing, everyone's life is to go through the end, think that life is only once, we no longer have any excuse to despair. Who are you cowardly to show it? You must not be discouraged and must believe in yourself.

I don't know how many years of precipitation, in the face of despair from time to time attacks and troubles, my heart suddenly opened one day: since the feeling of despair is always inevitable, but no matter how desperate a person is, in the end it is only a death, I think I am now a dead person, but a dead ghost of the soul, I am still fortunate to be in the sun, what are I afraid of this thing of despair! When I think about it like this, it's really light, it doesn't matter anymore, it's much more effective than all the panacea!

One of my brothers at one time. Because of the frustration of business. Emotionally confused, that brother of mine struggled for a month and finally lost confidence in himself.

He was ready to commit suicide. I don't want to live anymore. Me as a brother.

Very, very ashamed. Guilty. Later, after the continuous enlightenment of several of our brothers, we finally slowly moved towards a normal life.

Man! No matter what time it is, there are a little frustrations and bumps. I'm here to tell you. This society is inherently unfair. It's not perfect. We must learn to let go of what should be put down. We must be persistent and cherish.

Take the dreams he once said, the vows he made to inspire him. Let him set a new purpose in life.

It was probably disappointed again and again, sad again and again, and finally reluctantly gave up. Later, after I met many new friends and many interesting people, I realized that the world is really big, why spend time on one person, there are really too many beautiful and interesting people.

When you're determined to keep yourself busy and make yourself good.

1. No one wants to give up the person they love, but the reality is too helpless, the fate is exhausted, and some pain has been held in the heart for a long time, and one day it broke out together and was extremely disappointed, maybe it will no longer love, because it is too tired. Time passes, and when I think back to the past a long time ago, it feels like a world away.

Second, some people love desperately to keep it, but there is still no result, people's hearts can't be exchanged for people's hearts, and some people give their hearts to you, and you still pretend not to see it, because you don't like it; Some people take your heart away, and you still pretend not to hurt because you love! Again and again I was sad and disappointed, and I repeated forgiveness again and again, but I couldn't find any reason to insist on it, so I gave up. In fact, people who have tasted the cold know that such a disappointment is extreme, freezing three feet is not a day's cold, and it is also expected again and again, and the disappointment again and again is completely dead in an instant.

3. Generally speaking, I have liked it for too long, and suddenly one day my hormones plummet, my brain is clear, and my reason overwhelmingly triumphs over emotion. Then reflect, see through, know that it is useless. So let go, I wish you well, never see you again, to paraphrase an inappropriate phrase, it is too good for you to lose yourself.

Now, I'm going to live for myself.

It's just that one day you grow up and learn to be kind to yourself. Give the future something to look forward to.

If you can't wait, don't wait, when the love is only giving, but it will not last long. Ant group.

It's already hopeless, and then it's a desperate situation.

That's all it takes.

Don't get your hopes up anymore.

Let's face all this calmly.

Learn to be calm.

Life is hopeless, what to do, there is no meaning in life, there is no interest in doing anything, and my brain is thinking that I will leave this world as soon as possible

If you are desperate in your feelings, you will change people, and in the despair of your career, grit your teeth and persevere.

Try to live and strive to live better.

。。。The brave wins when they meet on the narrow road, and they can survive when they are in the decisive place!

Send her a photo frame, you can take the family photo with you, this kind of thing is really not very comforting, want to open it, life still has to go on, people have to learn to grow up, you can't rely on your parents for a lifetime, look ahead, everything is also very beautiful.

I'm desperate right now. went bankrupt and still owed more than 200,000 debts. I'm ready to put an end to this, and the day of Qingming Festival is the last day.

It depends on your personal state of mind. Some people may be successful, some may be. Failed to the end. Mainly want to see what kind of person you are.

Let me tell you: Wenchuan ** Fu.

When it's very controlling, when many people are buried, it's desperate enough, right?! But even if you are buried, you still hope to live, and strive to be found by the northerners and rescued by the north!! Then I think despair is just a dead end when you look at the road, from another angle, maybe you will have the possibility of hope, if you drill the horns of the bull, it is difficult not to despair.

Stop thinking about the things that make you hopeless, think about other things that make you happy or who or things that care about you. Think of your parents, think of your good friends... Not everything will make you feel hopeless. Such as parental care and care.

Think about your mom and dad, think about the future.

It's relieved to think that there are some people who are worse than themselves.

If you can't get it, destroy it.

Try to persevere until you see hope.

People live to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for? In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values. Life is very tiring and hard Because society is very unfair, life is very helpless Sad and sad to cry, find something to do, it is not boring Because life is like this No one's life is smooth sailing As long as you work hard, it will be wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart. Just remember: don't give up this second, there will be a miracle in the next second Life is inevitable to fall and wait Be brave to look up The sunshine is always after the wind and rain!

I'll give you advice, can you see it? 1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ...... 3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.

Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects.

For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. 7.

Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand.

For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy.

Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Go for it! Finally, I wish you a happy life!

Well, when you go to see those beggars on the side of the road, you don't feel sorry for yourself, and some people are often more desperate than you.

It's better to live every day and exchange your own efforts for a better life I'm also in despair right now'My parents divorced, my dad started taking drugs, and finally my dad was arrested by the police, and I became fatherless and motherless, and crying was useless, and there was no one to help me take care of my affairs, do my laundry, cook for me, and I wanted to die, but in the end, I didn't survive, as long as you treat life with care, life will treat you with heart.

There is no endless road to heaven, and you are born after falling into a desperate place. Be bold and ask for help, believe in yourself, and the bread will be there.

Everything will be fine!

Listen to the song and go out