Isn t it terrible to have no goals and no ideals

It's terrible to have no goals, and I don't think it's terrible to have no ideals, because ideals are often defeated by reality, but without goals in life, it's really like walking with the dead.

It's scary, there is no goal, no ideal, the moment I open my eyes in the morning, I don't know what to do, I am confused and overwhelmed.

I also have this kind of mentality, sometimes I will have self-doubt, but in self-doubt my method is to be honest with myself, that is, to ask myself what I want, are you satisfied with the present, what kind of life do you want, how do you feel good, just ask yourself from the heart, what do you want, if you don't want it, ask yourself what life you want, if you want to live a peaceful life, then compare with your peers to go with the flow, if you want to fight, Then think about how to get close to your goals, such as what kind of life I want to live at what age, and then start pushing, pushing what to do now, in fact, you are not bad, you are lazy, you are afraid of hard work, lazy and idle and afraid of tiredness, if you really can't figure it out, just look for books to read, find things to do, even if it is watching movies, watching variety shows, or finding someone to chat or go out to play, etc., no matter what you do, in short, don't be idle, move, there will always be a moment when you will find yourself.

Not only terrible, but would be a soulless person. A person who doesn't even know what he wants to pursue, and a person who doesn't even have the direction of his own efforts is just an empty shell.

Right! If there is no goal, there is no plan, and it is just empty talk to have your own ideas and practical actions to connect, so that there can be a lot of hope.

After I graduated from college, I was afraid of failure, so I didn't dare to try many things. I don't dare to go out to find a job, I don't dare to get a driver's license, I don't dare to take a qualification certificate, etc., I guard my own ** store at home every day, which can be regarded as maintaining my own life.

Later, my sister forced me to get a driver's license. Do you know? At that time, I was nervous to apply for a driver's license, and then I hung up on subject 2 once, and it took me a year to get my driver's license.

Although this is a small thing, my mentality has changed, that is, as long as you work hard, you will definitely be able to do it. Then my family felt that e-commerce was not a long-term industry, so I was asked to take the civil service exam. I was very repulsive at the time, I was not afraid of the written test, but I was afraid of the interview, it was true.

I didn't expect to enter the interview for the first time, and I knew that there were only seven days before the interview after entering the interview. During that time, I was really anxious, I felt like I couldn't do anything, I couldn't speak, I didn't have a condition. I couldn't keep up with what the teacher said, but I couldn't help it.

Later, in the interview, as expected, at this level, there were three people PK, and I ranked second. After going through the interview, I found that the interview is actually nothing, and you can just prepare well.

I don't know the specific situation of the subject, but I believe that as long as you are willing to change, everything will be in time. I think the first and most important step is to set your own goals. It doesn't matter what ambition you have, it makes you feel when you think about it"I'm going to work hard"That's it.

Even if this goal seems absurd, use it as motivation and belief. When you find this goal, I think the subject can also have a clearer plan for the future, and then it is implemented step by step with practical actions. Believe in yourself, a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step, and anything is possible.

In fact, every state of life is worth savoring. What do you mean? Our education has always taught us that grief is not good, and that we should hide or avoid it.

But what's wrong with "sadness"? It's just one of many emotions. If you don't face it, don't taste it, don't accept it, is it - you don't grieve all your life?

Don't shy away from negative things. Let's get along with this state and carefully observe your heart and behavior. It's best to keep a diary to record it.

Don't hesitate to do it right away, do whatever you want. When you focus on one thing, you unconsciously change other things. At the same time, don't expect too much, change happens little by little, and persistence is rewarding.

For example, you can try to read a book for half an hour every day, or memorize words, do whatever you want, and do it right away.

Try more, a bit stupid like me, I always have to do something a few times, I always avoided failure before, but now it's overkill, I like to fail, after Kesan hung up, the coach said don't be sad, I said what's wrong, you can continue to waste your oil. The mentality is different, you won't despair when you see anything, with hope, there are infinite possibilities, let the sinking people continue to sink, I'm going to struggle, I'm only in my twenties.

Yes, if you don't have a goal, you will lose your direction in life, and you won't know what you're living for. People still have to have a purpose in life.

It's scary, but most of us are like that, maybe it's caused by too much social pressure.

A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. Start with the small things in your body, continue to work hard, and gradually get on the right track! Adapt yourself to an upward mentality, to a demanding mentality. It's faster to take it slowly. Come on Junior.

In today's society, everyone has very strong goals, but there are always some people who don't. What's so bad about people who don't have a goal? I think there are several scenarios.

The first is the lack of internal motivation, no motivation to do things, sloppy things, no motivation, just like a person is sick, He Duan does not have the strength to erect strength. The second is the lack of energy, there is not enough energy to do things, it is difficult to do all out, and it is very easy to give up. The third is the reluctance to take responsibility.

He likes to pass the buck when he encounters things, because he feels that it is not his ultimate goal. Fourth, slow action and great love. The fifth is particularly prone to prevarication and complaining.

Sixth, if it is a person who has been busy all the time, he will complain more and more, because he feels that he is doing it for others without being recognized, and it will bring very, very much pressure to others, and it will be difficult to communicate.