How to change your introverted personality

I used to be an introvert, so it's not hard to change my personality. Let yourself find self-confidence, don't care too much about the eyes of others, always insist on yourself, of course, listen to the opinions of others, just have your own judgment, if you think you are right, then you should always insist. In life, we may often be afraid of other people's bad evaluations of ourselves, afraid that others will hate me, but later I found out that not everyone in life is your best friend, your true friends will definitely always understand, and on the contrary, some people who do not know you may speculate about you, say some bad things about you, and hate you.

These may be inevitable, we can't make everyone like us, it's not necessarily anyone's fault at this time, it may just be that you stand on a different position and look at the problem from a different starting point.

Many people who are introverted or don't like to communicate with others generally can't find a topic, don't know what to talk about with others, and some are mostly caused by lack of self-confidence, so enrich their knowledge, pay more attention to the most popular things at the moment, and have more common language with others, otherwise you don't know the hot topics that others talk about, so you can't talk about it.

We must learn to confide in our relatives or friends about our anguish, troubles, depression and other bad emotions, and abandon our own worries and autistic mentality; At the same time, we must also learn to share the happiness in our hearts with our relatives and friends, only in this way will we gradually become cheerful and outgoing, and we can make more friends and make more and more friends.

During school, I always felt that my introverted personality did not need to be changed, but since I joined the work, I felt that I had made an effort, but because I didn't like to express it, the leader couldn't see your advantages, I couldn't get recognition, and I would start to deny myself, and the whole person was very depressed and irritable. For me, there is still a lack of self-confidence, there is no thing that can make me feel proud, I always feel that I am not liked by others, in fact, don't care too much about other people's opinions, learn to dress up, communicate with others like a dead friend, in the new environment, it is the process of adapting to the environment, and it is also the process of adapting to the environment, you don't need to forcibly change yourself, you will always find a suitable way to get along.

The best way for you to be introverted is to communicate with others, and communicate frequently, but this communication is not limited to your acquaintances and friends, the focus should be on strangers.

Correctly understand yourself, that is, do not overestimate yourself, overconfidence, pretentiousness, and look down on others and do not interact with others; Don't underestimate yourself, be too inferior and afraid to associate with others. We must not only correctly view our own strengths and weaknesses, but also face up to the strengths and weaknesses of others, establish a mentality of getting along with others on an equal footing, and establish good interpersonal confidence.

If you want to become an extrovert, taking the initiative must definitely be a step that must be taken, this step is very difficult for many introverts, they like to accept passively, do not like to take the initiative to express, you can only change your personality by overcoming this biggest obstacle, but introverts are a good listener, hope to learn to talk and still know how to listen, then your popularity must be very good.

Whether it's a company or a school, there will definitely be a lot of group activities, and introverts generally don't participate in this kind of activity, so let yourself try a variety of group activities, and you will become a lot more cheerful, and the atmosphere of group activities is very good, even if you are not good at words, it will infect you, so try more.

Many people are shy by nature, not good at words, and afraid that they will not be able to talk to others. So don't take the initiative to chat with others, now there are so many chat software, we can chat with others online, even if the chat is unpleasant, everyone doesn't know, there is nothing to be embarrassed about, after a long time, you will know how to chat with others, and chatting with strangers is also a way to exercise.

I think that if an introvert wants to change his personality, he must take the first step, communicate with others, and change slowly

Get out and about, make friends, and surround yourself with cheerful people.

Be brave enough to express your ideas, actively meet new people, and make some lively friends.