Please give your opinion Is it better to have one or two children?

It's better to have one, after all, raising children now is not like in the past, as long as they don't starve to death or freeze to death, they have to pay for their education, and if it's a boy, they have to save money for their future family, which is not easy.

As the saying goes, raising children to prevent old age, if one is to concentrate on teaching, you can enjoy filial piety and happiness when you are old, and if you are two, you can't educate wholeheartedly, but you can't be at peace, and now the society is not so peaceful, and children are easy to learn badly, so it will be evil.

Still a good one.

One is enough, after all, two raising will be under pressure, as for the pension or something, if the child's education is good, one is enough, if the education is not good, giving birth to a hundred will be a hundred times more troublesome, and if one of them wants to seize the family property privately, the whole family will be restless, there is no need to give birth to two.

Think about why you want to have two? Then think about the difference between having two and having one? Then choose whether to have one or two.

I think it depends on your economic conditions, if the conditions allow, give birth to two After all, an only child will develop a lot of bad habits because of the pampering of his parents (don't say that you won't spoil him, no parent can do it) Isn't there some special special forces who don't want only children? Because only children generally have arrogance, self-righteousness, poor team spirit, and many other shortcomings that seem inconspicuous, but are actually very fatal, there are many such only children around me.

The main reason for raising two is that the usual cost is too high, so it still depends on your financial ability

If you only give birth to one, you can give him all the best things, and you don't have to worry about not being able to afford it! All the pampering and attention is only for him, so that he can receive the best education and lay a solid foundation for the future But he may be a little lonely, and when you are both old, he will have a heavy burden, and there will be no siblings to discuss.

If you give birth to two, sometimes your heart will be more biased towards someone, and there may be a psychological impact on the other one, and the two will always have "wars" at home, and the burden will increase, so there will be no so good energy to cultivate talents! But when you are old, it won't be too hard for them to raise together, and you can also have some opinions on how to do things.

Two. It's too lonely to give birth to one.

An only child is not happy at all! ~

In the future, we can sometimes discuss it together.

Relatives are not so close in the end.

Now it's economic and social.

As long as you have enough financial base.

Then have more births. Of course, conditions permitting.

That's my truest thought.

Good luck.

Forehead.. It depends on whether you think it's better for a boy or a girl.

If the gentleman girl will feel warm.

So I want a boy、

But Mr. boys, I think they're naughty.

So I don't want to do it again...

Forehead.. I am currently a student.

This is just a personal opinion

The baby is always the best of his own, and if he has seen the heart-warming storm, he knows that it is absolutely not good to give birth to one!!

One litter gives birth to two (dragon and phoenix fetuses).

Children are the greatest hope and sustenance of the family. Family life is fun when you have children. I think it's best to have two children at home.

The reason why I say this is because it is too lonely to have one child at home, it is too heavy to have three children at home, and it is best to have two children without being tired and taking care of each other.

1. An only child family with a child, the child is too lonely.

It seems ideal that a one-child family can devote all their resources to this one child. Then the ...... is examinedBut the reality is that the child is very lonely. ......Without a messenger of the same age, the child's daily life will feel lonely and deprived of the fun that the child deserves.

Such a state is obviously not good. Therefore, it is not ideal for Slippery Eyes to have a child in the family.

2. Having three children at home is too burdensome, which is not good for parents and children.

If you have three children in the family, the burden is too heavy. ......Such a family will not only be busy in daily life, but also affect the quality of life, which is very disadvantageous for both parents and children. ......Therefore, a family with three children is also not ideal.

3. If you have two children at home, you will not be tired of taking care of them, and the children can also take care of each other, which has the best effect.

Compared with the loneliness of having one child and the heavy burden of having three children, a family with two children is just right. ......The burden brought by the two children is not too big, the parents can cope with it, and because they have playmates with each other, the children will not feel lonely, and the two children can play together, take care of each other, and fully enjoy the fun of childhood. ......Therefore, the situation of having two children in the family should be ideal.

In general, families either have one or two, and any more is a special case, which brings a problem"Is it better to have one child, or is it better to have two children? "

Of course, if the two children are taught well, the advantages are also very obvious.

1. Two children help each other.

My best friend's own brother got married, and she cried more than her parents that day, and as an only child before traveling, I couldn't understand that feeling at all. To put it mildly, when I was forty or fifty years old, my parents were old, or even passed away, and I could only rely on myself when my limbs were clear, but my best friend still had a brother who had returned to the town, and I could discuss with each other if I had problems. This is a common problem of only children, and our future cannot be relied on without a single wrong step.

2. The child's financial pressure is small.

People have hotly discussed such a question before, two only children born in the 90s get married, what are the difficulties in their future? The one with the highest support rate says this: two young people, with a basic salary, 4 elderly people above, 1-2 children below, plus themselves, that is, two people have to support 7-8 people.

A problem with any of these people means for the average family"Life collapses"。If it is two children, it can greatly reduce the financial pressure of the children, and the parents' pension can also have an additional guarantee.

3. Parents have a higher sense of happiness.

In the book "Creating the Perfect Family Size", it is said that in the United States, the two-child family is the most perfect and most accepted family model, and the one-to-one model between parents and children is perfectly realized. Two children is a critical value of happiness, more or less than this number, the happiness index of parents will decrease, experts believe that this is because in a two-child family, parents are more likely to find themselves"Supporters"。The data shows that in second-child families, the probability of the elderly suffering from depression is one-third of that of the elderly in other model families, and the average life expectancy is long.