Essay How I educate my children

God is fair and stingy, and He only gives life to everyone once, so we must cherish it. Traffic safety in life is very closely related to us, it is like our friend. Day and night by our side, educating us and admonishing us.

Life is precious, and there is only one life in a person's life, and we should cherish life. Paying attention to traffic safety is also a part of cherishing life. Now that there are too many people who have died in traffic accidents, aren't they dying too unjustly?

I've heard of a traffic accident like this: it was a sunny day, and my mother and I were walking down Fonta Street. Suddenly, a car passed by, and I looked at it to see that it was a boy riding a bicycle, and I didn't know where he was going, because he was riding so fast, he almost hit a pedestrian on the zebra road.

The pedestrians advised him not to ride so fast, but he did not listen to the advice and continued to ride his "flying car", with a smug and hurried look on his face from time to time. I thought: maybe this boy is in a hurry!

Otherwise, how could he ride so fast? However, there is a high chance that a traffic accident will occur. As I expected.

My mom and I were around a bend and saw a lot of people gathered around the road**, so we walked over with curiosity. "Ahh Isn't this the boy who rode the "flying car" just now, how did he get hit by the car?

I heard the onlookers talking, "Alas! What a pitiful child! Just now, I accidentally hit a big truck and flew out with people and cars.

If the kid rides a little slower, if the one drives a little slower, if the ......However, no amount of "ifs" can cause the bud to reopen, which has completely withered. The boy's parents didn't know how much they had worried about the child who was lying in a pool of blood, but now they could only watch their child leave, which made the parents grieve ......

Now the city traffic is busy, and there are many tragic traffic accidents like this in China, because China's traffic accident death and injury rate ranks first in the world. Therefore, regardless of whether the traffic police are present or not, we must consciously abide by traffic laws. For example:

When crossing the road, you should see the signal light clearly, stop at the red light, go at the green light, take the crosswalk, and do not climb over the traffic guardrail; Children under the age of 12 are not allowed to ride bicycles on the road; You can't play and frolic in groups on the road......We elementary school students not only have to obey the traffic laws themselves, but also if we find someone violating them, we should criticize and dissuade them in time.

Let us take root in our hearts forever with the words "traffic safety", let people all over the world consciously abide by traffic rules, let traffic accidents disappear forever in our lives, and let our tomorrow be full of flowers and sunshine. Then, traffic safety is your best friend, which will always protect you and bring you happiness. Let's strive to be a civilized and law-abiding good boy!

1. May you grow up healthily, happily and happily, and let the life of the kindergarten become the best beginning of your life memory.

2. Baby, I hope you can find happiness in learning, find wealth in knowledge, and fully enjoy the fun of learning!

3. Children, today is going to kindergarten, happy kindergarten life, waiting for you in front, to get along with the children Yuanzheng, happy learning, happy life.

4. Your progress today is through yesterday's efforts. Mom and Dad hope to continue to see your efforts today and progress tomorrow! If you are more serious and attentive, your progress will be faster and bigger!

5. Just talk about it. You know. You still have a long way to go. A healthy body is the guarantee that you will keep going.

6. I sincerely thank the teachers for their careful care of the baby and the careful cultivation of the wild guess in the past year, so that the baby can continue to grow up healthily! It is hoped that the baby will continue to carry forward the advantages, and with the help and education of teachers and parents, correct the shortcomings, strive for greater progress in the new year, and grow up healthy and happy.

7. Happy birthday to you, baby! May the joy of your birthday be all the good!

<> parents are their children's first teachers, and your words and deeds will directly affect their children's lives. So how to educate children is the most painful topic for all parents, first of all, starting from me, your words and deeds, will affect the child's thinking, the child is a blank piece of paper, and you are a pen, how to depict, what to depict, it depends on your level. Children and you are equal, don't talk about the child at every turn, who is who, this will hurt the child's self-esteem, get along with the child calmly, allow the child to make mistakes, but know that mistakes can be changed.

Give your children more encouragement, teach them the principles of life, start from small things, and slowly under your influence, your children will be able to thrive and become a person who knows books and etiquette.

When a mother cares too much about her children instead of being indifferent, she deviates from nature in the opposite direction. She tends to turn her children into idols for herself.

She originally wanted to prevent the child from feeling delicate, but she raised the child to be more and more delicate. She wanted her child to be protected from the laws of nature and from all kinds of painful experiences, but she did not realize that because she wanted her child to suffer less trivial torture, her child's future would be buried with all kinds of disasters and crises. She did not think of the cruelty of such a kind act, which perpetuated the child's infancy and weakness, so that he could not bear all kinds of hardships in adulthood.

Observe nature and follow the path it indicates. It is constantly exercising the child, it is tempering the child with all kinds of difficulties, and it will soon teach the child what pain and failure are. Don't you understand that because you want to change the laws of nature, you end up ruining your child and making your care for your child ineffective?

Exercising outdoors is doubly dangerous for your child to be given by nature. But on the contrary, this avoids danger. Experience has taught us that pampered children are more likely to meet with misfortune.

As long as we don't make them do more than they can do, and let them use their physical strength than to pity them, the former is less dangerous.

Therefore, it is necessary to train them to withstand the hardships that they will have to face one day, and to train their physique so that they can withstand the harsh temperatures, climates and environments, and be able to endure hunger, thirst and fatigue. Dip them in the River Styx!

Before their physical habits are formed, you can make them develop the habits you want them to have, without any danger. Once a habit is established, any change can be dangerous. A child can tolerate changes that an adult cannot tolerate, because the child's body is soft and flexible, and it does not take much effort to make it go in any direction.

Educating children is a big project, one is to lead by example, one is to encourage him, let him develop in good aspects, let him feel that he is the best, and there is encouragement, there must be punishment if there is a reward, do it right, reward it well, and punish it if it is wrong, so that he knows what to do and what not to do.

Hello: In fact, I feel that my generation of parents is a victim, so I understand better that what we want to give our children is not something to sustenance, but to try not to suffer as much as our generation if they want to.

This sustenance is mainly reflected in the expectation of children's reading. Because it was once true that knowledge changes destiny.

Our parents are witnesses of this historical process. The difference is unforgettable to them, like a steel seal in the depths of their souls. If you are admitted or not, your fates are very different.

They themselves have wasted, wasted, and delayed for various reasons, but they never want the same thing to happen to their children. So I am not entirely critical of the mentality of the previous generation of "hoping that the son will become a dragon". But any parent with a sense of responsibility cannot not care about their children's academic performance.

It's just that "knowledge changes fate".

As parents, what is our ultimate goal in nurturing our children?

The first is to train children to be good people and good citizens.

1: The child has become a good person and a good citizen, so that parents do not have to worry about their children. For society, it is even better.

2: If the child does not become a good person and a good citizen, it will cause harm to others and society, and it will also harm himself. That is not only a matter of worrying about parents again, but this kind of worry and worry is more worrying than worrying about raising children, and it will make parents lose face;

The second is to raise children to be people who are not self-centered or self-centered. Children are not self-centered people, but will make their own families happy and harmonious.

2: If one of the family members is self-centered, it is often the other who is angry and unreasonable. If both parties are self-centered, then the contradictions in the family are irreconcilable, and the end is the disintegration of the family.

3: The disintegration of the child's family is also a pain for the parents.

The third is to let their children have a connotative childhood.

1: People who have had a connotative childhood will let their children have a connotative childhood, so that they will not use incorrect family education to force their children.

2: Otherwise, people who have not had a connotative childhood will either deprive their children of their childhood, or they will be angry with themselves because of their children's anger.

3: Look at the reality, because several generations have not had a connotative childhood, and they do not let their children have a real childhood, which is not only hurting children, but also making themselves angry enough because they will not educate their children correctly.

Cultivate a love of learning in children.

It is not enough for parents to tell their children that it is important to go to school, but also to explain to them that learning does not end with a senior or a diploma. Learning is a way of life.

You don't have to spend a lot of money to increase your child's interest in learning, but let them see that you are reading. You can take them to museums or exhibitions, and these rich extracurricular activities will give children a strong desire to explore knowledge.

Word. Teacher Mebuard, who has been awarded the title of "Einsteinian Youth" by the U.S. Department of Education, strongly advocates that parents must be involved in the activities organized by their children's schools. Doing so will show them that you really care about what they do.

You don't have to have a specialty or do anything in your spare time to help the kids. Most teachers welcome parents to accompany their children on outings, communicate with other parents**, and print out their children's semester reports. Always ask your teacher what help they need.

Communicate openly and honestly.

It's important to find time to talk to the teacher and ask and observe what your child is learning. Parents can call the teacher to find out what their child has learned in class and what homework has been left.

Help your child be organized.

Help your child build a study plan and put all the homework on the calendar so that your child will be ready for it.

Dinner for the whole family.

The most important thing is for parents to spend some time with their children. Research shows that it's important for the whole family to eat together. In general, children who eat together as a family have higher literacy skills.

The more vivid and clear the conversation during the meal, the more helpful it is for the child to learn vocabulary, and the larger the vocabulary, the stronger the reading ability. 123

Educating children to learn how to be human beings is the main and fundamental task of family education, and it is also the core issue in implementing the ideas and requirements of quality education. To educate children to be human beings is to attach great importance to the education of children's ideology and morality. As a parent, we should not emphasize intellectual education over moral education.

Because what is more important than knowledge is ability, and more important than ability is morality. Family education focuses on educating children to be human beings, mainly improving their ideological and moral level, cultivating their habits of abiding by social morality, and enhancing their legal awareness and sense of social responsibility.

2. Educate children to "learn to seek knowledge".

There are many ways to learn to seek knowledge, but the important one is to cultivate good learning habits in children, not to force children to "rote memorization" knowledge, but to focus on understanding and learning to use knowledge flexibly.

3. Educate children to "learn to work".

Children should be guided to participate in housework within their ability, support their children to participate in social welfare work, and cultivate their self-care ability and work habits. Children who learn to work from primary school will benefit for life. Industriousness is the foundation of all good virtues, and laziness is the root of all evil.

Therefore, arranging for children to participate in labor from an early age is a compulsory and basic course in family education.

4. Educate children to "learn to be self-reliant".

Therefore, parents should cultivate their children's independence, the ability to face setbacks, and the ability to adapt to changes, so that children can learn to hone their wings and spread their wings in the vast world.

5. Educate children to develop in an all-round way

Today's society is a competitive society, and people in this era of fierce competition will be eliminated by society if they do not have knowledge and specialized skills and various abilities. Therefore, parents should educate their children not only to learn cultural and scientific knowledge well, but also to actively participate in other activities, cultivate abilities in all aspects, and develop in an all-round way to become useful people in society. Children's education and nurturing is a very complex science, and we parents will definitely work hard to cooperate with the school's education to create a good environment for the healthy growth of children123