How to deal with the relationship between friends and lovers?

If you like it, go further, if you don't have love, take a step back, the relationship between the two, is not good for both parties, and it is easy to get hurt.

Friends can help each other with a knife in both sides, and lovers need meticulous care.

The main thing is to keep a safe distance and not to act out of bounds, which is not good for anyone.

I feel that the boundaries still need to be clearly demarcated, lovers can do many things, but friends can only do some things, maintain a degree.

This kind of friends can be regarded as more than friends, but lovers are not full, it is recommended to go further, because it is really rare to meet such a tacit understanding person in the vast sea of people.

For the relationship between friends and lovers, you must grasp a degree, that is, friends, that is, you should get along like friends, and lovers should get along like lovers.

The relationship between the two should be clarified and the two should be as comfortable as possible.

I feel like it's okay to go with the flow, and don't care too much about the relationship, as long as you're still a good friend when you're friends.

It's a delicate relationship. If you like him very much, and he is also interesting to you, then if you continue to develop for a long time, he may be the only right person in your life. If the other party turns a blind eye to your likes and expressions, or even shows disgust, then they can only be friends again.

If you want to deal with the kind of relationship between friends and lovers, you must put yourself in a correct position, and you must not let your friends have anything unspeakable and your lover have any pain that cannot be expressed to you.

This kind of relationship is also very beautiful, and any kind of relationship requires us to work hard to maintain it, and we usually have to communicate with each other more.

For such a relationship, you must deal with it in a timely manner. After all, when there is constant interruption, it is chaotic. To be friends is to retreat to the boundaries of friends, and vice versa.

Friends and lovers are two different relationship states, one of them is someone who may accompany you for a lifetime, and the other is someone who can give you care and encouragement in ordinary times.

There is a bottom line between friends and lovers, and this relationship needs to be well understood by the two people, and friends cannot be overly dependent as lovers.

I think you should continue to maintain a relationship with friends, because if you fail to confess, you don't even have to be friends, so you have to be careful in what you do.

1. Friends are friends, lovers are lovers, friends don't need to know lovers, lovers don't need to know friends, friends are friends on the road to career, lovers are lovers in life, and there is no existence that you have to know.

A person cannot do without the world of friends, and a person will have the world of lovers, and these two important people will not know each other, and there is no common language in cognition.

When you meet a polite response, if you don't meet, there is no courtesy, and you only have to work with your friends, and live with your lover.

Both are the most important companions of the mind and spirit, as well as the most important companions of the emotional heart, and they also manage their habits.

Second, the relationship between friends and lovers also depends on whether they met first or they met first, familiar people are often together, strangers are used to their respective side of the world, will not know more about each other's love world.

In the real world nowadays, it is very common for these friends and lovers to mingle, they are more familiar with each other's words and deeds than themselves, and as lovers are also friends and lovers mingle.

But there are still more friends who get together, and when lovers get together, lovers also have time to accompany them, but they also have their own circle of friends.

Generally don't become characters who hate each other.,In the end, lovers and friends mingle with each other who are too familiar with each other.。

3. When friends and lovers can only choose one party to accompany them, judge who should accompany them according to the actual situation, and friends will understand that you can't be there, and lovers can naturally understand that you can't miss the appointment.

Generally, friends don't care about how much friends accompany them, only lovers care about how much they accompany, and they have the best way to deal with the realistic distance of life.

If there are friends, lovers may not be willing to accompany, lovers are there, friends may not be willing to accompany, and it is important to choose each stage by yourself.

Sometimes they are willing to stay by themselves, and the important people on both sides are unwilling to accompany them, sometimes they accompany their parents, or they care about their parents alone.

Good friends are understanding, lovers are knowing.

Personally, I think that if this person is suitable, it shouldn't be inappropriate because of the label of good friends, and in the same way, if this person himself makes you have concerns, then even if you are not good friends, you can't go to your own hearts. If you have a crush on him, but you are just worried about whether the relationship between cherished friends can be perfectly transformed into a relationship between lovers, please read on.

In fact, whether it is suitable or not is a very subjective evaluation, and it is tentatively defined as the fact that both parties are able to obtain a more balanced sense of pleasure in the relationship. I mention two words, balance and pleasure, and if the status of the two people is unbalanced in the relationship between the two people, it is likely that the relationship is also unbalanced. Pleasure, if you have a hard time getting along with him in a friend relationship, then what else do you want, don't try to change others.

None of them, right, then look down!

First of all, the contradictions and frictions in the relationship will not be alleviated in the slightest because of your former friend relationship, and the once close friend relationship has made you see how he loves others, and it will inevitably be compared with himself in the future, which will be more likely to cause friction.

Secondly, because they are already good friends, they may lack a sense of mystery and freshness, so if they are together, they must let him see a different side, otherwise it is easy to cross the love period and enter the old husband and wife directly haha.

Moreover, the impression he gave you during the friend period may be different from that after becoming a lover, your relationship will be more sensitive after becoming a lover, and our standards for lovers must not be the same as friends, with friends, girls can be female men but who is not a small public act with lovers, so if you are a boy, don't be stingy and pampered because you have seen her side of a female man, you are now her boyfriend, not a brother, hey! If you feel different from other girls you have talked about because she seems to be okay in the relationship with friends, that is, she is not pretentious and insensitive, then I tell you, it's all the same, there is no girl in love who doesn't like to think about it. If you deny me, either you don't know if she doesn't say it directly, or you don't care so much and don't bother to think about it.

Pretending to be if you are afraid that Jian Hui will not be able to continue to be friends after being together, then let me tell you, since you already have the idea of being together, your relationship is actually not so pure, so friends? Pure friendship? Inexistent.

Nowadays, there are many people who will have a red face or a blue face, generally the relationship between this kind of person is better than that of friends, but it is a little worse than a lover, and sometimes even a confession, so how to develop if the lover is not full of friends? In fact, this also bothers many people, confessing that they are afraid of the other party's rejection, and they are afraid that they will regret it in the future, which is really difficult to make a choice!

How to proceed to the next step if the friends and lovers are not full.

In fact, if you can be sure that you like him, it is better to confess bravely than to stay at the stage where the lovers above Yuda are not yet full. You didn't even dare to confess, and in the end you could only silently swallow the unspeakable "like", this kind of "unrequited love" that is just a person in love will make you rub crazy on the edge of discomfort. No matter how you say it, the other party also treats you as a friend, which shows that the most basic good feelings are still there.

Regardless of whether you succeed in the end or not, what you need is self-confidence. This self-confidence can help you find the most appropriate and appropriate behavior when you are overwhelmed and ambiguous. Be honest and respectful of the other person's response.

Friends above the action of lovers who are not yet full.

1. If you want to have a kiss and hug for him, lift him high.

No matter how many hundred pages of chat history you have with them, or how many interesting souls you have gained about them, you will lose control of your body's original instinct - adrenaline, which makes you want to body touch uncontrollablyYou feel the urge to touch them, to hug them, or to get close to them, and the thoughts that keep pouring out. Do everything you can to have more physical contact.

Whether it's kissing, stroking, hugging, etc., as long as you can have body touch with him, he feels very warm and satisfied, in short, it is a very sweet feeling. During this time, you may even get nervous, flustered, and involuntarily giggle and sweat. If it were an ordinary friend, you wouldn't have such a reaction, would you?

2. Compare the relationship between them and other people.

In the upper right corner of the avatar, a number with a red dot pops pops up. Excitedly, a 30° smile will be on the corner of the mouth, and then everyone will start to understand each other thoroughly and have a mysterious relationship. Even if it's a good friend, it's OK to not chat for a week or two, or even a ** call to go to the movies, and you can wear clothes at will and go out.

But for TA, if there is no news of TA for a day, it feels like TA does not exist in this world, and it will be very anxious, difficult, and even crazy. All day long, the figure of TA involuntarily appeared in your mind, which made you already excited. It's not as simple as friendship anymore!

For them, you have ignited love, and the regular and frequent communication and interaction have become the oxygen you rely on to survive.