After experiencing a few unsatisfactory feelings, will you still believe in feelings?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-29
48 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I won't believe it anymore, I've been through a fruitless marriage at both ends. Now I feel like I have nothing, and sometimes I feel that I really didn't get anything, and I feel miserable after I got it. Think about the first marriage, I was just a public instrument for giving birth to children, since I gave birth to a son, no one cared about me, and when my husband said divorce, I was out of the house, and I didn't have custody of my son.

    Waiting until the second marriage is even more chilling. The betrayal of my husband and the dislike of my in-laws made me feel the warmth of home. I didn't want to let myself live such a humble life, so I decided to choose freedom.

    Now I don't want anyone and feelings to affect me anymore. I slowly fell in love with this freedom. So to count me, oh, there's no love at all.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I will, first of all, love is a spiritual level of human things, he will bring you a beautiful scene, but also let you have a lot of expectations for the future, after experiencing a few relationships, some people may lose badly in which relationship, but when that thing let time to smooth out, you will take a fancy to the object of your heart in the vast sea of people. At this time, you will find that you have an urge to get to know this girl right away, and you will also fantasize about beautiful things in the future. This feeling is something that cannot be obtained in real life any other way.

    You will also work harder because you want to be with this girl, and you want to give this girl a better material foundation and fight harder. When you really like someone, you will always reflect on yourself. This self-reflection is also very beneficial for yourself.

    Imagine that this is the era of free love, if you marry someone you don't like in the future, how long can the relationship between you last? If you marry someone you like, then you feel that most of your life has been successful, then all you have left is to shoulder the responsibility of life and work hard to make money and work hard. Finally, we achieve a beautiful scene of both wealth and love.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I will still believe it, but I will be guarded against it, and I will not devote myself wholeheartedly. I remember that I have experienced my first love, ex, current relationship, etc. since junior high school, and I have had four or five relationships. Until I cut off you, I felt that I couldn't devote myself wholeheartedly, and I was always afraid that the other party would hurt my heart.

    Now that I have children, I slowly let go of love after it became family affection, and now I feel that my current situation is very stable, and I don't like ups and downs. But I still believe in love, and I feel that if two people really love each other, it is enough.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I will not believe in feelings a little, and I will know how to love myself more, and don't give as stupidly as before.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If I encounter real feelings, I will definitely believe it, because even if others betray me, I can't betray myself again. Sometimes it makes you have to believe, because we can't give up food because of choking, and we can't let our previous mistakes or other people's mistakes affect the occurrence of real feelings. You will one day find that time will bring true love to you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Of course, people still have to have love in their lives, life without love is incomplete, even if I experience several unsatisfactory feelings, but I still believe that there will be my own love, there will be the right person.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    After experiencing a few emotions, I still believe in love and the beauty of love! Experience is a kind of culture and a kind of wealth, and when you experience a few emotions, you will become more mature and rational. Love is a school that teaches us a lot of things that we don't have in books and can't learn.

    A person, only after experiencing some emotional setbacks, will know how bright he is.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Sometimes it is desired and unattainable, and sometimes it comes suddenly. When you can't extricate yourself, you can give everything for the other person. When you lose, it stings like crazy.

    This is love, candy and poison. But I also believe in love. Every experience you have is a kind of protection for love, and it is a cherishing of love; She who is really waiting for you is also looking for you, so please be sure to find her, be sure to find her, and cherish her.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I believe that a person who has experienced many failures should be braver as long as he can stand up. Love always exists, just to see if you meet the right person, if it is your belonging, then love well, love with your heart, there will be no problem.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I feel that feelings should be done with care, and there is no need to say that I have to be particularly disappointed.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think I still believe in feelings, and I know better what kind of feelings I need.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Love can not be found, it is a kind of sadness to meet the wrong person at the right time, love is a process of mutual acquaintance and choice, the lost is left as a memory, maybe the separation is for a better start in the next period, we must cherish what we have at the moment.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No. It's either that I'm unlucky, or that relationships aren't a good thing at all.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Love is beautiful, I have always believed that there is love, even if the love fails, but I believe that I must marry love in the end.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I believe that no matter what the reality is, we must have hope and expectation in our hearts, so that we can live a better life.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I still believe in feelings, I always believe that everything before is a trial, and I have learned a lot of experience from it, so that I will not cause unnecessary damage when I meet the next person.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    To be honest, I would be very afraid of being in contact with feelings, afraid of being hurt again, but I still believe in feelings, after all, it feels different with everyone.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Because the relationship between my friends and parents is very good. Even if you have experienced several failures. Always believe in love.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I still believe in love, and having encountered failed love means that I haven't met the right person, and if I can meet the right person, I will never break up.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Personally, I believe that I can't meet someone unladylike all at once. And then suspect anyone. It's just that I'm not lucky enough to meet the one who really likes me. Heaven is fair, as long as you are sincere with others. You will definitely meet the person who has a fate with you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Of course, I believe that the past feelings have passed, and we still have happy feelings.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Others don't know, I will trust when I am invested in myself, I will only cherish the people who are good to me more, and I will never be nostalgic for the people who leave me, because it is a betrayal.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    After experiencing many relationships, whether you can still believe in feelings and love, it depends on what kind of emotional experience you have experienced and endured, how and to what extent these emotional experiences have affected you, and whether you have changed your original intention and mind, people are different, there are many people who have not changed too much after experiencing emotions, and some people have experienced some trivial things in ordinary life will change a lot, not to mention the vicissitudes of emotion, then the original intention and mind have changed, and naturally trust in love will be shaken.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    No, I feel too tired.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I don't know, maybe I can't. Hehe, who can explain this thing, if you can think about love thoroughly, it's not called love. The most difficult thing in the world to see through is the little thing between men and women, but the simplest thing is also the little thing between men and women.

    You'd better figure it out for yourself.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If a man has experienced too much, he may be able to follow fate, a lot of things can be seen, and he will not go back to make too many plans, unless there is a person who meets him who is particularly excited, he will continue to regain his confidence, otherwise he wants to be a person without feelings, no matter how he finds his past self, he can't find a feeling, but he will find someone who is not what he likes or may get married, not all people are like this, and some will not stop until they succeed, they may become emotionless and become a feeling** , let him not know the way forward, change his heart, these are possible, but it is still a small number of people, no matter what the result, must not expose themselves, believe that they will meet the person they like, love each other for a lifetime and never separate from each other.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    will be more eager to have.

    The love you yearn for.

    will also cherish their own love more.

    This is what men look like.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The first type is that they will become less and less convinced of love. The second type is to believe in love at first sight in the future.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    When every woman is looking for a marriage partner, she is actually looking for the next generation: it is to find a mating partner for the next generation who can reproduce and raise better genes, which is determined by biological instinct!

    So in life, you are definitely an indecisive and unmotivated male. So it's not that your relationship is unsatisfactory, it's not that you're disappointed in your relationship, it's that you need to change your own attitude towards life!

    At least a little sunshine, a stable job, a fixed residence, there are the most basic conditions for breeding the next generation, all you need to do is to be like a courting bird, to show your excellent male genes, not self-pity!

    Excellent male genes are mainly:

    1. Strong body (so you can exercise more).

    2. Stable food ** (in human beings is economic ability, you can increase your own just to increase economic resilience).

    3. Sunny and decisive personality (can participate in more social activities).

    The easiest way to change the world is to change yourself! 、

    At only 29 years old, you are not yet at the age of establishment, so change yourself and you will find that the world is not so gloomy!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Enjoy your freedom when you're single, and take care of your family when you're married. Let it be, but now it is recommended to earn more money, with money you may not be able to find a good woman, but you will definitely be able to find a beautiful woman.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Nothing in the world is smooth sailing, and if you fall from there, you get up from there, and you don't have the courage to climb up?

    You have to think of it this way, the people who gave up on you before are their losses, or they are not the people you are destined to meet, and the people you are destined to meet in the future.

    Learn to let go of the past and find someone better than them, and you have to prove how wrong they were for leaving you in the first place.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    In fact, do you think that the woman who gave up your love because of the housing family conditions, is she interested in your house or you? To be honest, if you really love someone, you won't care about that! It's normal to fall out of love, just not meeting half that really belongs to you.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Eh, forget about them, I may fail even more than you in the future! It's not just you, there are many people like this. Think no more.

    Facing life happily is a summary of how many words I copied in elementary school. I just read more rampage comics, and the accumulated happiness can bear such achievements, so forget about those things.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Maybe you haven't forgotten the person you love the most, or maybe you haven't met the person you want to love the most, but people still have to learn to let go of something. So that you don't have to live so tired...

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You're too high-minded. Find a partner and you will be successful. Looking for a daughter-in-law, you chose the wrong person.

    You'll have to choose what's right for you. As the saying goes, 30 years in Hedong and 30 years in Hexi. You won't be like this all the time.

    Look at people who weren't paying attention before. Think about what's right for you. Are the people of the past really that good?

    Aren't you tired when you're together?

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    You can't see hope, because your economic conditions are not as good as others, because the girls you meet give up on themselves?

    Even if you are rich and worthy of the country, what is the use of others who love only your solid family wealth and wealth, the most important thing is to live happily and peacefully, no hope is actually what you are not pursuing, without your own practical expectations, and pinning your understanding of life and the recognition of the meaning of life on the external evaluation of the society, the house and the car woman, think about the white horse in life, or do more things you like This is not in vain

    Moreover, there are a lot of older leftover women than you.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Fate, love must believe in fate.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    In fact, if it breaks the heart, then some people will also believe it.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I still believe that feelings are real, and I firmly believe that one day I will meet happiness.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Of course I will believe it, because true love will only make you feel sweet.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    I've always believed in love, it's just that you haven't met the right one.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I don't believe that feelings are real, because with anyone in the end will be like this.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I don't believe in feelings anymore, I don't think feelings are reliable.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    May not love others very much.

    Loving yourself is everyone's instinct.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    It's not up to anyone to decide, it's usually three paragraphs.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Some people no longer pretend to be in the same place, because after all, they have been hurt, and they will send socks for fear that they will be hurt again.

    Some people still firmly believe that even if this relationship is not satisfactory, the next relationship will be perfect and perfect.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    It's not the old society, don't care what other people think, you live for yourself, and if you like it, you love it.

    If you lose a relationship because of what other people think of you, aren't you afraid that you will regret it?

    There should be no age limit for loveDare to love and hate, this is life.

    Don't let the hurt of the past make you give up on another new feast.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    A person may not meet once in his life, maybe he can meet once or many times, it depends on his own feelings, no one else can say, if it is normal, once is enough, no matter how much others will think you are a big carrot.

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