What words have ruined your dreams?

Look at you like that, are you the material for this thing? At that time, my parents said this sentence, and when I heard this sentence, my heart was very broken, so because this sentence ruined my own dream. <>

My dream has always been to be a writer, but when I went to submit a manuscript, after being rejected three times and twice, the editor-in-chief told me not to do this business, saying that I was not the material for this industry, but I began to doubt myself and gave up my dream. <>

I envy the people who go to work with you, squeeze the bus together, and even queue up with you to buy food, because they can see you that I dream of seeing you, but don't forget, the people who squeeze the bus with you every day, go to work together, and buy food together may also be the people that others dream of seeing, you envy others, others also envy you, and what you dream of having is precisely what others disdain.

Actually, I am a very persistent person, but once someone said something to me that made me give up my dream, he said that no matter how hard you try, you have already lost at the starting line.

Originally, I was a very confident person, but this kind of self-confidence is the kind that can be easily crushed. When I was in high school, I wanted to participate in a math competition, but I was told by my table that you must not be good, so I gave up easily.

I used to be a genius with 99% effort and 1% talent, but 1% talent is especially important, and when I was in high school, I was often ridiculed for not being good at math and not having enough talent.

When I was in high school, I really wanted to study media, and I went to school to see it, and I had a very big vision and hope at that time, but my high school teacher said, "Why do you want to study media because you look like that, you don't have a look or a figure, and my hope was shattered."

Don't you think you're naïve, do you know that the requirements for being a soldier are high now, especially female soldiers, that is not something that ordinary people can be, and you know what kind of price you have to pay to be a female soldier. "I hit my head and face with a blow, and I went to school obediently after going through my own conditions from the beginning.

I used to dream of becoming a doctor, but then people said that if I wanted to develop well, I might need to be in my 30s, and I felt that my 30s were a bit too old, so I gave up on my dream.

I have not given up on my dreams, because everyone needs to have dreams, it is the guideline for our life to move forward, as long as the dream does not deviate from the party, it will eventually reach the distance. Sometimes because the dream is too far away, we can't see it, thinking that it can't be realized at all, so we lose confidence and have no motivation, but this is only temporary, we might as well divide it into several stages, step by step to achieve it, close to it. Each era has different dreams, and while striving for dreams, we must also adjust the ways to realize our dreams according to the contemporary social environment.

All roads lead to Rome, as long as we are in the right direction, the right method, and face it with a positive attitude, we will eventually reach the other side of the dream of life, and meet the surprise of the willow bank flowers from the predicament of the mountains and rivers.

Giving up dreams is because the sense of gap with reality makes people's hearts gap, and the long-term depressed state makes a person's mentality continue to collapse, and finally completely collapse. This process can be long or short. Dreams that have been given up are worth regretting.

For me, a person who has no dreams, I feel very pathetic.

He treats me very sincerely, no matter what I do or what, even if he is played by me, hurts his self-esteem, is unhappy, and is wronged, he will treat me sincerely and sincerely. He said, "I will give you a warm home in the future", which made me give up the idea of breaking up with him countless times. and married him despite the opposition of his family.

The family objected because they thought he was okay but thought I could find something better) It's good now. There are no mortgages and car loans. In planning to have children.

Family members are also blessings.

In fact, it is we who steal our dreams. Everyone will have their own dreams, but after all, it is a dream, so there will be a big gap between the dream and reality, this distance will be very far away, it seems unattainable, at the beginning we will also muster up the courage to work hard, but when our efforts fail again and again, our dreams will be ruthlessly shattered by reality. I saved for a long time, looked forward to it for a long time, and finally I couldn't do it so I gave up my dream.

In fact, I envy people who have dreams. I've never had a goal, no dreams. I knew what I didn't like, but it was hard to find one.

I knew I didn't want what I didn't want and what I didn't want to be. But it's hard to think about how I want to become. Living contradictions, living hesitations.

Every day seems to be in a particularly decadent state, and there is no reason for it. You can talk to everyone happily, you can joke with the people around you, you can go on with everything you should do in life, but you just don't have a direction.