One of my classmates, I knew he liked me, but he either scolded me or beat me every day

Updated on psychology 2024-05-11
41 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Hitting is kissing, scolding, and love. Don't you understand this?This is the kind of thing that happens a lot in our class. He wants to get your attention.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    He wants to have contact with you, I don't know how, I used to have the same experience as you!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    That's what I did when I was a kid, just to get your attention, and the more you ignore him, the happier he gets, and that's how it is with a crush.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hehe, he likes you very much. I just don't dare to say it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I want you to pay attention to him.,It's true that I used to tease people like this like this.。。。

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hitting is kissing, scolding, and love, maybe that's how he expresses it!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Seeing that you're a four-leaf clover like me, I tell you he wants to get your attention. It's not really beating you and scolding you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's obviously a sign of immaturity and wanting to get the attention of the other party.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I won't be able to confess to you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    He wants you to pay attention to him, and one of my classmates beats me every day like this.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    He's probably embarrassed and wants to get your attention, little crab

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Maybe he cares about you and dies to save face.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    He's trying to get your attention.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Being scolded by classmates is a painful and uncomfortable thing. However, the way you deal with it can have a big impact on how you solve the problem. Here are some actionable suggestions:

    1.Be upfront: If you feel unhappy and the other person's words make you feel uncomfortable, try to communicate openly with the other person to show that you are sad and unhappy. Sometimes, the other person may not realize that their words will hurt you.

    2.Ask for help: If you feel bullied by your classmates, whether verbally or physically, seek help from your school teacher or school officials. They should take steps to protect your safety and well-being.

    3.Improves self-confidence: Don't be discouraged when encountering negative comments, ridicule, and infame from your classmates. You can do more things you like and improve your self-confidence. This will also make the other party recognize your strengths, so that they will begin to respect your luck.

    4.Avoid quarrels: Avoid arguing and arguing with the other person in negative emotions as much as possible. This will only make the other person more hostile and hostile to you, which will exacerbate the situation.

    5.Maintain a positive mindset: The most important thing is to maintain a positive mindset and not pay too much attention to what other people are saying and saying. With the support of a strong inner mask mimetic, you can better cope with difficulties and challenges.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I wanted to ask the questioner a question before:

    He scolds you a lot, do you still want to be friends with him?

    If he scolds you a lot, there may be 1He's been in a bad mood lately and wants to get angry with you. 2.He doesn't want to be friends with you anymore.

    You confess directly to him, ask him the real reason, if he won't you, or the questioner you are not satisfied, then personally think, 1It's best for you not to be together for a while and let each other calm down. 2.Or just a little bit, this friend doesn't do it!

    This is my personal opinion, if I feel that I can, hope.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Maybe he thinks you're getting to the point where you're the best friend, and you won't get angry with each other when you joke about it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Tell the teacher that it's not right to scold people like that.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Little sister, you are not even afraid of death, dare to commit suicide, dare to abandon all the people who love you from your parents and parents, what else is there to be afraid of, how can you still be afraid of him

    People who can bully others to the point that they want to die are generally the ones who bully the soft and are afraid of the hard, let go of their timidity and put down their faces, and when they bully you again, they will fight with him, how can you not beat him if you are not afraid of death.

    It is estimated that he is also a coward, so he can be bullied by you, show your attitude, and he will know that you are not good to bully in the future, so it will naturally get better slowly...

    When you were a student, it passed in a flash, and after many years, when you came back to look at your question, you would feel ridiculous, don't do stupid things

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You can talk to the teacher and change your seat.

    The main ones are as follows:

    1. For him, if he has good grades and poor character, this person will not be good, and you can criticize him for it; At least don't be afraid of him, for he's a very bad man.

    2. For you, other people's opinions and practices should not affect your views of yourself; Do a good job in your own studies, do a good job in all aspects of your study and life, strive to make progress (not to compare with others, but to compare with yourself, and to demand yourself), and don't have a shadow because of other people's things; When you are angry, you must find a way to calm down, don't be impulsive, in case you impulsively say the wrong thing or do the wrong thing, but also dare to admit your mistakes and remedy them, in a word: atmosphere, sunshine!

    3. Parents still have to tell them; Teachers and principals can also ask for help4, far villains, and close gentlemen; Socialize with other healthy, decent and motivated classmates to create a good learning environment and atmosphere for yourself;

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    A sad life. Since your grades are poor, study hard. Use your efforts in exchange for the admiration of others. As for the rest, when you become good, everything is not a problem.

    Now that you've done it, go straight to the teacher. Show the teacher that you are self-motivated, you have to work hard to be yourself, and I think if you are a qualified teacher, you will be able to help you. Be brave and go for it...

    As they say: see who has the last laugh. If that boy's conduct was like that, I don't think he would have ended well. So, surpass him and shut up all those who don't think highly of you!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You can't have the idea of death, and you ignore him.

    If you joke with others, you will be inferior to others. What if I told him that my grades were poor, my parents didn't say much about me, why do you say me? What do you do? Why should you care about me? Take care of yourself.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The impact of computers on people is not only negative, it also has a helpful side to learning. When you play on the computer, you may be learning extracurricular knowledge, that is, playing games, and you are also taking it as a kind of entertainment in your heart. Keep up the good work!

    If you play on the computer only on weekends, if you don't play excessively every day, it won't affect your studies

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    As long as you ask the teacher, I think the teacher may be able to pick a good table for you. And if he bullies you, you leave him alone, and gradually he won't do that to you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It doesn't matter if your grades are poor, just work harder and make progress, and when your grades improve, your parents will naturally help you teach your classmates.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Don't be afraid, be courageous. Women have to learn to rely on themselves.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Give him a slap in the face and don't give him face in front of everyone.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Tell the teacher and ask the teacher to help you change your seat.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Have a good relationship with every boy, find a boy who is righteous (to be able to fight) to have a good relationship, don't sue the teacher, tell him if others ask you questions, slowly learn to beat people, remember; Don't take it personally.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's okay. You go home and tell your mom and dad secretly, tell them to communicate with that tablemate, and if it really doesn't work, you can transfer schools.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Talk to the teacher and the teacher will transfer you away.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It should be possible, you can use your own learning to surpass him, be powerful, don't let others always bully you, sometimes it's not bad to be a little better.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If there's anything, just ignore it, don't think of extreme ideas.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    He doesn't like you, he probably doesn't know how to express it to you, (I guess.)

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You can ask the teacher to change your seat.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If you can't beat it, you have to fight it, this is a matter of dignity.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    There is pain, but once you have to be strong.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    First of all, tell the teacher about this matter and let the teacher handle it! Tell the teacher that the teacher is the person who cares about him the most besides his parents, and he is bullied at school, so seek help from the teacher! I would be grateful to the teacher!

    Finally, I vaguely mentioned that if things get bigger, it will not be effective for the teacher) If the teacher is strong, then don't be with such classmates in general, you really have the ability to do a good job in your studies, and then get along with your classmates, and you can not beat him The best ending!! 1

    Second, try to communicate with him. Tell him seriously not to bully people, otherwise you will bear the consequences! At this time, it must be vicious! Don't be weak anymore!

    At this time, there are nothing more than two endings, one is that he will rein in and stop messing with you from now on! This is the better ending.

    The other is that he is angry and wants to beat you, you must not be cowardly! If you want to say two sentences, one is to tell the teacher when you move, and the second sentence looks at the others viciously, and shouts, whoever helps him will be unlucky, and he and him are endless!

    At this point, you need to find a classmate who is good with you to record the video not far away (or you yourself use a voice recorder to record the other person's insults to you, and your words really show that you don't want to fight).

    If it does get into a fight, it doesn't matter! How can a man not be beaten! Remember! Just grab your classmate and don't let go, greet him, don't worry if others beat you, just hit him, hurt him, and he won't dare in the future.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    He must have provoked the anger of the people, and there are probably a lot of people in your class who hate him, so why can't you join these people in rebellion?

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Then why do you have a bad relationship with him?

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Kids, you're both good enough for ink, that's the memory.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Try not to do things that go against other people's ideas, or else you will end up with what you say.

    There are some things that you need to pay more attention to to avoid adding to the annoyance.

    Put the silver belt heart, no, don't worry about such problems, such as not replying to your message for a long time, maybe they are playing a game, but they forgot to switch the status! Don't look at yourself that way, believe that you are the best! Cheer yourself up, be bold, it's no big deal!

    Only boldness can prove that you are the best, and if you want to do that, you may be like this for the rest of your life!

    Generally, the class reunion is to go to the hotel to eat, the hotel has a chess and card room, play mahjong, classmates play together is also casual entertainment, do not play money, go to K song at night, crazy point in the KTV bag all night.

    Kid, don't be stupid, don't affect your mood for these trivial things, it's actually nothing.

    Sit quietly and think about your own mistakes, don't talk about people's mistakes, who has no one to say behind their backs, and who doesn't talk about people after being cautious?

    Your classmates don't die, but when your classmates know the truth, you might die.

    The past is gone, after all, I was young and ignorant at that time, I think I still have to go to the class reunion, even if I meet that boy, I have to be calm and generous.

    Caused by stressful life and endocrine disorders. Try to rest as much as possible, take some soothing oral liquid, and regulate the endocrine well. Naturally it will be good.

    Go your own way, let others say go, there is still some truth in this sentence, they are envious, jealous and hateful, don't care about these boring gossip, if others say: Why are you always with the opposite sex? You can be justified: Why are your parents together?

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