Is it wrong for me to reject a man who doesn t have a house?? I have a car and a house, and my paren

Updated on society 2024-05-22
50 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Actually, there is nothing wrong with you, it's just that you have hit his self-esteem badly. He likes you, and it may not be because you are in good condition. Maybe he just likes you as a person.

    Maybe you missed her, and in this life, you won't meet a man who likes you more, loves you more, and knows how to cherish you more than him. But not necessarily! Individual choices are different, aren't they?

    If you don't like it, don't force it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Marriage autonomy, no matter what kind of person you reject is your freedom. What's wrong?

    However, if this person is a potential stock, he can also consider looking at people and things.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    There's nothing wrong with this, what's wrong with this? This marriage is your own choice. If it is said that it was given to you by your parents, it was given to you by your parents, and if you have money for yourself in the future, you can't rely on other men after reading your parents, right?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    How can I say it, now marriage and love are all autonomous, do you know? You reject who doesn't, it's you, it's your own, it's uh, it's you, it's your own, it's that. It's just that the choice is right or not, and it has nothing to do with others.

    I think you're not wrong, are you? He's not capable, right? I think you can achieve better with your abilities, right?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    That's right, everyone has the right to choose the better. That man will pursue you because you're good, isn't it?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It can only be said that the choices are different, and the trade-offs are different.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    That's right. You have every right, and you have to.

    Don't bring in countless calamities because of a moment of soft-heartedness.

    1 It's easy to move in, but it's hard to move out.

    2. If the parents-in-law are reasonable, they should take the initiative to refuse to live together.

    3 Their request to live together is in itself an excessive request. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not easy to get along

    4They are a family, if you move in, you have to dress neatly every day, if you get up unkempt, or watch TV, you have to sit upright.

    5. If you don't do all the housework, they will have all kinds of complaints.

    6. Buying groceries, going out to eat, ordering takeout, and doing everything they have their own set of practices, you can only accept it, if you ask your husband for help, then he will not support your opinion.

    Living with your parents-in-law has only disadvantages and no benefits.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Now that you are married, you can only be a family. No way. Who let you marry in the first place? Unless the man's parents are sensible and know how to be measured. I hope to adopt thank you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There's nothing wrong with you, but it's going to make the man feel bad if you do it, and it's okay to accept it for the sake of both of you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hello, whether the house that your father bought you in full is registered in your personal name, or in the name of both husband and wife, and the registered in the name of both parties belongs to the joint property of the husband and wife, and the man has a certain share. At this time, the husband's parents have the right to reside.

    If it is only your own personal property, you have the right to refuse to live in it, but it will be unpleasant for both parties.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The man has low self-esteem, and his point of view is that he feels that he can't give happiness to others without a house or car. So don't easily agree to other people's pursuits. In fact, low self-esteem will wear out your mind and image self-confidence.

    A woman is willing to follow you without a house or a car, so she has to work hard to prove that she is not wrong.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    When she is sensible, she will not love you, since.

    She likes you now because she wants to work hard with you, maybe there are differences in thinking between men and women, men want to earn money and have a house and a car to love someone, but girls want to work hard with boys, and work hard with him, if a girl is willing to share weal and woe with you, please cherish her, maybe boys don't want girls to suffer, but isn't this how feelings support each other.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Not all girls worship money, and her chasing you shows that you have personal charm.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Because girls don't think about their realistic future, they just think about what I like and want to be together, while boys think a lot, and the economy is a very realistic thing.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Sometimes the relationship is very hard to say, my husband is a bai bus driver, but also no car du no house, when the patting was delayed, the parents were also opposed, afraid that I would live a hard life in the future, in the later relationship, the parents found that he was a reliable and stable person, Dad said, as long as two people have a fixed job, work hard, there will be a good life, at that time Mom and Dad also boiled out like this. Now our daughters are almost two years old.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    A girl is willing to follow you and walk with you when you have no financial conditions, which shows that she really loves you

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There was a little octopus who fell in love with the girl he loved, so he stretched out a hand, and another hand, and another hand, and another hand......

    Finally, he hugged the girl he liked tightly with eight hands.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    To be sensible is to go with the flow and be content.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    She is chasing you with her feelings now, and when she is sensible, this is not what she values.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Refused for various reasons, or he didn't like her enough.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Because it's not the type he likes, the boy won't accept it, and if it's the type he likes, he won't care.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Is it true that every girl is only materialistic?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Everyone stands at a different angle and comes to different conclusions. I've seen such a passage a long time ago. The fish said to the bird, You can't read my tears, because I'm in the water, and the bird said to the fish, You can't read my tears either, because you are in my heart.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Erlang Zhenjun presided over justice for him and severely punished the Hades, the county secretary, the city god, and the sheep. Fang Ping returned to his father and lived a prosperous life ever since.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Since you are married to him, it is the son's responsibility to honor his parents, and the son must bear it, if the parents have no place to live, and you don't want them to live, you can only pay for a house for them to live in.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This is your property, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been difficult to maintain.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's not good, but do your in-laws have the face to live in? I guess I can't let go of that old face after staying for a few days. Sometimes you can't be too ruthless, harmony is the most important thing, how to get married, give more men in your family a long face, you know.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The issue of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a spear and a shield, if both parties can handle things well, there will be completely different lifestyles, but your husband is too assertive and will not deal with family problems.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's just that she doesn't feel like chatting with you, so she won't talk.

    What's more, other people's rural ones are not necessarily worse than yours, mature ones have quality, and I have seen many people who are not very good in the city. Although I am also a child of the city.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I think the salary is too low, and if you want to be self-motivated, how can you survive with 2k a month.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Maybe she thinks you're lying and it's sad Sometimes it's because she thinks you're rich and has low self-esteem with you Maybe it's because you didn't develop a relationship with him and directly planned to buy her with money Most girls are still emotional creatures, especially girls from poor families And those women who are greedy for vanity are worthy of you Choose a woman seriously.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's good to be together if you can't do without him, but you have to learn to respect him, give him a certain amount of freedom and space, and don't care too much. Another thing you have to learn to be independent, learn more and improve your quality, work hard, and let him do without you, so that you can be together for a long time. Good luck.

    It's good to be together if you can't do without him, but you have to learn to respect him, give him a certain amount of freedom and space, and don't care too much. The other is that you have to learn to be independent.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Since you have broken up with your boyfriend for a month, you are still thinking that he proves that your relationship foundation is very good, don't break up with him because the man has no money and no car, if you have a good relationship, you don't need to have a house or a car, everything will slowly turn around in the future life, two people work together to do it, in this way, nothing will be lacking from scratch, as long as you are like-minded, two people with one heart, I think nothing can compare to this feeling, slowly I will have everything, whether it is a house or a car, If you think about two people, one heart will not lack anything, as long as two people have one heart, tolerate each other and be considerate of each other, life will be fine, rely on your own hands, nothing will be lacking, I wish you success.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    What was the reason for the breakup? I think the main reason why we can be together is that we have a good relationship, which is the foundation, and the so-called foundation is not firm. Although it is now a material society, but tracing back to the source, there is still a relationship, and I hope your ex-boyfriend is a potential stock.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It's not a disease, this is your true feelings for this ex-boyfriend, you really love him, if you really have feelings and break up for material things, it's a pity, if you don't regret it, go and fight for it again!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Your current thoughts are very simple, thinking that as long as you have feelings, nothing else matters, and I hope you won't regret it in ten years!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Don't look down on those who have good economic conditions.

    Because for the suitor, it mainly depends on the individual's personality, whether it matches it, whether the person is capable of it? There is potential.

    It's not that a person with money in the family is good, because she is rich, but if he is not motivated, he will eventually lose his family property.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Yes, there is nothing wrong with it, everyone has the qualifications and requirements to choose their own object.

    These people say so.

    It's all they can't ask for.

    The last vent of anger is just that.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    You are right, you are the rich second generation, you must find someone with the same background, so that there will be a common topic, if you find a poor boy, your three views will definitely be different, there will be no results, so it is better to find the right person at the beginning, this requirement is very reasonable! Support you.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    The pursuit of one's own happiness is a matter of course, not money worship, because it is completely understandable that you want to find a good person.

    It's okay to find a family that is completely compatible, because at least this will not bring some prejudice, and the parents of both sides should be able to talk about it like this, and there will be no differences in the middle, so it is completely normal for you to pursue this kind of pursuit, don't care what others say, as long as you pursue your own happiness, the road of life is your own, not someone else's for you, so you do it according to your own needs.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    I feel that your notions or opinions are wrong in the first place. What you should learn from the adults around you! I don't know if your parents were self-made.

    But you can learn more from some of your relatives and friends around you. I'm sure there may be self-made ones. There may also be people who are poor and white when they get married.

    It's a very, very nourishing life now, and it's very, very good. You value material things too much. Yes, there's nothing wrong with getting the door right.

    I hope you can find a quality and moral aspect. Good. If you want to find someone like that, you have to start with his family.

    Pay more attention to the behavior of his parents and grandparents. Or some ideas and views on behavior. You can ask your relatives and friends to go to the village and make a secret inquiry.

    This is my usual trick! I don't tell ordinary people.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Your conditions are indeed very good, but you should not only look at economic conditions, these three boys may have great development. You reject them, you are selfish, you only measure people by economic conditions, you will not find true love.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    People are so realistic now. Therefore, there is a lot of pressure on men nowadays to marry a wife. You don't need to be depressed and go the extra mile to make money.

    When you have money, you are afraid that you will not be able to marry a good daughter-in-law. Now that cars are very cheap and now that you have a house, I believe that not only in the future, but you will definitely have a car that you bought with your own money. If you have a house and a car, your daughter-in-law will also have it, and then you will pick your daughter-in-law.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    The girl who only goes to your material conditions is not necessarily a good match, you don't have to be too anxious, it's not too late to work for a few more years and then think about lifelong events, and then the material foundation will be better, and the choice will be greater.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Today's girls are really realistic enough.

    You have just worked, which means that you are not too old, and you should not be too anxious about marital problems.

    Just work hard while you're young, learn more skills, work hard, and work hard to earn money. As for love and marriage, when fate arrives, all wishes will come true.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    It's a good thing to be rejected by this kind of person, what happiness can you have when you live with this kind of person, it's not the happiness of living with a house, a car and a deposit, everything looks at money and you can't be with such a person.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    The kind of situation you said is rejected according to the current girls who think they have a sense of superiority, it is normal to reject you, you should feel lucky, at least the two who are on a blind date with you are material women, most of the girls now have nothing and ask the man to have everything, such is not worth loving, or some girls are not so material, look for it slowly.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    It's your luck to be rejected, and if you really do, you'll regret it!

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Are girls so realistic now? In this way, it doesn't matter if the girl is not everywhere, what she values is not your person, it is your material, and you can't share the joys and sorrows together in the future, you don't have to be depressed, it's not worth it.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Since you know that the person is a disabled girl, then you have to think about it, you can't let the family be hurt, in that case, your conscience can't get by, since you think about it, you can pursue it.

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