When you marry someone you don t love, do you think about the person you really love?

Haha, of course I will think about it, but even if I get married, at most I will think about it, you have to maintain a happy home... Even if you get divorced, it is impossible to get together with the person you loved before, and in the end, it's all in the past, leave a good memory. The main thing is to grasp the ...... in front of you

Do you find it meaningful for you to ask this question?

Shouldn't you have thought it through when you made your choice? If you plan to marry someone you don't like first and then divorce to marry someone you really love, then why do you want to get married? Do you have a lot of money? How energetic is it?

If you really plan to force yourself to marry someone you don't like, then keep the person you really love silently in your heart, otherwise the girl who married you is really innocent, why should she bear all this?

A truly mature man, the moment he makes a choice, should know what kind of responsibility he will have to bear.

No, people don't always live in memory.

I think there will be these thoughts at first, it can be strong! But when you think about it, you're not the same person you used to be! It will be more meaningful to cherish the life in front of you, and the people in front of you.

The past is the past, and you can never go back to the beginning, that is, in the future, when you are with the person you like, there will be a wall between you. Because time cannot be turned back.

Love should not be let go easily.

When you get married, you should give true love.

The one who truly loves only hides in the bottom of his heart.

The person you love is just a thing of the past.

The talents around you are worth cherishing.

I don't think I will.

1. A marriage without feelings is destined to be unhappy. Therefore, if you don't like the other person, you can't marry them.

The most important factor in marriage is the relationship between each other. Only a deeply affectionate marriage can have a happy state and truly reap a lifetime of happiness. If there is a lack of affection between two people, the marriage is destined to be unhappy.

And for people you don't like, you will definitely not have feelings for each other, so of course you can't marry such a person.

2. The person you don't like is definitely not suitable for you, and of course such a person can't marry him.

The state that suits oneself refers to the state that is suitable for one's own conditions in all aspects and meets one's own needs. Therefore, the person who suits you must be the person you like, which is the primary condition. If he doesn't like that person, he will definitely not be suitable for him, and it is impossible for the two of them to be together, and he will not be able to marry such a person.

3. Love at first sight is hard to find, so you can't decide everything simply by liking it or not.

Love at first sight, although romantic, is a difficult thing to find after all, and for most people, this situation is basically unavoidable. Therefore, you should have a realistic attitude on the issue of marriage, and you can't just make decisions based on personal feelings, let alone simply use whether you like it or not as a criterion. You should conduct a comprehensive analysis and make a rational decision, so that you can really find someone who suits you, and this kind of marriage can make you the happiest.

4. If I choose a person I don't like, but I feel that I am suitable for marrying, then I will have a sense of guilt in my heart, because I have not really loved each other, but I choose to marry with each other, this practice is very irresponsible to the other party, it is difficult to really bring each other happiness and joy if you don't love each other, this will affect the other party's life, maybe many people think that feelings can be slowly cultivated, but if you live with a person you don't like for a long time, If the relationship is not cultivated as originally envisaged, then it will only waste the precious youth and energy between each other, which is a harm to both parties.

Because I don't love, I don't have any expectations and requirements for my other half, I won't be disappointed, I won't be jealous, and I won't be angry.

It feels very painful, because the other person's every move will become an excuse for you to dislike the other person.

First of all, in this question, I will definitely not marry someone I don't love, because if I marry someone I don't love, then I think the future life will be very depressing, so at the beginning, I must choose someone I love and the right person to marry.

If we are marrying someone we don't love, then our married life is actually very respectful, that is to say, there is no love at all. Because I myself am a more lively person, and I am also willing to share with my other half, then if I marry a person I don't love, I will feel very depressed, and in this marriage, it may be more just to live together, rather than really getting married, marriage is actually because two people have come to a certain extent, thinking that the other party is very important to themselves, so they get married.

And when we marry and live with someone we don't love, it's actually very easy to quarrel, because in many ways, we may have disagreements, if we love someone, we will want to say whether to accommodate him, and whether we want to listen to his thoughts. But if the other party is someone we don't love, but we have to live together, it is very easy to quarrel, and sometimes we can't control our emotions, and we won't even listen to his opinion.

On the whole, if we marry someone we don't love, then our final married life may be very unhappy. Of course, it doesn't mean that everyone who marries someone they don't love will be like this, it's just that I hope that in the process of getting married, I must have love for each other, so that we can better support our marriage. Because I think marriage is because two people love each other to a certain extent and can't do without each other, so they go to marriage.

And not to get married for the sake of getting married.

Of course, I won't marry someone I don't love, because if you marry someone you don't love, it will really be very painful, marriage is not child's play, and any outcome is something you have to consider.

No. Because I don't need a marriage without love, I won't marry someone I don't love.

Yes, because I'm old and have no choice, as long as the other party has a good character, I can marry him.

To tell the truth from the bottom of my heart, for a man you don't love, no matter how good the other party is to you, you must never marry him. This is by no means decisive, for three reasons, and it is up to me to take my time.

If you really like someone, you will feel that he is good, and even listening to his voice will have a sense of gravity and intimacy, because of love, because of worship, you are willing to listen to him in everything, and you are willing to pay for him without regrets, without caring about gains and losses and returns. Seeing him, the eyes are full of love, the satisfaction of the soul and the steadfastness are intertwined, and it is an incomparable enjoyment and happiness.

If you don't love someone, all his good and love will not make your heart ripple, some are just disgusted and impatient, all of his interests can't arouse your attention, and the boring days just pass too slowly. Isn't there a saying that is well said? You can't wake up someone who is pretending to be asleep, and you can't touch someone who doesn't love you.

Therefore, when you marry someone you love, your days are poetry, paintings, and romance, and when you marry someone you don't love, your days are torment, distress, and a bottomless abyss.

Love is mutual, it is you and me who need to respond, no man wants to see his beloved wife, treat himself with a cold attitude all day long, holding a stone that is not hot, and when it is cold to the bone, he will choose to give up helplessly.

The more you give, the more painful it is when you lose, love is not moving, love is not gratitude, husband and wife are to share a white head, home is a warm harbor, the building of marriage lacks the temperature of love, it will become gloomy and lifeless, and it will also make the people in the building tired and tormented. So, don't accept it if you don't love it, let it go if you don't love it, don't covet the other party's money or love, and hurt him.

A good marriage is about appreciating each other, growing each other, tolerating each other, and understanding each other. If there is no love, all this does not start from talking, his goodness, you can't see it, his tolerance is not rare for you, and his understanding you will not be moved. Because there is no love, you are not willing to pay for him, because without love, you will not feel sorry for his helplessness when he is weak, for him, in your eyes and heart, you are disdainful, neglectful, indifferent, and ruthless.

Marriage is not child's play, it must be treated carefully, women should remember: don't marry the person you don't love, don't be infatuated with the person who doesn't love you, respect your own feelings and others' feelings, and would rather not get married for the rest of your life, and can't choose someone who is not suitable.

Choice, as the name suggests, means choice, which is an autonomous conscious process. Marriage is the process of marriage between a man and a woman who agree on a lifetime. Friends, marriage is such a beautiful and sacred thing, and how many people look forward to its perfection and hope that it can bring happiness to themselves.

We have all heard the saying that life is not about regretting what you have done, but about regretting that you have not done something that you really like.

Friends, life is short, flowers bloom, in the blink of an eye, it is an old man, a vast sea of people, since you have met the person you love so deeply, since you have the right to choose, then why not be brave to pursue and choose the person you love?

I would like to present my views in three areas:

1. It is very rare to find someone you love, so you should choose the person you love when you get married! If you choose to be loved, can you guarantee that you will meet better people who love you more in the future, and can you always control yourself?

2. Choosing to be with the person I love is a matter of prudence.

There are always people who say after being hit in love, "I must find someone who loves me when I get married in the future, so that I don't want to leave tears for anyone, but we can never tell and never control the emotional matter." Otherwise, there would be no song where I fell in love with someone I shouldn't love.

3. For self-growth, choosing the person you love can stimulate people's initiative and creativity, because in order to make the other party fall in love with you, you will take the initiative to ask yourself to improve, take the initiative to learn, improve yourself, and achieve yourself. How happy it should be to get love through your own efforts. Even if I don't get love, I must have got a better self, so I will never lose my love for life.

Life will never fail such a self.

To sum up, once again, I choose the person I love when I get married.

By the way, share the question of the positive side asking the negative side:

You gave up the person you love and chose a person you don't love but loves you to get married, excuse me, did you choose someone who loved you because you were afraid of failure?

Yes: Fear of failure, we have the possibility of failure in everything we do, and only by working hard can we succeed.

No: not afraid of failure, so why not listen to your heart and pursue bravely.

You gave up the person you love and chose a person you don't love but loves you to marry, excuse me, did you not choose the person you love because you didn't have enough confidence in yourself to dare to pursue the person you love?

Yes: You yourself don't have confidence in yourself, how can you have the confidence to guarantee that you will get along with someone you don't love for the rest of your life, if not, are you responsible for the marriage and yourself?

No: If you have faith, why don't you take action to pursue the person you love.

I didn't choose the person I love to marry because I felt that the other person didn't love me that much, and I felt that dignity was more important in the face of dignity and love.

A very real problem, if you fall in love, you will find someone you love, and if you get married, you will marry someone who loves you, which may be a mature mentality.