How do you build a family?

Hard work, everyone works hard, keeps fighting, and struggles, because everyone has their own beliefs in their hearts, no matter how tired they are, because they have the support of faith, they have always insisted and never stopped. I just want to live a more dignified life, a better quality of life, and a more relaxed life. Working hard is to earn more money and make life more secure.

I don't want to look down on my loved ones when they are sick, and I don't want my parents to live an embarrassing life in their later years.

I have a sister on the top, not angry, all married and wandering around, my dad every time I call ** said that he was worried about her, there is a younger brother, is in the second year of high school, and I am in college, the economic conditions of the family are not good, but compared to the real poor I think my family is not bad, I have not been badly treated in terms of money since I was a child, I have never cried to me when I need money and said that there is no money at home, my dad is really ordinary, ordinary coolies, my family was really poor when I was young, I almost didn't go to school because my dad was late (it wasn't compulsory education at that time), but after so many years, my dad is the pillar of the family, he has done all the work, he has supported the family alone, and the three children have not treated one badly, it is hard to imagine the hardships that my dad and my mother have endured over the years, I only know that compared to them, I have not suffered hardships, and those I have lived are not hard days.

I stayed up all night in order to catch up with a plan, and I was sprayed the next day, and the pressure was great. After the meeting, everyone's opinions were integrated, and the version was changed four times in a row, and the plan was finally completed before the deadline. After the plan was issued, he went on business trips to look at the market and find problems.

Nonstop. The highest record Chengdu Beijing day trip to the second day Chengdu Chongqing day trip to the third day of the head of the headquarters to check the work, the most exaggerated record is to work overtime until four o'clock in the morning, go home to take a shower and change clothes after the reception of the leaders of the Chinese region, colleagues all said ** good, then there is no blood.

I have been working in the field for my life now, although I don't have to worry about food and clothing, and I have enough money to spend, but I still yearn for the life of my hometown in a small city, and now our city has developed very fast, and the high-speed rail has been opened, but the wages can't rise, and the prices are very high, and now I can't stay at all when I go back. But think about it, the people in the family can only keep persevering.

The most poignant thing I remember may be that I come home from work every day, hide in a house of a few square meters, cook noodles with a rice cooker, and the proprietress of the vegetable shop I visit every day can't stand it anymore and secretly stuff me with two eggs, I am very grateful. Later, I didn't have to live such a hard time, I had a kitchen, air conditioner and refrigerator at home, but I didn't want to cook like I did at the beginning.

Life is not easy, persistence can win, there is no river that can not be crossed, we are all working hard, I am also now in the river **, I am trying to move forward, although it is very slow, I believe that it will pass, and there will be a rainbow after the wind and rain.

In the first two years of doing business, I went from not smoking and drinking to taking the initiative to learn, drinking every night, drinking too much to vomit, and then coming out to drink, once vomited seven times a night, and then had gastrointestinal problems, when I drank to vomit, the small intestine and stomach were hardened, and it took a while to slowly recover, and then went back to drink, and then vomited.

It is very hard to support a family, every day the firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar tea are big, but these details must be taken care of, the children eat and wear every day, and the main thing is the relationship between the two people, the two people must communicate often, even if the lead is a little joke, occasionally the two people are better than the world of the two, the two people should be considerate of each other, each other is the most important thing, to give each other their own living space, what things should not be too serious because it will go through decades! Wish.

Shouldering a family alone can sometimes be very powerless. I don't think anyone is willing to take care of a family on their own. In general, I still hope that the family will be complete.

The weather is sunny on weekends, and the countryside is green. Seeing others teasing and loving a family of parents, the children's faces were innocent. Cooking and eating, accompanied by parents, homely and short, extra warm.

Going to school and leaving school, parents picking up and dropping off, it's not that I won't envy. Someone will share the burden, and the days will be a little lighter and looser. This sentence is not without reason.

Life is a good life. But take it easy, who wouldn't? But what is sharing?

If you marry someone who is not diligent and likes to point fingers, will he share the burden for you? Marry an arrogant and proud guy, will he share the burden for you? Marry a selfish money addict, will he share the burden for you?

Tell yourself, tell the girls around you, tell your daughter, if you don't get married, someone will share everything in this world with you. For most people, learning to share is actually pleasure. He is willing to share the food with you, the travel with you, and the sweetness with you, but he is not willing to share the growth and responsibility with you.

When you meet such a person, how can you get a complete family as you wish?

Therefore, many times, tell yourself that even if you are very bitter, even if you are tired, even if you are wronged, it doesn't matter, this family still has to be supported by yourself. Hold on until the child grows up, hold on until you are strong enough, and there will always be a bright spring.

Because the man is a pillar of the family. So hold up a home.

Men are the breadwinners of the family. So hold up a home.

There is no why it is like this from ancient times to the present day.