What do you think about unmarriage? What do you think of unmarried?

It's not that I'm not married, it's that I'm still waiting. People with seven emotions and six desires, due to their different experiences, have insecurities in their hearts about marriage, responsibility, tomorrow, love, life, etc. A sense of security is what modern men and women lack the most.

It's not so much a lack of security as a lack of self-confidence. Don't believe you can navigate marriage, love, life. Not getting married is the true idea of single men and women, but it is easy to be broken by fate.

Just like many families who say before marriage that they don't want children, fate comes, and you naturally want it. Respect for every state of life, marriage or non-marriage is reasonable and legal. As the marriage contract became less and less common, everyone tried to become a hermaphrodite, and male and female robots began to emerge to replace most of the functions of the other half.

Today, with the abundance of industrial products and the variety of entertainment methods, the emotional experience that marriage can bring to people has been gradually eroded. The Internet has connected people all over the world and provided a variety of possibilities for human development. Diverse and personalized industrial products meet people's various material needs, social networks meet people's needs for group belonging, and games meet part of the needs for self-worth realization. The function of marriage is weakening.

The value of marriage is shrinking. In the era of the agrarian economy, the role of marriage was significant, it represented legal procreation, and it brought about an increase in the family labor force, which meant that the family was able to cultivate more land and obtain more wealth. Therefore, the root of the ancients' preference for sons over daughters is that the value of women's labor is lower than that of men, and at the same time, women are to marry, and giving birth to a daughter is equivalent to cultivating labor for other families, so when marrying a woman, a certain bride price is needed as economic compensation for the loss of labor.

But in today's post-industrial world, the value and status of marriage are far less than in the agricultural era.

If an unmarried person has very objective restrictions or ideas, such as homosexuality. Or the burden on the family is very heavy, and they can't afford to buy a house and get married. His personality is naturally lonely and unsuitable for the lively family life.

If these are these, it is understandable not to marry. But if it's because you're afraid of taking on some family responsibilities, you're running away from growing up, or if you feel like you're taking care of yourself, the whole family won't be hungry. Or maybe you want to treat love as a game and play more.

Then the path of this unmarried person will not be easier than getting married. In short, if you have the slightest idea of escaping and trying to relax when choosing a concept, the result will not be as easy as you expect.

Some people say that they are sorry for their parents if they don't get married, and they are sorry for themselves when they get married, and I personally think that most of them don't want to get married, and the family problems are relatively large, and they all say that parents are the first teachers of their children, and children are the longest and most recent by their parents' side.

If late marriage and late childbearing are the characteristics of the times in the past decade, then non-marriage and infertility will gradually become the characteristic imagination of today's era, and even become the mainstream of society when the intelligent society really arrives. Marriage will eventually disintegrate, end its adaptation to agrarian and pre-industrial societies, and retire from the stage of history. When people lose the shackles of marriage, what they gain will be the whole world.

The main reason is that marriage is very expensive. The basic configuration requirements for urban men and women before marriage are that the man provides a commercial house, a family car, and of course, a large amount of bride price; The woman provides a dowry of the same value, of course, compared to the man, the pressure is not so great. This is only the basic configuration before marriage, not including wedding banquet expenses, honeymoon expenses, etc., but it is beyond the ability of a considerable number of families.

Purchasing these multimillion-dollar premarital necessities requires exhausting the savings of half of the parents' generation and overdrawing the value of the labor of marriageable men and women for the rest of their lives. However, this is only the first step in the journey of thousands of miles, and there are many major life choices such as raising children, supporting both parents, and their own career development, each of which symbolizes hundreds of thousands or even millions of expenses, of course, not including the general problem of divorce due to marital discord. Then, a marriage not only means a huge tangible cost, but also a huge investment in time, opportunity and emotional costs.

Therefore, marriage has gradually become a "rich man's game".

I think the unmarried are doing well, too.

It is only in recent years that non-marriage has become popular. In fact, many young people now think that marriage does not mean that two people can get along, so why should they be tied up? It's not that they don't want to get married, it's that they think marriage is just a form that limits their lives.

They can live together without marriage, with children and a warm home. Why would Mori use a notebook to prove how much they love each other? Life wants comfort, freedom and simplicity.

There is no need to tie two lovers together in any form.

With the change of times, many people now choose not to get married, mainly for two reasons: physiological reasons, their bodies are not easy to get married; For psychological reasons, this person does not want to get married from the bottom of his heart. In China, traditional culture is broad and profound.

Marriage and childbearing are not only for oneself, but also for one's family. However, with the development of young people's society, they are paying more attention to their careers. They are not pure anti-marriage activists, but they also fall in love and have families and children.

They just don't like to associate their careers and friends with marriage.

Those who are not married are not unwilling to get married, but they have not found someone they truly love. People who love each other are not separated by a piece of paper. If a man marries you for a piece of paper, he doesn't love you.

Love goes beyond this piece of paper. There are two consequences of not marrying in life: one is that the most miserable person dies alone, without relatives and family.

The second is to be with people who love each other and never marry in their lives. The whole life is too long, and there are very few people who are not married. I hope that in the future fewer and fewer people will not get married.

It's not easy to be a true "unmarried". Even though this is an open era, the secular view of marriage still exists, and "illegitimacy" is the opposite of the secular view of marriage: if your parents don't approve of you not getting married, and the people around you don't agree that you don't get married, then it's hard for you to be firmly "unmarried."

So unmarried people can also live well. The above is a personal opinion.

Falling in love is a very light thing, as long as you like each other, you don't have to worry too much about external factors. And marriage is not, marriage means that you have to work hard for your family, you have to run for firewood, rice, oil and salt, so many people will be afraid of marriage, and the solution is: First, don't be overly afraid or resist marriage.

The reason why many older single young people are reluctant to get married is mainly because they are full of resistance to marriage. Especially when they see that many couples are not happy in their marriages at all, they are even more afraid of marriage. However, you should not deny the meaning and value of marriage just because someone else's marriage is unhappy.

In other words, you should not completely reject marriage from the beginning, you might as well approach a relationship with an open mind. 2. Marriage should be based on genuine love for each other. Regardless of whether you are in a relationship with the intention of getting married, you have to take the relationship seriously.

Marriage is based on genuine love for each other, which is not in conflict or contradiction with love. It also means that your love will not be diluted because of marriage. Marriage also needs love as a support.

Many marriages break down mainly because they didn't love each other from the beginning. Third, marriage is a matter of course, and there is no need to force it. In any case, marriage is a matter of course, and there is no need to force it.

Whether you insist on unmarried love or fall in love with the intention of getting married, you have to be comfortable with the coming and going of a relationship. Love is the eternal theme of human beings, and it is also a beautiful and noble feeling of affection. Entering marriage from love involves the lives of two people, and will produce a third life, a new life, which makes marriage more social and gives rise to responsibility for society and family.

Therefore, love is not a person's private matter, it is related to the moral outlook and stability and unity of society. Love is the unity of spirit and flesh, which not only contains physical attraction and desire satisfaction, but also has higher psychological needs, emotional attachment, spiritual resonance, and spiritual enjoyment.