Why aren t you excited about the New Year?

The main reason is that the New Year is becoming more and more non-flavorful, it may be the improvement of the economic level, the New Year can only eat meat, and now it is basically inseparable from meat every day, and the New Year is not as lively as before, and there is no braised pork that was expected back then, which is usually easy to get and not excited about the expectation.

Because there is no big change between the New Year and the New Year, there are some things in the New Year, and you can also play in the New Year.

There is no big difference between the New Year and usual, and now some cities cannot set off firecrackers and fireworks during the New Year, and the sense of ritual of the New Year has become weaker, and the taste of the New Year has also faded;

Now that the quality of life has improved, you can also eat chicken, duck, fish and other meat in normal times, and you don't have to wait until the Chinese New Year to eat it, so there is no expectation;

In the past, the family could only go out once during the Chinese New Year, but now they can go out on weekends and holidays, and as long as they have time, they can have a trip that can be said to go.

Now the New Year is less and less exciting when I was a child, although it is still the same as before, there are many delicious foods, and even because of the rapid economic development of China in recent years, life Aquarius is getting higher and higher, and the food for the New Year is getting better and better. But the Chinese New Year doesn't have that feeling, on the contrary, there will be a feeling of loneliness and loneliness.

I think it's because as we grow up, we have more and more things to worry about and worry about, and we are not as carefree as we were when we were younger. And as we grow up, we become more and more afraid of growing up, and the ruthlessness of the years makes us feel fearful. Every year we are one year older.

That's why the New Year is unhappy.

The taste of the New Year has faded, which is already a common problem that plagues the public. In the past, we all said that we thought of our relatives every festival, but now, it has become a taste of thinking about the New Year every Spring Festival.

In this network-based society, I deeply feel that the cheerful atmosphere of the Spring Festival when I was a child is gone. After careful consideration, the author believes that there are three reasons:

First, with the high development of informatization, there are more ways to entertain and recreation in society, and people have transitioned from a single festival entertainment project to daily online entertainment, and over time, the sensory nerves of entertainment have become numb.

Second, the old days have slowed down and the pace of life has slowed down, but now information is very advanced, and people can connect with each other anytime and anywhere. The emotional expectation of sustenance on the holiday is decreasing.

Third, from a deep level, it is a kind of traditional culture that has been impacted, and many young people's concept of traditional festivals is diluting.

The author believes that the Spring Festival is the most important festival in Chinese festivals, and it should be taken seriously as the descendants of Yan and Huang, even if it is emotional sustenance, it is also a respect for traditional culture.

For me, the Chinese New Year has become a formality, there is nothing new, and there is no special luxury.

During the Chinese New Year, the streets were deserted, there was no lively atmosphere in previous years, everyone hid at home to watch the Spring Festival Gala, and did not communicate with each other, and slowly, there was no expectation for the Spring Festival.

I remember that when I was a child, I was looking forward to the New Year, but now I am a little numb to the New Year. I can't get excited every Chinese New Year, on the one hand, because I have reached the age when I should get married, and I have a certain amount of pressure. On the other hand, because there are too many Chinese New Year's holidays, there is no freshness when I was a child.

Gradually, I couldn't get excited, especially the good friends who played together and some of them got married.

Since when did the New Year become more and more unhappy, I have forgotten, there is no longer the kind of expectation of childhood, you to the Spring Festival relatives and friends get together are comparing with each other, either you wiped other people's face, or others wiped your face, openly and secretly-for-tat, urging marriage to give birth to a baby to urging a second child, inquiring about your salary, what house and what car did you buy that day?There are also various reasons to reach out and ask for money, and it feels like your money is falling from the sky, which is very annoying.

When I was a child, I felt very happy when I had a New Year, because there were red envelopes and new clothes to wear, but when I grew up, I felt that there was nothing new about the New Year, and I would not be as excited as I was when I was a child.

You may feel that you are celebrating the New Year now, and you don't have the smell of the New Year before. In the past, when we celebrated the New Year, we would have new clothes to wear, but now that the living conditions have improved, we can change into new clothes at any time. Also, every Chinese New Year, our parents will be a year older.

We don't want our parents to grow old too quickly.

In fact, I used to look forward to the New Year, because my parents did not accompany me since I was a child, so I felt that I could only be with them during the New Year, so I liked the New Year very much, but since one year, when I was 30 years old, my parents quarreled, and the quarrel was very serious, and then I divorced, and I didn't like the New Year!

It is said that the more we grow up, the more lonely we are, because we have all grown up, without the innocence of childhood, simple, innocent, the happiness of childhood is very simple, go down to the river to catch fish, dig birds all over the mountain, and the New Year is to go to people's homes to pick up the remaining firecrackers are very happy, and now I think of the original thing and feel a little boring.

I have no money, and I went home with an injury!! How happy!!

Summary. Hello friends. Nian itself is a traditional Chinese festival.

Therefore, when it comes to the New Year, I am happy and excited when I think of family reunion, which is engraved in the bones of Chinese. In addition, when I was a child, I could eat delicious food, play fun, wear new clothes, and set off firecrackers as soon as the Chinese New Year arrived. Although the country is now rich and strong, and the people's living standards have improved, this excitement and happiness will not be forgotten.

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Hello friends. The year itself is a traditional festival of Chinese perforation. Therefore, when it comes to the New Year, I am happy and excited when I think of family reunion, which is engraved in the bones of Chinese.

In addition, when I was a child, I could eat delicious food as soon as I arrived for the New Year, Cong Yu played fun, wore new games and clothes, and set off firecrackers. Although the country is now rich and strong, and the people's living standards have improved, this excitement and happiness will not be forgotten. <>

I think maybe the Spring Festival is more lively, and it is still during the Spring Festival holiday, so happy things appear at the same time, making you feel extremely happy, and when the holiday is over, you will have a sense of loss, so at this time you should also adjust your state of filial piety, so let yourself return to a peaceful life.

Ways to make yourself happy.

1. Don't base your happiness on material things.

The happiness level of adults is inseparable from money, and there is no material basis, and they cannot be happy at all, that is to say, happiness must have a material basis. Studies have found that when material things can meet basic needs, no amount of material and wealth can help much with happiness, and even too much material can increase trouble. It is necessary to be content and happy, as long as you have no worries about food and clothing, and do not envy the rich, because everyone is equal in front of happiness.

2. Maintain moderate exercise.

30 minutes of aerobic exercise a day, up to 3 or 4 times a week, can alleviate depression. During aerobic exercise, the brain secretes dopamine, which can relieve tension and anxiety, and at the same time help other organs function normally. In general, people who like sports have a cheerful personality and are in good health.

In addition, maintaining moderate exercise can maintain high energy, and can be prudent and have harmonious interpersonal relationships.

3. Cultivate good social relationships.

Studies have found that people with good interpersonal relationships live longer. Everyone is a social animal, and social activities are the only way to have fun. You can feel joy in group activities.

4. Pursue diversity.

When the brain receives signals from the outside world, it can form a special substance that causes people to experience short-term happiness. The pursuit of diversity can make you feel excited. Couples or couples should keep a certain distance between them, because the little couple is newlywed, and after a short separation, and then reunited, it always makes people feel happy.

5. Learn to forget your worries.

Everyone's life cannot be smooth sailing, and it is inevitable that there will be bumps and bumps. There will be many troubles in life, such as complicated relationships, broken love, or career difficulties. Don't be too depressed when facing troubles, learn to forget your worries quickly, transfer your emotions, and transfer them by listening to exercises or sleeping.

It is a very happy thing to go home for the Chinese New Year, and you can reunite with your family and enjoy a happy and beautiful time. ......However, when you go home for the Chinese New Year, you may also encounter some troubles that make you unhappy. Specifically, these situations include relatives urging marriage, relatives constantly inquiring about their work and study, and relatives making irresponsible remarks about their own affairs.

1. When I go home for the New Year, my relatives urge me to get married, which is the most annoying thing for myself.

When I went home for the New Year, the biggest trouble I encountered was that my relatives urged me to get married. ......Although he knew that they were well-intentioned, after all, this matter was up to him, and others should not ask about it. Therefore, whenever a relative brings up this matter in front of him, he feels unhappy.

This problem exists in many young people who go home for the New Year, and it is also one of the things that they feel most troubled about.

2. Relatives kept asking about their situation when they went home for the New Year, which made them very annoyed.

If you work or study outside and don't see your loved ones for a long time, you will feel very cordial when you meet again during the Chinese New Year. It would have been a great pleasure. ......However, some relatives are too concerned about their own affairs, and keep asking questions about their work, study and life, which will make them feel troubled.

3. When I went home for the New Year, my relatives made irresponsible remarks about me, which made me very annoyed.

When I go home for the New Year, sometimes I will encounter something more troublesome, that is, relatives will talk about their own affairs, ...... or fourThey will treat themselves according to their own standards, make irresponsible remarks about what they do, and demand that they do what they do ......Whenever I encounter this situation, I will feel very annoyed, and even feel that the New Year is no longer fun. ......Although I know that the intentions of these relatives are to be good for themselves, because what they do is really inappropriate, I will still feel unhappy.

Because of the large financial expenses during the holidays, I have to interact with relatives and sometimes reunite with classmates, which will also be stressful

Although it is said that every festival is a festive thing, many people will feel that the festival is not easy at all, the pressure is doubled, the body and mind are exhausted, and the whole person is quite depressed. So why is this happening? I'm sure everyone understands.

The cost of the holiday season is much higher than usual

As adults, we will rush to buy something for the family every time we celebrate the holidays, which is the most basic love for the family. For example, during the Spring Festival, you need to buy New Year's goods, you need to buy gifts, you need to wrap red envelopes, etc., so the cost will be relatively large. Some families will even go out to travel, which will cause a lot of pressure on the economy, if their own economy is not very good, to a certain extent, it will increase personal emotional troubles, when spending is very refreshing, and when you want to use the card, you will be depressed.

The two relatives need to come and go, and the pressure is high

Every time I visit relatives during the holidays, I believe everyone will be more afraid, especially the older young men or lesbians who are not married, they will face various inquiries from the seven aunts and eight aunts, such as do you have a boyfriend? Do you have a girlfriend? Why don't you find a partner?

When to get married? And so on these scary questions, but out of politeness, you can't help it. So in fact, what everyone is afraid of is not the festival, but these relatives in the festival, which makes people feel depressed.

The stress of a class reunion with three friends

Every holiday, class reunions are naturally indispensable, when they are still in school, everyone will praise each other, and when everyone is working, they will hurt each other, and some students always intentionally or unintentionally compare their achievements with others, which makes people very tired of this feeling. But if you don't participate, people will think that you are the one who dare not face it, so you are in a dilemma, and you can only be depressed. <>

To sum up, we feel that our thoughts are unhappy during the New Year's holidays, and the more depressed we become, the more we are troubled by these anti-locking things, and we lose the original meaning of the holidays. So we still need to face up to these problems, so that we can have a good holiday.

The New Year is really happy, every day is full, busy and exciting.

The first day of the new year is the first day of the new year, and it is also the beginning of the new year, so I am in high spirits. My family and I woke up early in the morning so that we could have everything ready for a happy New Year. My mother began to prepare the New Year's dinner, and I joined in the fun with my mother.

The day passed quickly, and the most exciting time came, which was to eat Chinese New Year's Eve. My mother's Chinese New Year's Eve dinner really lived up to its name, and my father and I were salivating. Watching the Spring Festival Gala while eating a sumptuous and delicious Chinese New Year's Eve dinner was really fun.

The next day came quickly, and our family happily went out to pay New Year's greetings, put on new clothes and bury them, which was very festive. We also gained a lot after a day of hard work, and this New Year's greeting also taught me a lot of blessing words.

On the third day of the Lunar New Year, my friends and I made an appointment to play together, we played games together, sang together, chatted together, and finally everyone smiled sweetly and took a group photo.

On the fourth day of the Lunar New Year, my dad and I went to the flower market, where there were so many flowers, including narcissus, azaleas, spider plants, etc., all of which were fragrant, and finally my dad and I decided to buy a small pot of tangerine.

On the fifth day of the Lunar New Year, there is a custom that firecrackers and cleaning are to set off firecrackers and clean up, and my mother gets up early in the morning to mop the floor and wipe the furniture, so I also help my mother do housework, and I am responsible for tidying up the room. It's a really tiring day.

The sixth day of the Lunar New Year was the happiest day for me, because it was the most relaxing day for me in the past few days, I used the computer with my mother's approval, and my friends and I chatted through the Internet, and everyone was very happy.

The seventh day of the Lunar New Year is a very special festival, on that day, my mother made all vegetables, no meat, that is because it is a human day, so there is no vegetarian meat. Another thing that impressed me on the seventh day of the Lunar New Year was to measure my height and weight, and I realized that I had grown a lot in the last year.