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Actually, this is normal, if you are nervous, let yourself relax and relax as much as possible, maybe you are worried about what will happen to your every move, afraid that he will have a bad impression of you, in fact, you don't have to care so much, or show your truest side in front of him, so that is the loveliest self, isn't it? Communicate with him more in public so that you don't get nervous.
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First of all, you have to take it easy, take him as a brother, you don't have to be nervous, this is the first step.
It's so hard that you want your happiness to sneak away, and that's not worth the loss, isn't it, think about your heart, tell yourself to be brave, and there are some things that you try and find that it's not that hard, isn't it?
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What are you afraid of?
Isn't it just someone you like
You treat him like someone you know very well
If you're really scared, don't talk about it
The people you like are afraid of what to say
You yourself say I'm right
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Try to treat him as an ordinary person, and if it doesn't work, find a way to reach him in your work life and take your time. Don't be in a hurry, when you get to know him better, you'll be able to communicate with her.
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Think of him as a regular friend.
Try to talk to him as naturally as possible.
It's going to get better.
Whoever sees someone they like is not nervous.
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Take a deep breath, go as deep as you can, and walk over to say hello to him, As for what to talk about, it's the boys' business.
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When you go home, you can practice in front of the mirror first, and then talk about it when you are done!!
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There is no need to change your personality, you are what you are, so that you can be cute and beautiful.
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Alas!!! I'm going to fall in love with bai
O beloved! du!!Haha, zhiha.
You can't say that you must be facing people when you are at home:1The nervous version of the excitement is blank in the brain, and all the "lines" of the practice are forgotten!
2.Lack of confidence in oneself I am afraid that I will not be able to "improvise" well without preparing the "belly draft", and I am afraid that I will offend myself inexplicably by saying things that I should not say'"Lovely people" or afraid of losing their "face" and not being able to use words to "present" themselves to the lovely people.
3.Or just don't want to say anything, try your best to "fantasize" and "love people.""All kinds of bright futures, and so on.
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Haha It's very simple, it's better to be shy than to say the wrong thing.
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That's because it's just a matter of quietly accompanying him
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You can say it when you see me, hehe, then you don't like me! I'm right! I also have a good look at the charm of that woman! You can't speak! Hehe, you have the ability.
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Personality problems, you can exercise more, or simply talk less, this is nothing.
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It is generally a sign of nervousness. Due to the lack of daily contact with people and the lack of participation in social activities, it leads to lack of confidence, emotional tension, and inability to speak.
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Use QQ or other chat tools to chat first, and when you are familiar with it, you will be able to talk well.
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You have to practice, go to more crowded places to stay, and communicate with people more.
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If you can't speak in front of the person you like, it's not a disease, it's because you're too nervous and too concerned about what to say is wrong, and you're afraid of being laughed at by the person you like, so you can't speak in front of the person you like In this case, if the person you like has been with you for a long time, and you are very familiar with each other and know each other very well, you can say anything at that time, unlike now, when you see him, you can't speak very nervously What you need to do now is not be afraid, meet the person you like, It doesn't matter if it's right or not, you have to say what you need to say and slowly get used to it, and this won't happen.
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No, it's quite normal to be in a hurry in front of someone you like, nervous and unable to speak, because you like it, so scared, afraid that you are not good enough, afraid that you will say the wrong thing, afraid that you will not be liked, in fact, it is normal, because this is the mood you liked at the beginning, I guess you like someone for the first time.
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No, I don't want to talk about some shy and scared questions or anything, why don't you dare to speak, because in ancient times, women were kings, so when you want to find a partner, you have to be careful whether she is the king's woman, if you are discovered, it is a dead end, this is the genes left to us by our ancestors, everyone has it, if you want to say that everyone has a patient, we can't change the genes.
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It's not a disease, but it's too shy and nervous to be like this, relax your mind, be brave, and be bold so that you can be happy.
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It's just nervous, shy, it's not a disease, just try to make yourself take the first step.
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It's not a disease, it's normal, many people will be very nervous, at a loss, and don't know what to say in front of the person they like.
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Love does not make two people grow old, and the power of love is very limited. What brings hope to a woman is not love, but a man's sense of responsibility. It is not love that brings security to a man, but a woman's dedication to the family.
Love makes two people walk together, and the secret to growing old is nothing more than two things, responsibility and pay.
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Nervous: It's okay to take it slowly.
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I don't know what kind of person you are, cheerful or reserved. In fact, such a situation can happen to any kind of person. I believe that love to the deepest depths cannot be expressed in words.
But please believe in a truth, no matter how good things are, they need a good carrier, and without a good carrier, everything is in vain. Love her, get to know her, find the way she likes, and follow the map. But you must keep your bottom line, lose yourself too much, you will only lose more, and you have no chance of success, find a better balance by yourself!
Remember that there is no immutable love Bible, only eternal and unchanging sincerity.
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I can't understand it, that's it, the brain will unconsciously short-circuit.
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Dear friends, I don't understand the emotional world of you young people, I only know that my wife and I have a deep relationship. When I met my wife 15 years ago, I was deeply attracted to her. After so many years, our love is stronger than gold, our love is the same, and the tacit understanding is still the same.
I liked my wife back then, and I didn't know what to say to her when I saw her, but I accidentally held back a fart in a hurry, and was thought to be hungry by my kind wife, so I turned around and called me home for dinner.
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If you like it, find a time to take the first step!
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It would be nice to relax and behave naturally in front of him.
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Write down what you want to say on paper.
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Not daring to speak in front of everyone may be related to your introverted personality, whether you have social phobia, which needs to be determined through an assessment scale and a doctor's diagnosis, and you can go to a psychological clinic for diagnosis and psychological counseling. Psychological counseling: It is recommended to adjust behavioral cognition through psychological counseling, gradually eliminate fear, and establish self-confidence.
Don't force yourself too much to change and feel ashamed, and slowly through training and constant practice, you will gradually start to speak in the crowd. You can let your family and friends help you practice, at the beginning stage, the number of people is smaller, you can not look at each other, as long as you can speak, give yourself a big reward, gradually improve the number of times and skills of speaking, the situation will improve, come on.
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The main thing is to relax, don't think about what to say, don't be afraid of saying the wrong thing, don't feel that what you say is not good enough, and others will be dissatisfied. Find the good in yourself and make yourself confident.
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It's a psychological factor. Learn to relax, don't be too nervous, it is very normal and essential to communicate with people. Be confident, I believe you can!
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The dumb man still doesn't dare to communicate with people.
In fact, when you swear, the people you face are defenseless, you can be unscrupulous, in the face of strangers, you will have a sense of resentment from the heart, unwilling to show yourself too much in front of others, if you do it to everyone swearing, then you will become relatively simple, anyone can guess you Men can't be completely hard, sometimes there is a soft side, where to show their temper is very important, If you swear in front of someone you don't know well, it's easy to be offended, but to someone who knows you well, it's not a big deal to say swear occasionally, and you think your real self must be the kind of swearing? In fact, according to what you said, your reaction speed is still quite fast, subconsciously you know what to say and what not to say, in fact, you can slowly adapt to yourself in this way, the simple way is to talk less, see more, see what others say, how others do, but not necessarily learn from others, understand others at the same time is to thicken a wall for yourself.
Hehe: Are you afraid to speak or don't know what to say?
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