What should I do if I can t speak to someone I like????????????

Hehe: Are you afraid to speak or don't know what to say?

If it is the former, it is a mental obstacle that will take time and distance to overcome. You might as well try to communicate with her by passing a note first.

If it's the latter, you might as well care more about things, especially what she is interested in, and usually chat with others to exercise, so that after a long time, there will naturally be no problem of not knowing what to say.

And, one last point......Actually, you still like her, don't you? Although you said it yourself, you didn't mean to chase her, but you can ask yourself,,, have you ever thought about it, or have you dreamed of holding hands with him? If so, prove that you actually like her ......You don't dare to say anything to her now, and of course, I don't recommend that you say anything to her now, after all, it's not good if you cause mutual alienation.

But don't just be like this all the time, take a chance, joke around, or tell him what you think after a drunken party. At least, before the end of high school. You have to take this step, or you will regret your ...... for many yearsMaybe even ...... for a lifetime

1. If you can't let go, be cautious, for fear of leaving a bad impression on the other party:

There are some people who like each other more and the more they are cautious in front of each other, and they can't let go of themselves. I'm afraid that I don't have a common topic with the other party, I don't know what to say, and I'm afraid that the other party will think that I'm boring. I always want to leave a good impression on the other party, so I am tied up, and I don't know where to start talking about topics that I am usually good at, such as what to eat and what hobbies I have.

My personal advice is to let go of your hands and feet, and you can say whatever comes to your mind, as if it were simply sharing. For example, what you did today, what funny things you encountered, and what food you ate can be shared with the people you like, but you are afraid that the two will be speechless.

Second, my life is too monotonous, and there is nothing to say:

A colorful life will allow you to find similar topics with each other, if your life is a three-point line every day.

Or if it's two points and one line, it will seem too monotonous. In a monotonous life, you can't come up with fun things to share with each other, every day is the same life, even if there is a topic to talk about at the beginning, but because there is no new thing in life, you have no topic to talk about. My personal advice is to hang out with friends in your free time, or to pursue something you like, such as going shopping or going to the movies.

Three, you don't know enough about him:

If you know a person well enough, then you will certainly not feel embarrassed and will not feel speechless. You just like him, but you don't know his interests, you don't know her preferences, you don't know what he's interested in. If you don't understand it thoroughly, then you don't know what to say.

Because you're afraid that you'll say something wrong, and you're afraid that she'll think you're boring.

One of the ironies of love, the more you don't like a person, the more you can attract her with confidence and ease, strong desire makes people lose a kind of carelessness that is essential in the game of love, if you are attracted to others, you will have an inferiority complex, because we always give the most perfect quality to the person we love.

When you don't like it, you are always fearless, and after you like it, you are careful every step of the way, for fear that if you say or do something wrong, it will leave a bad impression on the person you like.

Adjust your mentality, try more, never chat, never communicate, don't show your value, why will the other party be attracted to you?

I believe everyone has encountered such a situation, and they went to chat with the people they liked with enthusiasm, but due to nervousness, they didn't talk for long because they didn't have a topic and went into a cold state. And then I don't know how to end it.

What does "run up" mean? That is, on the basis of the original topic, it rises to a more abstract topic.

The original topic here was travel and outdoor sports, but you can escalate it to a more abstract topic like "quality of life" along the way.

What are the benefits of this? That is to make the girl feel that you are listening to her carefully, and that you are on the same channel and belong to people who have a common topic.

However, there are pros and cons, and some of the more cold girls may only reply to you: Well, it's okay. At this time, the topic is easy to interrupt, so the following two skills are needed.

If the first trick is the "summary" chat, then the second trick to teach you here is the "segment" chat. At this point, you must know what I meant by the "total-score-total" structure of similar essays.

Or take tourism and outdoor sports as an example, you can subdivide the topic into "what specific sports", "have you been to ** tourism", "how is the process of traveling", "which city do you like", "which city do you plan to travel to next" and so on.

Compared with the "summary" chat, this "segmentation" method is easier to create a relaxed and pleasant chat atmosphere, because you are talking about something that the other person has experienced and is interested in, then she will definitely be happy to share it with you.

The person I like has nothing to say, because you are more timid, you don't know how to take the initiative to find a topic, or you are a person who doesn't know how to speak, so at this time you should think clearly about what to do, or find some topics.

It could be that you are more introverted and don't have much experience in relationships, or.

Your liking for each other is because you are amazing, so silence is better than sound at this time.

If you don't have anything to say, you can't take your eyes off it, and you can't say yes.

Ecstatic, nothing to say is self-evident.

1. Ignore the fact that you don't know how to talk.

It's not just that you're chatting with people you like, it's that you're chatting with almost everyone and you don't know how to talk about it. It's just that when you talk to people you're not very interested in, you don't think it's that important, and you don't realize the fact that you can't chat.

Heartbeat so nervous.

When confronted with the girl you like, your emotions and mindset when chatting will be disturbed. Will be careful for fear of saying the wrong thing, and thus be hated by girls. Your mentality will be apprehensive, which will cause you to be nervous throughout your whole body, (don't think it's an exaggeration, there are really such boys in reality) and become forward-looking, not knowing what to talk about, and even stumbling and not being able to say a complete sentence.

No experience. You yourself live a relatively simple life and have no experience. Because the topic is not out of thin air, but based on one's own life and experience.

You don't have goods in your stomach, you don't have experience, you can't think, and naturally you don't have so many topics. Just like when you write an essay, you haven't learned writing techniques, you don't know Chinese characters, how do you write, you don't accumulate famous sayings and sentences, how can you write well and get a high score! You can't have something in your head that you never knew before, you know?

The girl is not cooperative.

The girl is not cooperative. This is a situation where the other party is not very interested in you. Because of the girl's non-cooperation, even if you say that your topic is good, you will not get good feedback from the other party.

A girl's non-response will cause your topic to be unmalleable and divergent. In this way, there will definitely be fewer and fewer topics, and in the end you won't know what to talk about, which is embarrassing.

Hello friends and the person you like have nothing to say, it means that you are more introverted and will not have the skills to chat, as long as the person you like is. There are a lot of topics, in fact, it may also be that you yourself like his appearance and the personality of the two of you is different, so there is no more one. The stairs are not a platform, and the topics of conversation cannot be talked about together.

You can think about what you usually talk about with your friends, and have a relaxed and natural attitude, just don't have too much psychological baggage.

It's not that I don't have something to say, but I don't know how to say it, or what to say, in front of people I like, sometimes I can't let go, and I'm a little shy, especially afraid that I can't express myself well, which will make the other party angry. So it feels as if there is nothing to say.

Being with someone you like will be more restrained, and you have to think carefully about everything you say and do, so your thinking will be limited, and you won't have anything to say.

This is relatively normal because you may feel shy or embarrassed to talk to him Ah Yue is a person I like The more I have nothing to say to him at first, the more you get acquainted with the two of you Ah, even if this will not happen.

I don't have anything to say to the person I like, this is often due to the fact that I met the person I liked, and I was nervous and couldn't let go at all.

Because you are more introverted, or he [she] is someone you really like and is too excited, as long as you communicate with him more, it will work.

Hello, it can be because you are both introverted, or you haven't gotten along well and haven't found a common language yet. Satisfied, thank you!

In that case, do you think you can ask yourself? Maybe you're not the kind of person who can talk, and maybe he doesn't like your words very much, so he must be talking to you less.

Why don't you have anything to say to the person you like? Because I'm nervous when I see someone I like, I don't have anything to say.

It is estimated that your personality has created such a way, if you need more information about the other party, the suggestion still needs to be constantly expressed verbally, if you lack this piece, you can do more from the behavior.

If you don't have anything to say right now, it's because you don't have this common word for the person you like, so you don't want to talk right now.

When many people chat with the opposite sex, they don't even have the most basic truth, and they just go to talk when they understand it. I'm not saying it's wrong, but in my opinion, it's always bad, like a stroke of luck.

For example, what is the purpose of your chat? What is the core? What message are you trying to convey? These are all things to think about.

For example, now when we are chatting, we want to convey the message of who I am to the girl.

Chatting is a process of getting girls to know us and have a three-dimensional view of us.

Are you funny or uninteresting? Is it the abundance of the heart, or is it straight? Is it extrovert or introvert? What is your view of life? What is your view of feelings? And so on and so forth.

When you talk to someone you like, you feel that something is wrong and you are afraid of making the other person angry by saying the wrong thing.

Overcome nervousness.

Because I like each other, I have a nervous psychology, that is, when I don't meet, I feel that I have a lot to say, but I don't know what to say when I meet, so I have to overcome the nervousness of the heart.

Engage with each other more.

Get to know each other better.

Although you like each other, it doesn't mean that you know each other very well, that is, you are not familiar with each other's interests and hobbies, which will cause you to not know what topic to choose to chat with, and you need to know more about each other!

Talk about topics that interest the other person.

By understanding each other's interests and hobbies, and then talking more about topics that the other person is interested in, there will be a topic.

Both sides need to resonate.

Not early, you only have to understand each other, but also let the other party understand you, travel with each other, and resonate, so that there is no worry.

Prepare the topic ahead of time.

When preparing to chat with each other, you should prepare some topics in advance, such as anecdotes, news, or some fashionable things that happen around you, so as to avoid embarrassment caused by each other's lack of topics.

It is a very normal phenomenon, you have always wanted to establish the most perfect form in his (her) mind, so there will be a lot of concerns, and you will be very embarrassed in your thinking, so you don't know what to say, don't be nervous.

This is still related to people's personalities, some people are more shy and less able to express themselves. And people who have a model guess are more lively and cheerful, and will choose to boldly pursue love. This is still very boring and normal.

Everyone will have their favorite object, some have already had lovers and eventually become married, while some are still working hard to pursue, of course, some are just crushes, or even meet their favorite ones, but their mouths have become stupid. When you meet someone you like, you can't speak, it's normal to say normal, it's not normal because your emotional intelligence is too low, you are too excited to speak, or you are afraid of losing too many words, or because you are afraid that the other party will have a cold attitude and embarrass yourself!

1. Too excited. When we meet someone we like, we must be very happy and even excited. For some people who are not very good at speaking and have low emotional intelligence, under the excitement, the language organization ability is completely lost and they become unable to speak.

In fact, I have simulated a lot of content and ways of speaking in my head, but I don't know how to start when it comes to my mouth.

2. I am afraid that there will be many mistakes. There is another kind of person who can say it but dare not say it! Why?

That's because I'm afraid of ruining my image, and I'm afraid that there are topics that the other party doesn't like in my words, or that some of my words make the other party feel uncomfortable, in short, I'm afraid that I will say too much. In this way, it is easy to cause the other party to have a bad impression of yourself, so that you will not have a chance in the future.

3. Afraid that the other party will be cold. When a person cares too much, then his behavior will be greatly affected. If you meet someone you like, but you are afraid that the other party will not like you at all, or even too lazy to take care of yourself, if you rashly talk to the other party, and the other party has a cold attitude or even directly refuses you, isn't it embarrassing for you?

There are too many concerns, so I can't speak!

All in all, when you meet someone you like and can't speak, it's actually that you're thinking too much about yourself! The psychological pressure and burden on oneself is too great, which leads to one's own crankiness, which affects one's judgment.

There's nothing wrong with liking someone, if you like it, be brave enough to chase it, don't leave regrets for yourself! Even if you fail, there is nothing to be embarrassed about, this is human nature, the first thing you need to do is not to think about how to chase the other party, but to adjust your mentality and not fight unprepared battles!