Can I change my sloppy dress and reluctance to communicate with others?

First of all, I think you are a person with good logical thinking, you can find out from your words, and secondly, you are a person who is not good at giving, it can be said that you are a selfish person, an unconfident person, and you are bullied by homosexuals (a university professor), do you think that's it, don't you think you should let everyone know his true face, of course, you can't have radical behavior, on the premise of protecting yourself, wearing sloppy clothes again will affect your self-confidence, and the eyes of others will naturally be affected by this, Don't you feel like a princess, fourth, if you want to have friends, you must first comfort yourself, happy friends are what others are looking for, fifth, you have to help others for fun, this is the best lubricant to deal with people who have the idea of isolating this world, of course, you can only help good people, in the end you think my typing is not very annoying, what I say is not very annoying, guessing is not very annoying, if so, I can't do anything, now I feel that it is not important, I just hope you don't wear gray, brown, and black unisex clothing is not sloppy, of course, you can relax at home, I also don't want to break up with friends again, don't say it's very annoying, it's a spell, and if you have the opportunity, go to a psychological clinic a few times, and spend money.

The most important thing is to adjust your attitude towards life.

Don't have"As soon as I talk to others, I get upset"ideas. With this kind of mental suggestion, it's hard to change anyway.

Read more good books, there is a ** house in the book. Improve your temperament.

Clothing color is not the key to the problem. But it also plays a lot of roles.

At least when people meet for the first time, they are subjectively looking at appearances, right?

You can read some fashion magazines.

Learn some styling techniques, but be sure to match your clothes according to your temperament. That is, first of all, you must know what type of girl you belong to, whether it is a girl-next-door feeling or a mature look.

You don't need to deliberately pursue fancy as long as it is comfortable, clean and tidy, natural and generous.

Personally, I think that a decent necklace will make people feel much quieter.

At last. Practice smiling in the mirror. Smiling is a girl's magic weapon.

It can be recommended to see a psychiatrist, life is always helpless, or try a different environment, don't worry too much, you can see from your heart that you actually have a very serious inferiority complex, let go, the world is very beautiful.........

Now that you've found you and Mao, you'll change it. . . Try to develop towards the right clothes and ordinary people,,, what do you say!!

Is there an indelible trace in your heart?

The shadow to be removed, people can't live for a time, and it's a sad time.

Because the true meaning of life lies in something, everyone's consciousness is different, and the understanding is different, so tomorrow will be different.

Then go ahead.

Bai is introverted and willing to communicate with people! du

Actually, every

Everyone has a DAO

Hopefully, you will develop self-confidence to come to heart and be more in life.

Self-attention to self-baining of their own strengths and specialties, often and familiar with confident and cheerful friends to contact and socialize.

DAO, often participate in some collective entertainment and fitness activities with them, contact more people, and expand the social surface. I hope you are confident in yourself, boldly show your strengths, and give yourself positive psychological hints every day: "I am great, I am confident in myself, I will definitely be optimistic, cheerful, I will be able to do better!"

Strive to grow yourself psychologically and face life with a positive and optimistic attitude.

Because they don't know you, and they label you just because they know you superficially, and they label you, your character, your personality, or your behavior

On certain occasions, find some topics related to this. In fact, if you take the initiative to talk to someone, then they generally won't copy.

The right to refuse, on the contrary, if you don't say anything, then others are not easy to say, lack of exercise, although we like to be alone in our hearts, but we live in the society collective, we have to interact with people, communicate with people. I'm a little better at all kinds of job searches and interviews.

A person's personality can be changed, to have confidence in themselves, go out to communicate more, such as with colleagues, classmates and friends often contact, often go out to gather, exercise yourself, the main point is to read more books, long knowledge,

This needs to be changed, you can make more friends, listen to them first, and talk to them more later, so as to slowly stop yourself from being introverted and regain your self-confidence.

Don't be in a hurry to change slowly, introverts can also be changed, for example, you can make more friends, chat with friends more, and slowly change yourself.

Since you are not willing to come, I source.

I don't think you need to ask us online.

If you feel that you are happy to live like this, then you don't need to change at all.

In fact, people never change themselves, let alone others.

The reason why people change is because of social phenomena and the atmosphere between people. In fact, this is all hypocrisy.

Because the way you started out, you should always be like that. Don't try to change yourself.

So you have to be more convinced and optimistic about yourself.

You're going to say out loud to the whole world, yes, I just don't communicate with you, what's wrong?! I think I'm happy like this, and if you think I'm unhappy, you're a piece of! I don't know if I still communicate with me, and I don't look at what you are!

I'm happy with myself, I'd love it! None of you have the power to change me!

If the object of his conversation is you, you will be with him and prove that he is still good, as long as you buy clothes for him and he wears them, you will first improve your image.

What does he have to do with you? There are still people who want such frustration! What kind of vision?!! This kind of man is not promising. He doesn't want to leave it alone! Because it's useless for you to care!!

The man who doesn't like to dress up is more realistic, and if he doesn't like to dress up, you can accompany him to go shopping and help him buy it.

Men have all started with him as they were. Why didn't you feel it at the beginning, but only now?

If you don't listen to persuasion, just let yourself watch it, as the old saying goes, you can't sing it.

Let him realize that this is not right!

It seems to see my future.

It's called simplicity, and he doesn't pay attention to what he wears.

Leave. Dogs can't change their eating.

Talk to him well, and if you don't change, stay away from him.

Then you can only rely on the hard work of the object to help him take care of it!

There is a scene in "The Golden Branches and Jade Leaves of Shanghai", Guo Wanying, a rich girl who was sent to a backward countryside, even if she goes to the toilet, she has to wear a cheongsam that is cleanly washed and her feet are polishedProper dress is only the appearance, behind the hidden is personal strength and optimism, in the face of difficult times do not give in, lower personal conduct.

A spirited person will not wear pajamas and swagger with a haggard face, and the first step to get rid of sloppy habits is to improve the quality of clothing.

The first step is to look at your wardrobe

For men, whether the pants are too wide and too long, whether there are a lot of messy plaid shirts, stacks of rustic white socks, short sleeves with large necklines, sweatshirts with big patterns or slogans, dirty sneakers, etc., give up these clothes that do not help improve your clothing.

You need to choose clothes with pastel colors and a well-cut fit.

It's not that you won't be allowed to wear casual and comfortable clothes, for example, shorts that are as long as possible to the knee will definitely look much better than shorts that show off your thighs.

For women, to be honest, women who dress sloppily are really a minority, and they are also discarded, giving up those clothes that are not suitable for their figure and you will succeed for the most part, and then learn more to observe and buy clothes with decent people.

Wear from the basics

Get startedAnd pay attention to body management.

There are no higher clothes to learn from versatility, and there are some basic items in the wardrobe that can be matched with each other in soft colors, such as shirts, suits, cropped pants, cut short sleeves and other items, as well as matching accessories such as shoes, bags, hats and other accessories with better texture.

Choose a match according to different occasions, the formal is formal, the casual is casual, and don't blindly wear it all at once. If you want to wear clothes well, you must have a figure that is not very bad, and proper physical exercise will make the same clothes wear different temperaments.

If you want to become not sloppy, you must first become diligent. As the saying goes, there are no ugly women, only lazy women. Then ask more friends who know how to dress.

You can buy him more beautiful clothes, take him to know about fashion, visit more shopping malls, watch more TV, and try different styles at the same time.

Let him read more magazines, some shopping**, watch some live broadcasts of dressing and beating people, and usually go to the clothing store more, of course, you don't necessarily need to buy it, even if you look at it, it's good.

Watch more fashion catwalks, fashion magazines, but the most important thing is to practice it yourself, to match more, let him try to match and modify it, and slowly change.

Let him read more fashion magazines, and if he is a girl, he can read more magazines such as Xinwei, Mina, and Ruili. Go shopping or shop online** to see how others are dressing. You don't have to buy it, but you can also improve your taste by looking at it more.

You can read more fashion magazines and put more thought into what you wear. Pay attention to some fashion bloggers on Weibo, watch more, listen more and learn more every day, and your taste will naturally be improved. But the main thing is to have enough financial resources to buy these popular clothes and items.

Let him see more models, fashion shows, fashion magazines, and go to shopping malls or busy areas to learn about other people's clothes.

You can read more fashion magazines, such as Harper's Bazaar. Pay attention to some fashion shows, learn about other people's outfits, and find your own style.

First of all, you have to make yourself not sloppy, and then learn how to dress, you can go to Weibo to see how to match, or you can go to the mall to see, and go shopping more to see more.

1. Have a comprehensive understanding of introverted personality. It is important to know not only the disadvantages of an introverted personality, but also the strengths. Conduct yourself with a stable mind, and don't change too much with purpose.

2. Do not reject extroverted personality. From introversion to extroversion, first of all, there must be no psychology of looking down on extroverted personality. Fundamentally, recognize the strengths and benefits of an extroverted personality.

3. Make friends through various channels. First of all, you can start with online chatting, and then go to your family, classmates, and colleagues around you, and gradually exercise your eloquence. Learn not only to speak, but also to learn how to say it.

4. Maintain friendship. Many people are in disconnection, slowly diluting their friendship. In your spare time, you can meet a few friends and come out to play cards, sing songs, watch movies and other entertainment.

5. Smile. Try to smile at everyone around you, smiling can often bring you closer to each other inadvertently. After the relationship gets closer, I believe that your words will also increase, and your personality will be more extroverted.

Understand his heart, enlighten him, or find his good friends and let them play with him. Or take the initiative to take your children out to play. The child may be reluctant, but if you want to play more, it will get better. You may also want to consult a psychologist to see if your child has any psychological problems.

What about his ability to learn? Does he have any hobbies?

It's nothing to be introverted, there are a lot of people like that, very good.

Let him mess with me... I brought it out to work. Ha.

If you don't like to communicate with others, this personality will not affect your social or emotional situation and is not a problem. Some people like to talk, some don't, but if you have mental problems because of this,If you want to communicate with others, but you don't want or dare to communicate with others, you should consider going to a psychiatrist for psychological adjustment.

Liking quiet is not a disease, depression is mostly manifested as emotional depression and slow thinking, that is, people often say that it is always depression, accompanied by poor sleep and poor diet. Society is like day and night, there is a good side and a bad side, but not all people are bad. The relationship between people is the same.

The relationship between people in society is essentially an exchange, and only if you are good to others, others can be good to you. You are indifferent to others.

What is the reason why people are so enthusiastic about you? Do you care about someone who is indifferent to you? So, how you treat others, how others will treat you.

It's an interactive process, so we should take the initiative to communicate with people. After all, no one in this society can survive without it.

It's not depression. You're just a little introverted, that is, a little autistic. You subconsciously feel that this society is not good and that no one can be trusted, so you close yourself off.

You will have trouble in your future work and life, so you have to force yourself to change and trust others. First of all, you can start communicating with your relatives and friends. Trust others and let others help you.

In real life, many situations require the help of others to complete. I hope everyone can open up.