What does it feel like to live in someone else s shadow?

It's embarrassing. They also live in the world, but their thoughts and minds are different, some people have a firm goal, no matter how many ups and downs they go through, they will not change their original intentions, and they have a unique and rich soul. Some people are the opposite of the above-mentioned people, who seem to be still walking, but they are drifting with the flow, easily disturbed by others and the environment, losing their opinions, easily changing their original intentions, imitating at will, and living as the shadow of others, which is really sad!

Very tired, to be honest, really fed up. If you don't want to be the shadow of others, you should reduce jealousy, don't always envy others, don't just see the advantages of others, but ignore your own advantages, learn to be independent, have your own opinions, have your own unique opinions and ideas when you encounter important things, and don't follow the crowd.

I have been like this since I was a child, and I feel that I have been solidified and physically and mentally exhausted. If you want to get rid of it, raise your head, move forward, to discover the best version of yourself, to be the best version of yourself, everyone is unique, I am born to be useful, other people's are not necessarily good, the shining point in you is waiting for you to discover.

That would tire people to death! The heart is one's own, and the person belongs to others. It's no wonder if you're not tired.

Now I have figured it out, followed my own path, thought about my own business, others are others, I am me. In fact, it is normal to be covered by other people's shadows, there are always people around who are better than themselves, parents want their children to be good, and they will always mention these intentionally or unintentionally, and we must understand these correctly. We should also communicate with our parents in a timely manner, and before this phenomenon occurs frequently, tell our parents what we think, and ask them to stop the precipice and stop it quickly.

Everyone is jealous, and some people want to surpass someone because they are jealous, but they can't always surpass that person, and they unconsciously become the shadow of that person. Because you want to do better than that person, sometimes it's good to want to surpass someone, but it's not good to be too eager for quick success or too jealous.

Through this sentence, I actually feel that you are a person who has no own opinions and has some inferiority. You always feel like you're a shadow of someone else, because you always feel like you're not good enough, you always feel like you're not as good as so-and-so in some aspects, you always want to be like others but you never can't.

In the evening, the training camp ended, to record a **, just a few words, as a design counselor, I also signed up for the source plexus, when to record, there will be intentional delay in my heart.

As for why Hail Sakura is delaying, it's because there is someone next to me, a good friend and I, and we work together. I'm afraid that when I am recording, I will feel embarrassed and afraid of what others will say, because I usually occasionally ask me what is the use of participating in this thing, I guess I can't understand it, there is no salary return, I pay so much time every day, I can only get so-called contacts and strangers.

In this material society, everything depends on the results, and people's sense of delayed gratification has been reduced a lot, and they basically think that doing something must be rewarded, otherwise they will not do it.

Maybe there will be a little estrangement, afraid of being said, don't dare to let go of yourself, although you can be very high when you are alone, in front of outsiders you begin to deliberately reduce the display of yourself, maybe there will be a sense of security. In the afternoon, I suddenly realized this problem, and I thought that after so many years of experience, I had changed a lot, only to find that it was only in the self-awareness that the change was not completely let go.

Later, I felt that I would adjust my own problems with the stuffy stove, record it after a while, and I wouldn't deliberately find a place where no one was there to record, whether my friends were there or not, maybe it was lucky, and finally when I recorded, there were guests at home, and friends entertained me. Then I recorded it alone.

It's a small thing, but it's very inspiring, don't deliberately live in the eyes of others, maybe others won't think of what you think at all. I also deliberately gave myself a little test, using a small note to record what is most likely to happen every day, and also deliberately what others think about what you do something, and finally verifying. Record for a week in a row, and you'll find that what you think is far from what you actually are.

Go your own way, do a good job in the circle of influence, and your life will get better and better!

Summary. Question 1: Why do you see yourself in others?

A: However, there are too many such things in life, and there are countless people who have had similar experiences with you, and there are many people who are worse off than you. So when you perceive someone who is going through a similar experience, you always see a shadow of yourself.

In fact, those shadows are those things that you have experienced before. We always remember the past.

Answer: The man said. "I like you".

Your favorite artifact indicates your high emotional intelligence. If you face the cultivation liquid, you say. You don't have to say anything, Wei Xingchen looked into his eyes with a smile.

Wait for him to say the next word. If he doesn't speak. You can say to him, "Do you see in my eyes how I react to your confession?"

If only. Excuse me, but please go into more detail?

Question 1: Why do you see yourself in others? A:

However, there are too many such things in life, and the number of people who have had similar experiences with you is uncountable, and there are many people who are worse off than you. So when you perceive someone who has a similar experience, you will always see your own shadow. In fact, those shadows are those things that you have experienced before.

We always remember the past.

It's been two years since I graduated, and my life has been dull and unremarkable, living a repetitive life every day, with no novelty but tiredness, and tormenting myself very tired. Two years is neither long nor short, I haven't learned anything, but I have learned a truth, I can always see my own shadow in others.

In the past, I would also reflect on myself, but I lacked objectivity, or asked my better friends, "Hey, tell me what shortcomings I have", but often there are some small shortcomings, or you are very good, there are no shortcomings, but you don't grasp the substantive problems. After I came out to work, I met all kinds of people, and some of them made people feel uncomfortable and annoyed, and suddenly they would think, do I have such a problem? Does this kind of question make me feel uncomfortable, does it also make others feel uncomfortable?

So, I found out that I looked at the shortcomings of others to see if I had such shortcomings in myself.

For example, if that person finds out that he is a selfish person because of something, then I have to see if I am also a selfish person, and if so, then I want to change. But we can't just find his shortcomings, but also find his strengths, and see what he has in him that you don't have, for example, he shows great strength in communicating with people, but he is very lacking in this aspect, then you can see how he does it, so as to learn.

Hopefully we can all become better versions of ourselves, in our own way.

The light is very bright, and of course there will be shadows.