Does your child stink? Children love stinky beauty , a good thing or a bad thing

Stinky beauty, only three years old, surrounded me all day long to ask my mother, mom am I beautiful, from time to time in front of the mirror singing and dancing.

My bear child is 22 months old, a girl, and she loves stinky beauty very much. After the age of one, I began to want to wear adult high heels, and I also had to wear clothes and pay attention to the matching. Occasionally, I want to put on some makeup. When someone says she's not pretty, she gets angry for a while.

Hello. It's not a bad thing that children like to dress up, because a person can only be more favored by others if he is clean or dressed neatly when he goes out, for example, if you see a sloppy person on the road, the first reaction is disgust and disgust, right? I even think, "Can't you clean up and come out again?"

In the same way, this is one of the advantages of loving "stinky beauty".

Second, dressing well will make your child appreciate and praised in front of school or friends, and it will also make your child feel relaxed and happy, which is both physical and mental.

Let's talk about the drawbacks.

First of all, it will consume the child's time, and the longer it may take over time, the child's mind will be addicted to it.

Second, it may secretly promote children's vanity and comparison, and the child's mental and physical health will not be conducive to development.

Third, the fashion you wear does not mean that it is really "fashion", it may imperceptibly make children pursue higher so-called "fashion".

Hope it helps.

According to Dai Dai's mother, Dai Dai has loved beauty and dress up since she was a child. Seeing her daughter dressed up refreshingly and beautifully, she is also happy to be a mother, and her family conditions are good, so she has not interfered with Dai Dai's beauty-loving behavior. But recently, Dai's mother found that Dai's stinky beauty is getting worse and worse.

It stands to reason that in junior high school, homework is becoming more and more intense, and children should not have too much attention to dressing up, but Dai Dai seems to be more and more obsessed with dressing. Her grades have plummeted, and her stinky beauty is getting more and more energetic, because she is dressed too modernly, and the head teacher has talked to her parents several times.

In fact, everyone has a love for beauty, and they have had it since childhood. Generally speaking, when children reach about 14 months of age, they begin to feel good about what they are wearing, and when parents try on new clothes for their children, they will show that they are happy. When they are three or four years old, some children's stinky and beautiful hearts begin to manifest.

Some children are reluctant to change out of their favorite clothes; When you come across your favorite outfit, your child's attention will be attracted; Wear your favorite outfits, and some children will look in front of the mirror non-stop. These are the manifestations of children beginning to grow up, parents do not need to interfere, but need to pay attention to cultivating children's good habits, some children because they like "stinky beauty", and today to wear this, tomorrow to wear that, there is no good rule, parents need to tell them to wear clothes should also be regular, wear dirty to wash frequently, to meet the requirements of the season. Don't keep saying when parents talk to their children:

It's beautiful! When helping children dress up, we should take into account the age characteristics and psychological development level of children, so that children can grow up healthy and happy. Generally speaking, when it comes to puberty, the child's stinky beauty psychology will be publicized again.

This is related to the sexual obscurity of adolescence and the affection for classmates of the opposite sex. As a parent, you must first affirm the growth of your child, and it is something to celebrate when your child grows up. You can't interfere with your child's stinky beauty, but you have to guide it subtly.

In addition, excessive love of beauty can sometimes be a sign of a child's lack of self-confidence. Nowadays, students are also very competitive in their studies, and some students do not have good grades and cannot become the focus of their classmates' attention, so they hope to attract others from the aspect of appearance. In addition, adolescent students are psychologically prone to form a "peer effect", that is, they are easily influenced by their peers and form comparison behaviors.

When you find that your child is stinky, you shouldn't blame him with some excessive words, otherwise you will be even more rebellious, and it will be difficult for either of you to deal with this matter at that time. Therefore, your attitude should be kind, let the child realize his own mistakes, rather than through your reprimand to understand the seriousness of the matter, no matter what happens, you and the child must not be cold, otherwise you do not know how to educate the child next.

When children are too stinky and beautiful in life, they also have their own aesthetics, parents must grasp this aspect of their children, and do not restrain their children too much, but have a rebellious mentality.

Children will feel curious when they come into contact with new things, and will always let themselves choose some fresh things, as parents, we must have a good guide, so that children can have a correct choice.

When children love beauty in life is in a hazy period, let themselves learn to dress up their parents in life, they like to dress themselves up very beautifully, parents must communicate with their children well, so as to keep the closest distance from their children, in order to grasp the real thoughts of children, do not let children have vanity, and affect the real learning.

Children also have their own independence, children also have their own thinking ability, when children love stinky beauty, they are all at the stage of their own growth, so that their aesthetics have also changed, which is a normal psychological effect, parents must not be too depressed.

Everyone has a love for beauty, not only we adults love stinky beauty, children also have their own real ideas, as long as children can grow up healthily, it is the best harvest.

As a parent, you must communicate well with your child in order to have a healthy growth environment.

It is also a sign of self-confidence that a child is too "stinky and beautiful", but as a mother, she must guide her to appreciate herself correctly.

1.Don't hit your child too hard. It may be that parents attack their children verbally in order to get their children out of the misunderstanding of "stinky beauty" as soon as possible, which will have a great impact on the child's psychology and may seriously lead to psychological problems in the child.

2.Let children recognize the correct beauty and ugliness, and distinguish the beauty and ugliness of the world. Although appearance is also very important in this society, if a person is only beautiful in appearance, and has no virtue in behaving and doing things, this kind of person will also be despised by society.

Therefore, parents should teach their children the quality and etiquette of being a person, which is a kind of beauty, and being kind is more beautiful than appearance whenever and where. Of course, as a mother, don't often put on makeup and dress up in front of your children, you can usually wear no makeup when you are at home, and then dress up if you go out. It's also important to make yourself aware of this.

3.Tell your child to do everything in moderation, and the same goes for grooming. To dress appropriately, to be generous and decent, such people are the most beautiful.

Everyone will have a love of beauty, so it is okay for children to stink and be beautiful, but if children do not grasp the proportion of excessive "stinky beauty", it is not normal, and parents should immediately take measures to stop their children's "stinky beauty" behavior.

First of all, parents can do ideological work for their children. Parents should find an appropriate time to sit calmly with their children and talk to them as a friend. Parents can tactfully tell their children that they should put serious reading in the first place, and put dressing up and beauty second, and that now is the time to read, and don't put too much energy on dressing up.

Second, control your child's pocket money. "Stinky beauty" is also based on sufficient material resources, if the child does not have enough pocket money, then even if he wants to stinky beauty, he is powerless. Therefore, parents can first budget their child's approximate daily expenses and then give him pocket money, so that the child does not have extra money to spend on cosmetics, beautiful clothes, etc.

The child is too stinky and beautiful, of course, don't have any binding force on him.

In the eyes of that adult, the child is the treasure in his own arms, and he is enshrined as a baby, which is also the love of parents for their children, and the love of parents is great, which can give children great strength and love.

When the child is too stinky and beautiful, don't have any binding force on him, the child has his own ideas, there will always be a generation gap between children and adults, the eyes of parents are not necessarily good in front of the child, children have their own opinions when they don't have a blow to them, not only will make them disgusted, but also affect the child's self-esteem, stinky beauty is the child's right, don't hit the other party because you can't get used to it, this is a process of children's growth, indicating that they have their own aesthetic concepts, the freedom to seek beauty.

There should be correct guidance for children, guide them in the right direction, so that they will not make mistakes because of small things, increase their own cognition, do not impose their own opinions and ideas on children, and should respect each other, so that children will have a sunny attitude.

In fact, children are stinky and beautiful, this is just a kind of children's nature, many children like to use their mother's lipstick, bracelets, hats and some shoes, high heels in the process of growing up, they all like to try, this is the child's curiosity, in fact, it has nothing to do with it. As long as the child likes it, let him play by himself, you don't care too much to interfere in the child's life, so that the child is free to enjoy the happiness brought to them by this curiosity, which is also a kind of growth, which is a characteristic that most children have, and there is no harm.

But you don't want to take your child to make up for your child because of this, it's very bad, because if you let your child mature too early, this is also a very bad phenomenon, and the child will come into contact with some people and things too early that are not in line with their age at that time, which will also bring harm to the child. If your child has become stinky because he has been in contact with some more mature people, you can discipline your child, but you can't solve the problem with violence, because this will provoke the child's rebellious mentality.