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I also have this kind of problem now, do you know that we are about to divorce for such a thing, I plan to go to the court to file for divorce after a while, when my mother came to my house, we didn't have anything, my mother never got involved in our affairs, but my husband quarreled every day as soon as his mother came, and his mother sued me behind my back every day, and she thought of it as a big thing that no one else put in her eyes, and then told his son, and then our little couple quarreled endlessly all day long, alas... Annoying... I think I can only get rid of it if I get divorced, but I don't think you're at my level yet, so I think you might as well rent another house for your mother to live in, so that your mother-in-law won't be red-eyed
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Buy 1 more small house for your mom to live in.
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<> when a woman gets married, she needs to deal with the relationship between husband and wife, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but there is a relationship, that is, mother-in-law and mother sometimes don't know how to get along with these two people, how to position their relationship? Whether it is a mother-in-law or a mother, they are their own elders, and they all have a respectful attitude towards them, and it is best to get along with each other. Mother-in-law and mother actually don't have many opportunities to meet together, because they both have their own families, even if the mother-in-law goes to her son's house, the mother will not come to her daughter's house to meet together, so if this kind of in-law relationship is not speculative, as long as the superficial harmony is maintained.
If the mother-in-law and the mother are very compatible and can get along like sisters, then it is the best. If the mother-in-law and the mother are more cheerful and will not care so much, in order for the children to be able to deal with the relationship better, like sisters, in order to make the relationship between the children harmonious and the family harmonious, then you can contact more. Everyone is like a family, often moving around, if the Chunchun relationship is very rigid and rigid, it is still rare.
As a woman, don't think that the requirements for your mother-in-law are the same as those for your mother, after all, you are not related to your mother-in-law by blood, and you are the meat that fell from your mother's body. Some people feel that they are filial to their mother-in-law, and their mother-in-law should treat themselves like their own daughters, but in fact, sometimes there is no such blood relationship, and there are still some differences. Even if you quarrel with your mother, maybe your mother won't take it to heart, and you will get along with yourself normally later.
But the mother-in-law herself is polite to her, and may pick and choose, if she speaks a little bluntly, the mother-in-law may remember it in her heart, and she will have an estrangement from herself in the future, so as a woman, you must deal with the relationship with your mother-in-law, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very harmonious, and the atmosphere of the family is very harmonious, and it is a good thing for everyone in the family to call it closed.
Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been difficult to get along, after all, two people have no blood relationship, two strange women have become a family, it is inevitable that there will be some bumps and bumps in life, of course, there will be a lot of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships get along very well, just like Yi Nengjing and mother-in-law, between the two people is like a mother and daughter, the relationship between Yi Nengjing and her mother-in-law is enviable, so how to have a good relationship with her mother-in-law, you can do the following things well. <> >>>More
All important, treat fairly. Naturally, there are fewer disputes.
I think you should neither endure nor leave this kind of thing, but actively handle the relationship between the two of them! People have feelings, so as long as you create opportunities for the two old people to communicate more, the relationship can be salvaged over time, try to find out the common ground of their interests, you should also have a measured touch in the middle, make them happy, as long as you persevere, use your actions to move the two old people, I believe that one day they will get along. Remember, patience and leaving are both negative practices that you should never do if you want to live well in the future. >>>More
For the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I first want to say: why should women be embarrassed by women!! For your mother-in-law, you have been a daughter-in-law for many years, why can't you understand your daughter-in-law? >>>More
How should the daughter-in-law and her mother-in-law get along in order to make the relationship in this family more harmonious, which is a question that has always plagued everyone. However, now people's minds are more open-minded, most of the current mothers-in-law are relatively young, and now there are fewer children in the family, so the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in most families is much more harmonious than before, is no longer the same mother-in-law and daughter-in-law as before. >>>More