What are the little things that can lead to a person s destruction?

There are many small things in life that can lead to a person's destruction, if a person does not pay attention to the traffic lights when crossing the street, or does not obey the traffic rules, runs a red light, etc., then he may one day lead to his own destruction because of his own mistake.

There are many small things that can be destroyed by a person, and in the college dormitory, the scheming between the girls will destroy the dormitory, and if a person calculates, then the person will be destroyed. Especially when friends get along, they ignore conflicts when they occur.

When we are not at ease in a small matter, or when we don't pay attention, we have to relax our hearts, which sometimes leads to our accidents, and the negligence of this hospital isolation leads to many patients being infected with hepatitis B, and that's it. If you don't notice a small thing, you can destroy a lot of people.

There are many reasons why a person can be destroyed may be just because of a small thing, for example, his character is very poor, then he has no way to get the trust of others, and he can't get along well with others, there is a person next to me, he is because his character is too poor, so he can't go to school later, and then he chooses to drop out.

Falling in love, falling in love at a young age, talking about it well, it is a lifetime, a lifetime of good talking, a lifetime of bad talking, you will fall into it in this life, if you don't talk well, you will start to die or live, so just falling in love can make people's lives go to two different extremes from now on.

When I first graduated from college, I saw a news story about a company that put a mop at the door of the recruitment interview, and many people didn't pick it up, but another person picked it up, so I think this kind of small thing can lead to the destruction of a person.

A girl in my dormitory was disappointed in her because of a trivial matter, once we had dinner together, but there were too many people to take the wrong meal, and he didn't like to get along with such a person because he was missing a dish.

It's an article I read before, saying that if you always slander a person, or frustrate a person, such as often just saying a word, these little things are enough to destroy a person, so that he has a psychological shadow, and slowly it will accumulate over time, and eventually destroy a person.

The first is people's dreams and hopes, the second is sycophancy, touting you, inflating your vanity, making you lose yourself, and the third rejects you, isolates you, and makes you very lonely and miserable.

Mobile phones, computers, drugs, gambling, these are all things that can ruin a person, and these things are addictive, and it will be difficult to leave.

Online games will destroy a person, now many people are addicted to online games, which was originally just something to have time for entertainment, but some people regard it as life, less interpersonal communication in reality, and the feelings of the family are also ignored, and after a long time, it will really ruin a person.

Money gambling is something that can ruin a person, because it is addictive, and a lot of money will be invested in each game, and there will be a kind of dependence for a long time, and in the end there is no way to stay away.

caught in the flower pot effect", not enterprising, falling behind from their peers.

The so-called flower pot effect, that is, people have been in the greenhouse environment for a long time, protected and cared for, can not withstand the wind and rain outside, so as to produce egoism, do not want to forge ahead, in a person's life, it is more important to seek progress, you do not move forward, you will fall behind, you do not work hard, you will fall behind, when you see your peers, work hard for your own life, but you don't know the so-called, content with the status quo, feel good about yourself, do not experience setbacks and failures, then the second half of your life will definitely go downhill, the so-called do not experience wind and rain, how to see the rainbow。

Values are eroded, fantasies about "getting rich overnight", and always want to get something for nothing.

We often hear people around us say, if I am the second generation of the rich how good it would be, in this era when we must do our best to struggle, we can not always fantasize about getting rich overnight, without paying for labor and gaining, Edison in order to develop a material that meets the light bulb, carried out thousands of experiments, and finally spread for centuries, all success is based on the premise of hard work, there are not so many good things in the world with empty gloves white wolf, if we only think about how to get rich overnight, without work, this wrong value will lead to the second half of our life to do nothing, in vain。

Obsessed with the so-called "freedom", he gave up persistence and self-discipline, and was so ambitious.

Birds yearn for the blue sky, fish yearn for the sea, because that is freedom, is vast, but if because of freedom, and give up persistence and self-discipline, then freedom will lose its true meaning, modern people, there are many under the banner of love freedom, love life, refuse to work hard, give up self-discipline, blindly indulge themselves, so ambitious, eyes are higher than hands, as everyone knows, our freedom is based on our unremitting efforts and persistence, life is never a quiet time, but we need to carry the weight forward, if we always pursue the so-called self, and give up the self-insistence, self-restraint, then the second half of our life, there will be no great achievements, or even failures.

Lacking "goal-oriented thinking", I am busy for most of my life but do not know what the future holds.

We often pursue happiness, but rarely know what happiness is", this sentence is very suitable for those who are busy for most of their lives, but do not know where the future is, these people are what we often say, lack of goal-oriented thinking, often feel that they are busy, but do not know what they are busy with, this is a very terrible thing, in the modern competitive pressure of such a society, we must have our own clear goals, in order to achieve their ideals in a mixed society, to get their own "happiness".

In life, if you talk too much, that is, you are not very good at talking in the process of getting along with people, or if you have a small habit of carrying a mantra, you may lose many opportunities.

In life, I think that a person's reputation can quickly destroy a person, and people's words are terrible, so if you want to be positive, then you must pay attention to your reputation.

For example, letting others know your shortcomings and know some of your bad ways of dealing with people will quickly ruin you and destroy your image.

I feel that living in a bad family, my father is dead, it is like the pillar of the family is broken. is supported by a mother, can't eat, can't dress warmly, can't even sleep well, and is ridiculed by others every day. Slowly, this person will be abolished, and he can't hold on.

A person with a particularly sensitive personality will be more easily destroyed, and when our nerves are tense for a long time and face particularly great pressure, it is also easy to be destroyed.

The wrong choice of marriage can directly destroy a person. We try not to enter into marriage before our minds are mature.

Under economic pressure, it is absolutely impossible to have no money, not even a guarantee of survival, let alone spiritual security. The poorer the people, the easier it is to be destroyed, and the poor people mourn everything.

The various setbacks experienced in life, the cynicism of others, and verbal violence will directly destroy a person, while people who are often less psychologically resistant to stress and have a negative and pessimistic personality are more likely to be destroyed.

After the death of a man, on the way to the Yama Temple, he came across a palace resplendent with gold. The owner of the palace begged him to stay and live.

The man said: "I have been busy all my life in the world, I just want to eat, I just want to sleep, I hate work." ”

The master of the palace replied, "If this is the case, then there is no better place in the world for you to live than mine." I have delicacies from the mountains and seas here, you can eat whatever you want, and no one will stop you; I have a comfortable bed here, and I can sleep as long as you want, and no one will disturb you; And, I promise you nothing to do.

So, the man stayed.

In the beginning, the person ate, slept, slept, and ate, and felt very happy. Gradually, he felt a little lonely and empty, so he went to see the palace master and complained: "This kind of daily eating, sleeping and sleeping days are too long and meaningless.

I'm so fat that I can't afford this kind of life anymore...I was interested. Can you get me a job? ”

The owner of the palace replied, "I'm sorry, but we've never had a job here." ”

After a few months, the man couldn't bear it anymore, and went to see the owner of the palace again: "I really can't stand this kind of day. If you don't give me a job, I'd rather go to hell than live here anymore. ”

The owner of the palace smiled contemptuously: "Do you think this is heaven? It's hell here!

A comfortable life is a kind of hell! Although it has no sword mountain to climb, no fire to go to, and no oil pot to go to, it can gradually destroy your ideals, corrode your heart, and even turn you into a walking corpse.

A comfortable life is what we yearn for, and a short period of comfortable life can make us rest and tranquility. But a long life is too comfortable. It can make us feel lonely, feel that we have nothing to do, and we tend to lose our ideals and at the same time lose our happiness.

Quoted from Yanbian People's Publishing House's "Feeling Wealth".

Man is a very strong species, but it is also a very fragile species. Sometimes, a teacher's words can completely ruin the future of a top student. When I was in middle school, I happened to find a junior high school student's composition workbook at my classmate's place, and found that the idea was novel, and the beginning and end were like flowing water, which was no longer the level of middle school students.

If you integrate the revisions of these three assignments, you can definitely go to the composition writing journal. Later, because of the class and dormitory change, I didn't come into contact with my classmate's brother again. When I returned to my hometown, I learned that my classmate's brother did not continue his studies, and one of his beloved old teachers said that his future was limited, so it was better to work early.

I have seen people in single-parent families who desperately sell their houses for their father's life, and in the end, they lose both money and money, go insane, their girlfriends leave, their friends are silent, and their relatives have long been missing. originally had a family with a loving father and a filial son, but it was about to enter the palace of marriage. In the blink of an eye, they were all gone.

It was probably when I was caught in high school, and I was excluded by teachers and leaders because of personality and attitude problems, and that kind of feeling is really not something that can be explained in one or two sentences. Forced to transfer schools The fragmentation of high school life, which was originally the most memorable, has caused my whole personality to change a lot, and I have a dark psychology about everything.

My little hair used to be a very cute girl. I don't smoke or drink, and I feel that when I fall in love, I can only hold a small hand. She is eighteen years old this year, smoking, drinking, going to nightclubs, fighting in groups, mixing in society, and living with her boyfriend for two or three years.

It all started in the third year of junior high school. Seriously, I don't know why she was ostracized. I've known her for a long, long time, and when she was ostracized, I ate with her every day and went home together.

Maybe that's why we're so far away today, and we're often chatting. I think if she hadn't been excluded at that time, she would have been better off now, and she would have been able to take fewer detours in the middle.

A serious illness, a doomed love, an unsmooth workplace experience, and an act of being cheated. There will always be someone who will be inadvertently defeated by life and completely destroyed. Many times, life that seems to be safe will disappear in the blink of an eye.

Personally experienced, I don't know what shit luck to take, no matter junior high school or high school, anyway, when I almost left this school, I was with some friends around me who I used to think were good friends, but in the end they could slap me in the face and ignore me with some people who were limited to communication with me. After going through it so many times, I also thought that one time it might be caused by others, and the second time it was always my own reason. I also asked friends who could still talk to me, and there was nothing else except that I was a bit poisonous when I spoke bluntly.

For us ordinary people, a serious illness and an imbalance in mentality can be completely destroyed. Therefore, although ordinary life is ordinary, not as beautiful as poetry and distance, it is better than ordinary, and there is no need to see more severe wind and rain. Don't be destroyed by life, even if it's an ordinary person, don't be easily destroyed.

I think of a female college classmate of mine, who is not familiar with her, so she is only a little better than a stranger, and she nods her head when she meets. She actually gives people a very quiet feeling, with long hair and a mediocre appearance. I don't know why I'm always rejected by the people in her dormitory, and the girls in the class don't treat her very well.