How to deal with this kind of co worker, how to deal with people who love to brag?

I have also met a colleague before, he is in front of every colleague to say bad things about another colleague, to put it bluntly, is to sow discord, at that time I was doing personnel work, in the end I really couldn't bear it, just expose his true face, tell the boss what he said, and then confront him, let him have nothing to say, at least when he says you or scold you, you yourself must be calm first, everything must be reasonable, if he says you unreasonably, you ignore him, now people are very smart, In this way, colleagues can see him more clearly as a person, and then help you!

In fact, when he slanders you in front of the leader, he is also slandering herself! Scold you, don't fight back, go up to him, pretend to shake your hand, splash him with soup, and then say sorry, sorry, sorry. It's not intentional, if you really want to stretch out your fists, you will lose money, and you will be clever in case of trouble.

He made a small report to the leader, this is easy to do, you don't have to say anything, work hard, and use performance to explain everything. As for scolding you in front of you during dinner, you don't need to say much, punch over, I don't understand this bit of politeness, he deserves to be beaten!

This kind of villain will have evil retribution...

Many people at work are like this, they are not easy to get along with, and they are also aimed at others. There's nothing you can do, if you don't want to leave your job, you have to confront him head-on, it's all about bullying the soft and afraid of the hard, and he won't dare if you have a tough attitude.

Ignoring that colleague and getting angry

Weigh the pros and cons before deciding whether it's worth the patience or the fight back.

Don't pay attention to him, be yourself, as long as you do well, I believe that others can understand it, and you will know who is a gentleman and who is a villain. The most important thing is to be happy.

When it's time to turn your face, you have to turn your face, and find fault with you in front of you, dignity! If you fight, as long as you don't die, you can fight casually, are you afraid of fighting?? Then they don't dare, and they do as they say behind their backs.

Don't talk to him, don't know him.

Ask him thoroughly what you want to do and why you are doing this to me.

In fact, this problem exists in every home. If you are very enthusiastic about your current job, then you should try to improve the relationship between your colleagues, and if you are not enthusiastic about your current job, then I suggest you quit.

Just laugh and listen, what others think is someone else's business, the important thing is you, why are you afraid that others will look down on him.

On the other hand, if you ask someone else for help and someone else doesn't do it, do you think he bragged before and promised well?

You can talk to him and your mom can talk to him.

Listen to him, wait until he finishes speaking, and explain step by step until he can't believe it himself, but only in a situation where it's just the two of you.

If you don't like it, stay away, just don't hear it.

What can you do?

Make yourself strong and round your dad's braggadocia.

He's used to it.

Unless you can blow better than him.

1. Basically, you don't have to do anything!

2. Let's scientifically explain why people love to brag:

Research shows that when we talk about ourselves, whether in private conversations or socially, it can elicit similar feelings of pleasure in our minds like food or money. Research shows that about 40% of daily conversations are used to tell others what we feel and think.

Self-disclosure can be particularly pleasurable, and people are willing to give up money to talk about themselves. That's why people are willing to socialize. It's actually talking about our own.

That's why people love to brag.

3. Your father has been bragging for a long time, has there been any adverse consequences? Probably not, you know he's bragging, and the people you're talking to your dad probably know, but in fact, everyone is still bragging? Why, everyone is happy and happy!

4. Your dad loves to brag, he enjoys it very much, and it is harmless, why should you be so embarrassed? Life needs to be light, lively, including bragging! Don't you ever brag? Haha......

Tell him about the downsides of bragging.

What to deal with, love to blow away.

You just look down at the ground.

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When you're at home, you and your dad can talk.

Say, "What if you promise someone something you can't do?"

Can you promise something practical and ask him a few words to see how he answers you.

Tear down the stage, when it comes to unreal, tear down the stage.

How to deal with someone who likes to brag in front of you.

It's okay for colleagues to help each other occasionally, that person is no longer in the category of help, maybe that person is too arrogant, although he is a colleague, but he always feels that he is superior, and he will do less things for him in the future, find various reasons to shirk, or directly refuse, let him do it himself, everyone has self-esteem.

A person always has the value of being used, but he can't be used all the time, and sometimes he has to learn to refuse.

Set the right mentality, do more when you are free, and be tactful but firmly refuse when you are busy.

It's good to help others appropriately, but if you go too far, you should politely refuse and don't be too direct.

Smash the work, spill the water or simply drop the cup, and then apologize very piously and innocently, and within 3 times, he will never dare to call you again.

Occasionally, it's okay, but if it's habitual, you can just say no....Or in the future, you directly ask him to help you first, see what he does, if you don't want to, then it's better not to make friends with this kind of person...

Pour some water, and you can't die! There will be a day when he pours you water!

Don't say no all at once, have one or two gradual increments.

Men, women, women, if beautiful and promising, then you have to seize the opportunity!

It's just three things, she is too much, and resolutely rejects his selfish behavior, this kind of friend doesn't matter!

Resolutely refuse, you are not his servant, why are you instructed by her?

Both. 1. She is the type of person who loves to call people, and she does this to everyone.

2. Have thoughts about you, like you pay attention to him, pay attention to him, and take care of her.

Sometimes I resist and say let him fall by himself, I'm busy now.

Be good at being used by others, which means that you are valuable.

After a few days away from him, I got used to it.

You joke and say, you can help me too.

To quote a Buddhist saying: endure him, let him ignore him, and finally you look at him.

Secretly write a note and put it on his desk first, which means: It is to warn him that everyone has found out that you are a thief in the company, and tell him to do it himself! When he saw it, he knew that he had no face to steal, and he didn't have the face to see you, and no one would pay attention to him in the future, so he would naturally leave!

Addendum: Haha, people don't want to be invincible in the world, what can be done about this

Then everyone disgusted him together, how much did he do to us, how much did we do to him, how many times did he spit saliva, we also vomited, he was going to find out, everyone said together that he didn't see it, and he couldn't help it. This is called treating others as they would have done their own thing. Oh, give a point o( o

Spitting stars drowned people, and he couldn't do anything about it if you all worked together to fix him, and finally forced him to resign voluntarily.

Give me the address Give me 5 cents and I'll kill him.