I broke up with my boyfriend, I couldn t let go, it was always me who took the initiative, he was pa

Updated on psychology 2024-04-16
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You have to be so embarrassed, so painful, to prove that you still love him, you have to figure out why you broke up, whether it is a personality incompatibility or anger, I think it is really not easy for two people to be together, and a relationship is even more difficult. Boys may be like this, they have to die to save face and suffer crimes, if there is no big problem, I think you should go, he has already called you, give him a chance, and give yourself a chance, I wish you happiness!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I'm also a man, and I've had a similar experience to him. In fact, his heart is also very uncomfortable, he should have thought about it for a long time before he told you before making a decision. In fact, you shouldn't think about whether you want to go or not, you should think about whether you still love him or not.

    If you love, you must love thoroughly, know him and understand him from the heart again; If you don't love, you have to divide it thoroughly, then you won't have contradictions!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's nothing! Think blank first, then close your eyes and think, who is the best or second best for you! Preferably"Handsome"Then go like him! @!Talking about forgetting is the best way to spend time!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't care too much about it. Your situation is similar to mine. Such a boy is too bad! I hate boys like that.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Go ahead, since you can't be like friends, then you try to be together, and this time you cherish him so much that maybe it will be better than before! Why give up on your own?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Love is a matter of two people, the twisted melon is not sweet, both of you will be miserable, give up on him and find a partner who can love each other. As for him, don't think too much, time will slowly let you let go of his.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't be friends when you break up, it's better not to meet, and go to find your own happiness.

    In the world of feelings, there is no one who is sorry for anyone, only who does not know how to cherish anyone. If you are right, then let love go for a way out, and if you are wrong, then spare yourself. Forget the painful memories, you will find that the sky can be so vast, and the happiness other than him is worth cherishing.

    A person's happiness, a person's happiness, a person's loneliness, don't need anyone's happiness and sorrow to set off, they are their own theme, and they can live a very simple life. Wishing you happiness!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Can't understand and tolerate each other, and easily say that it will hurt each other's feelings if they don't love, and then say that they can't let go and want to get back together, in this case, if girls can't tolerate each other's repetition, it may be difficult to go back to the past! It's normal for two people to have conflicts, but they must be able to tolerate each other, accept each other's shortcomings, and work together to get better, so that they will go far!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It shows that in the process of getting along with you, boys are becoming more and more inseparable from you! He loves you very much, and it's getting better! The relationship with you is getting more and more on the right track! Wishing you all happiness!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Don't drag it out, think for yourself whether he is suitable for marrying you, so you can't waste your life!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    said that you manage too much, because he doesn't know your good, and when he breaks up that day, he will find that he is usually told what he does, and now no one cares about him, and he feels that there is something missing.

    If you can't let go, it's all a lie, you have to break up, and you're still saying that you can't let go, it's all about coaxing children, it's to gluttony your body, solve your own lust, break up, break up, and the next one will be more well-behaved.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The closer the person, the usual habits will be revealed, so you see if you can accept this, if not, let go completely, don't entangle.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Because you just don't fit, people who keep saying that breaking up will break up, and boys probably don't love you much.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    He is unreliable, and he breaks up because he doesn't want you to take care of it, which means that he doesn't like you enough, and even treats love as a game. He is also very self-conscious, he only cares about his own feelings in everything, and since he has broken up, there is no need to get back together.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Take the initiative to break up with you, indicating that I really don't love you anymore, although I can't let go of you, it may be another kind of feeling, you also find that he is getting more and more real, maybe you don't love him anymore, both of you have changed your psychology, each go to find your own true happiness.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Then break up, because the good horse doesn't eat back grass, and he tried the cruelty outside.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The girl's feeling is the most accurate, maybe you think it's right.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If your boyfriend thinks you are in love with you a lot, then I think you should first find such a question from yourself, whether you really manage a lot, or your boyfriend's freedom is greater than everything, because in many loves, every boy has always had his own freedom in his heart, and these men feel that their freedom is not comparable to all things, so a lot of jet lag girlfriends should know their boyfriends better.

    Take a look at what your boyfriend's final needs look like, if you are thinking about such a problem from a perspective that is good for him, then you have to fully communicate with your boyfriend, because many boyfriends will always do one thing according to their own ideas when they complete one of their own things, otherwise their boyfriend will not do such a thing, which makes there will be a lot of rent disputes and discussions between boyfriends and girlfriends.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    When a man likes a woman, he may have an inferiority complex, feel unworthy of the other party, and just want to protect her silently. If two people are together in the grand ruler, the man is also humble and high, he is insecure, and he feels that the woman is too good and is easily coveted by other men.

    So when a man is with you, but he is particularly insecure, it means that he loves you very much and is afraid of losing you, at this time the woman should build confidence and security for Liang Lun, and tell him that he will always be by his side, of course, on the premise that you love him.

    In addition, if you really like someone, you will be careful in a relationship, so if a woman finds that a man likes you, but this man will not always send you messages, then this man is afraid that he will always message you, and you will feel bored.

    Therefore, if a woman meets such a man in a relationship, then you should cherish him, after all, this man knows how to consider your feelings and does not want to cause you trouble, in this relationship, because he likes you too much, he seems to be very humble.

    In short, in a relationship, when a person is confident, always dares to move forward, dares to express, and when the other person understands your mind, he will also react accordingly. When a person has low self-esteem, he will be very hesitant and contradictory, and he will not know whether to advance or retreat, which will bring great trouble.

    Therefore, people with low self-esteem, please show some courage, become confident, and pursue boldly, so that you can not leave regrets, and it is a pity if you miss it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The two of you are not at ease with each other, or you can't get a sense of security in each other, so you make this kind of unreasonable request, think about the fact that people now have frequent social activities, some people have to go to several places a day, and they have to deal with different people, if you have to notify each other every time you go to a place, is it troublesome? If you don't make a fuss, just consider breaking up! Breaking up is good for everyone.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Individuals are all renew, well, being together means that both of them need to run in. If you ask the other party to do something, at least you should do it yourself, and if you can't do it, don't go to the other party to ask for it. When two people are together, let Jing not care, the question of who loses and who wins.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Boyfriends and girlfriends will have feelings when they run in together, and after they have feelings for each other, they will enter the palace of marriage.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Later ......That's the key.

    What happened later, the subject should be more aware of what to do and what to do afterwards.

    Let's just eat melon brains to make up for it, and I wish the relationship a smooth journey!!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think you and your boyfriend broke up and got back together, which means that your relationship is still very good. When two people are together, they must be sincere to each other's care and tolerance, each other. Only in this way will your relationship be happier and sweeter, don't be too strict with her, very.

    Liu Yi made him have a rebellious mentality.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If there are any contradictions, try to make them clear, don't because the previous contradictions have not been resolved, and now they are reunited, and two people must know how to coordinate and tolerate each other, so that they will go further.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Since two people have been separated once, and they are reconciled again, they should be cherished, you ask him to report, he asks you to report too, this is quite normal for two people to be mutual, and there is no one who takes whom, which is also considered mutual trust.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Your boyfriend wants you to feel the taste of being managed, empathize with everything, feel uncomfortable and the other party is also uncomfortable, don't do to others what you don't want.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I think it's weird.,You feel like you're being popped by the other party.,But I think it's already so powerful before you're married.,What's so good with him?,You couldn't stand his desire to control at the beginning.,Now people pretend to get better.,You've forgiven people.,In fact, to some extent,You've been controlled.。

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It's better to go with the flow of emotional things, don't be separated because of any contradiction between two people, and then be together again, this is very troublesome, so I hope the two of you can do your best and don't think about anything else. Don't say that feelings make you tired, but also report or what.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Although it is said that it is back together, you have to think about it carefully. In the future, he won't think you care too much about him. Some things must be made clear and explained.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It became a spare tire. After your boyfriend broke up with you, he didn't find a better girlfriend, but he didn't want to be single, so he went to get you back, got along first, and broke up with you when he had a good one.

    I really can't find a better girlfriend, and I can live with you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It may be a little, but if you don't want to eat the grass back, you can choose to break up, now everyone in this society can choose anything, to be honest, not replying to the message may be that he has something, or it may be that he is perfunctory and ignores you, then you can ask yourself if you can always endure this kind of life, if not, how to solve it, can you talk to him well, or you observe it again, I think it's okay, only you know what you need most, I hope you are happy.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Summary. Good morning! I've read your description. Did your boyfriend break up with you? If that's the case, there's nothing wrong with you fighting, but if you say it's counterproductive, it may be that you're in too much of a hurry. Because you need time to calm him down.

    My boyfriend mentioned that the breakup could have been controlled, but because he wanted to fight for it, he deleted me, isn't it thorough.

    Good morning! I've read your description. Your boyfriend broke up with you, right? If that's the case, it's not wrong for you to fight for it, but you said that it backfired, maybe you were too anxious. Because you need time to calm him down.

    Now that he deleted you, you feel that you have completely broken up, in fact, it is not such a hidden take, you still have a chance, and now he has deleted Songyuan, it doesn't mean that he won't add you back. So when it's time for a while, you go and add him back.

    Or tell me, what did you break up for? Shall I analyze it with you and try to help you get him back?

    We are outside of marriage, and he said that we have different morals, and his personalities are not the same as he likes to be quiet, but I am not very disgusted when I send him messages.

    Oh, I see, maybe it's because your message is too direct. Do you still like him now? Do you still want to continue with him?

    He said I was too noisy, so he deleted me, he was my guest, and he said we were guests.

    Oh, I don't think it's too noisy for you to send him a message, he deleted you because he didn't want to continue with you. He said that to be a guest of the world is to be an ordinary friend.

    Yesterday I said that I would be a guest at night.,Today the wild limb asked him the reason why I want to write the ridge Tong to say more.,He said I'm too noisy.,I didn't delete it at that time.,But I deleted it without stopping.。

    At first, I thought I could control it, and if he said he didn't like it, then I wouldn't say a word.

    Maybe he thinks you're talking too much, just trying to keep some of his words, and he's feeling a little bored.

    But he didn't tell you he didn't like you or didn't love you, did he?

    No, that's why he said it, and he also changed his own avatar I don't know why?

    Changed his avatar, did he have any ideas?

    I just don't know that it wasn't his own avatar before, but his back was changed at this time.

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