Difficult Choices 20, What are the difficult choices?

For a family that is not very poor, 10,000 is not too much and not too little, and he is an old man who has not paid it back for three years, during this period, does he tell you the reason why he has not paid it back? If there is, it can be said that he still has it in his heart, if not, he will not be a man, he will treat you as an uncle, he is unkind, then you have to think about when you want to use the money, will he lend you the money? Will it?

It's a question to consider, because isn't it easy for you to ask him for money back? Maybe, so you have to give him time to be mentally prepared, and you don't have to let him pay it off all at once, but you have to make it clear to him that you need money urgently, and you want him to understand and understand first.

You have to remember one sentence: borrowing money is the grandson, and repaying the money is the old man.

Take care of it

Of course I have to.

Anyone's money is not hung by the wind.

It is much more difficult for creditors than debtors to do now.

Did you ask him to write an IOU?

You have to leave yourself a legal basis.

Now if you go to court, you have to sue.

The courts did not support it.

Because the statute of limitations of 2 years has passed.

Yes, this is your own legitimate rights and interests, and besides, you have something to use money.

However, the skill of asking for money should be more ingenious, after all, it is a relative.

It depends on the facts, if you are in a hurry to use the money now, try to borrow it from your other relatives or friends, and if you really don't ask your relative again, because his conditions are not good.

You explain to him the reason why you are in urgent need, and he will be considerate of you, if he has no money now, you will never open your mouth, he is not motivated.

There is no way to solve this problem, and it is indeed a difficult choice.

But the current society is not about saving face or anything.

You ask for the 10,000 yuan, and when you have money.

After that. The current society is a society of money and power.

Remember.

If it should.

However, the conditions of the people are not very good.

So you should still pay attention to the method.

Otherwise, it will hurt the peace.

Of course why not

So far, the most difficult thing I have done is the repetition after the failure of the college entrance examination, at that time my heart was really discouraged, because ten years of hard work may not meet my expectations in the end, I feel very lost, I don't know if I have the courage to re-read, at that time I was really quietly confused, but I still chose to repeat, although the process is very difficult, but I misheard the pressure, made the most difficult choice in my life.

Although the process of repeating is very the one hand, you have to bear the pressure of repeating to you, on the other hand, the pressure on the study also makes you breathless, so the pressure on both sides is heavy on me, so every step is very difficult, I am afraid that I will not be able to get the ideal score and fail again, so psychologically it is also a difficult choice, fortunately, I survived in the end, in the second year of the college entrance examination, the results are more ideal for me, I went to my ideal university, and finally got what I wanted.

Re-reading is the most difficult choice I have made, and the process is also very hard, but I think it is very meaningful, this is a major turning point in my life, it is because of such efforts and persistence, in exchange for a better development space, to make my life more colorful and other processes are still very difficult and difficult, if there is no good faith, there is no little confidence to make it impossible to persevere, so no one can appreciate the difficult choice I made in this process, Only I know it, so I cherish my hard-earned results today.