Can you have a baby for him? He s not a husband.

A child is not born to him, nor is it born to yourself, a child is a person, not a thing, so a child is a child, understand? People have to be responsible, they can't be carried away by feelings, and besides, you have to be worthy of the word "mother". Think again.

It's better not to be raw! I will definitely regret it later!

To tell the truth, if you give birth, your life is destined to be finished and ruined;

is still a strong man, he makes his own decisions about his own affairs, and of course he can love him.

What's the problem, are you human?

I advise you to listen to everyone's opinions, you can't give birth, and if you want to give birth, you will marry him and give birth, otherwise it will be too unfair to the child, you can't be too selfish, the child is innocent!!

When you say that you are a strong woman, you feel very ignorant, since you are a strong man, then you naturally want to give birth, household registration, kinship or something, just find a man and get it right.

And then you said that the two cherish this relationship? That's even more ridiculous, the other party is asking for sowing and harvesting, but they still don't marry you? Do you think it's a blind date and love between the two parties?

It's better to give birth to a child to each other than to give birth to yourself!

It's okay to give birth to yourself, but it's not good to give that life.

Why give birth to one to him.

If you are not married, it is not certain whether you will get married in the future.

After you gave birth to a child, did you think about it?

There are many questions about how to report the child's household registration in the future.

Having a baby is not so simple.

I advise you to think twice.

A child is born without a name, as an illegitimate child or, you also have no name, how long do you think you can live like this, if one day, he is tired of you, you bring a child by yourself, how do you have to live?

You can't be indistinguishable from him in this life, right? You have a child and have never been married, how can you still get married?

When you meet someone you can marry in the future, will you bring someone else's child to marry?

Don't be silly.

No matter how good it is, it is better not to have children, a child needs to grow up in a sound family, once the child is born, no matter how much money you have, it will not be able to make up for the defects in his heart. Don't perpetuate the fault of the parents on the child. Or you'll marry this man.

Sick. Have you thought about it for your child? Or don't give birth.

No money is not the reason why you don't dare to have children. The real reason is that you and your husband have not agreed on the following four issues. Today I will make a list of issues related to having children, which must be discussed clearly with your partner, as long as you can agree on these issues, you can have children:

1. If you don't have money, how much money is considered rich?

Some people think that a monthly income of 3,000 is considered no money, and some people still feel that they have no money with a monthly income of 300,000. So you can agree on the criteria for not having money and having money.

2. How to have children and raise children.

For example, going to a private hospital, living in a confinement center, medium and high-end milk powder, going to a private kindergarten, and buying a school district house is a way to raise the family. In ordinary hospitals, parents take care of confinement, breast milk and ordinary milk powder, and are close to home and school, which is also a way to raise. No matter how you raise it, you can raise a good child, but have you reached an agreement on how to raise a child?

3. The real reason for having a child.

In order to pass on the family lineage and tie up your husband, or do you really love each other and want to form your own real family, do you have the same reason for having children?

4. Confidence in the future.

There are some couples who do not have a high income when they have children, but after having children, the whole person is refreshed, actively struggles, and the family works together to make life better and better. But some couples, after giving birth, the husband and wife are not in harmony, and they fight every day, and the good days are dissolved. Do you have the same expectations and confidence in the future?

Giving birth to children and raising children, money is really just the appearance. The real contradictions are between you, and many key issues have not been solved and not understood. It's useless to get tangled, talk about it thoroughly, solve it, and the child will be born.

I suggest having children, there is an old Chinese saying that "the poorer you are, the more you have to live", many people think this sentence is ironic, in fact, this sentence is a guide that can be understood literally.

But many people feel that the poorer they are, the poorer they are, and the poorer they are, won't they enter a vicious circle? This is not the case. If we can really enter a vicious circle, it is impossible for our Chinese vein to last for thousands of years.

You must know that most people in this society have no money, and it is up to us to work hard to make a living, and if there is one person who can glorify the ancestors, then the family will begin to go up, and the previous family has developed in this way. Otherwise, do you think that our 5,000 years of wisdom in China are blind?

As long as one of the children has a sense of mission, he can glorify his ancestors and bring everyone to get rich together. Just like a southerner doing business, in a southern family, as long as a person does a good job, his relatives and friends will follow him to do it, whether it is Jiangxi, Fujian, Guangdong, Zhejiang, they all rely on the family to go to sea together to create wealth. However, now many people don't want to have children, how can Doubi go to sea without having children?

In addition, how can couples who have no money maintain the centripetal force of a stable marriage? If you don't have children and you don't have anything to do in your life, how can you have a sense of mission? How can there be a centripetal force?

After all, poor couples mourn everything, uncomfortable everywhere, have no centripetal force, no common goal, and encounter a marriage crisis casually, both of them will think "let's break up, let's change someone, there is nothing worth nostalgia", and in the end, the two can only divorce.

So, you have to remember that the poorer you are, the more you have to have children, this saying is for men. In this society, giving birth to a child can tie a woman, but not a man. I have revealed this secret to everyone, women don't scold me, women must grow up, they must grow up, if you don't grow up, you will always be bound by children.

If a man is very poor and does not have children with a woman, then the woman will feel that there is no hope and no goal to follow this man, so what should she do? When her patience with this man runs out, she can only replace. Therefore, if a woman hears this, you must wake up, and if you can't want a man, throw it away, and you must give him back.

Also, raising children is not as expensive as everyone thinks, and now advocating free-range children, which doesn't cost much. If you have to be intensive, there will be more flowers. Everyone must know that children are productivity and an investment, and from the national level, it is said that with children there is a future; From the family level, only when you have children and grandchildren can you glorify your ancestors; From the perspective of the young husband and wife, if you have children, you have a centripetal force.

If you don't even give up this centripetal force, do you want to get married? Whether or not it is really open to debate, but the air lift must not be better. Therefore, we say that poor couples grit their teeth and have three, there is absolutely nothing wrong, you must know that the future is a shortage of people, your three children, even if they can't read books, do some manual labor, the income of manual labor in the future will be high.

I've put this sentence here, and everyone can see it.

Summary. So don't believe the man's words easily, you have all found out now, he is still lying to you. According to what he said, he didn't lie to you, but you can't ask for it either, try not to have children before you are sure about this child, and after you get married after you are sure, it is not too late to have another child.

A man has a child with his wife, why should he give me a baby?

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Maybe this man loves you very much, loves you very much, and wants to have a child between you.

I just looked at his phone, he has a wife, but I don't know, now that I'm pregnant, he let me give birth.

Although he has a family and children, he loves you and wants to ask you for a child between the two of you.

But his wife keeps in touch with him.

I'm just pregnant and I don't want to be scammed, so I asked what was going on.

His wife will definitely keep contacting him, it's your relationship, you're just a junior, so I don't recommend you to have this child.

Because legally you are not recognized.

The children you give birth to can only be raised by yourself.

He could have kicked you out of the way, because you don't have anything to do with it legally. In the end, you are the one who suffers the loss.

You don't need him to give birth to a child, you are the one who suffers, and you can't give you any name, why do you want this child?

But I didn't know he was married, and now I know, but he said he wasn't married, so I could casually check his ID, so I'm very confused now.

Don't believe too much in a man's words, in order to get you, in order to stay with you for a long time, he will do whatever it takes.

You have already found out that he has a wife in his mobile phone, and he is still lying to you, do you think it is credible?

Do you think you can still trust him?

Therefore, the child should not ask for it easily, after asking for it, it will be a burden to you.

Then you say that I want to talk to him about this tomorrow, I must say it clearly, there are some things that should be said, just say it, don't be confused and become someone else's junior who gave birth to a child for someone else, and finally got kicked, and I still have to raise a child, and it is very troublesome for me to remarry, it is all a burden.

Yes, he said he wouldn't lie to me, but I know the password of his mobile phone, and I looked at my phone tonight, and I found out, because he originally asked me to have a baby, I said I thought about it and found out tonight.

So don't believe the man's words easily, you have all found out now, he is still lying to you. According to what he said, he didn't lie to you, but you can't ask for it either, try not to have children before you are sure about this child, and after you get married after you are sure, it is not too late to have another child.

Because after having a child, it is a burden for you to remarry or remarry the child.

It's still the words I just said, don't be deceived by others, after being slept by others, I became a junior, and I gave birth to a child for others, but I was kicked out, I got nothing, and I still have the burden of children.

A man who doesn't want to have children with you, I don't think it's worth your love at all, it's normal to get married and have children, and it's even more so for a man, you can calmly think about why he didn't have children with you, and what is the reason?

A childless family, you can see for yourself what it looks like, can no children be said to be a complete home? Even if it is a person who is infertile, many people do everything possible to adopt one.

And it is difficult for such men to find any practical reason other than selfishness and unwillingness to take responsibility.

If you want to have a man and a woman, and he doesn't want to, in the face of such a major disagreement, it is impossible to be of one mind, what happiness can there be?

Of course, if you don't want children yourself, that's another matter, so it may be to accommodate you;

If this is not the case, but he is unwilling, then he should think about why, because many men marry in addition to love.

Having children and passing on the family line is also regarded as a very important thing, and children are the crystallization of the couple's love for each other and have children.

It will make the marriage more solid and secure, because everything must be thought of for the children;

The relationship between the two is the same, if there are no children, if they are together, they will come, and if they are not together, they will be separated, and if they have children and daughters, they will have a lot of worries.

Definitely not loved. Because my ex-husband is such a person, after more than 20 years, if you don't love, you don't love. I don't love it when I have a child.

Men don't want to get married, they don't want to marry you, men don't want to have children, they don't want to have children with you. If you don't want to, you don't love or don't love deeply enough, and you don't have so many entanglements.

There are many possibilities for this, such as that he is very disgusted with children; What is there for him to hide; He's not ready and so on, these factors are all possible. Whether he loves you or not, this is not something to guess, you should make it clear, not only about the child, but also about your future.

I don't think it's love, because any man who loves you will want to have a child of his own with you and then start a family of his own.

It mainly depends on what kind of relationship you have, if you are only a lover relationship, then there is no emotion between you, only to satisfy yourself, and you are just a tool for each other.

If it is for a marriage relationship, then in this case, the other party may also have a life pressure of their own, and sometimes they are afraid of taking on such a responsibility and pressure, and they do not have enough conditions, so at this time there will be such an idea to postpone the time to have children.

So according to two different reasons, at this time you can consider comprehensively, if for a normal marriage, it is better for two people to have children earlier, because the later you have children, then the greater the pressure for two people.

So at this time, you have to think about it from the perspective of facts, and sometimes we have to respect reality, because we are living in reality.