What to do when you are completely confused, what to do when you are confused

Everyone has temporary confusion, and to be honest, I'm just a college student now, I haven't worked or have much experience. Now that I am in my third year, I am more and more stressed and confused, and sometimes I am confused, I will listen to Mr. Wang Feng's songs, his songs give me a kind of strength and give me a kind of motivation. Different people have different pursuits, so I don't have any substantive advice, just follow your heart, be content, and be happy.

I wish you happiness and just "do whatever you want".

I'm guessing you're in a state-owned institution. This is normal. Many of my classmates are also bored after work, and they are only busy for a few days every year, and they are usually idle. Cultivate a hobby. Photography, calligraphy, whatever. it, you won't be bored when you're busy.

Take your current job to the best and see if there is a chance to improve.

Be content! Think about those people who work hard in the field every day just for a bite of food, think about yourself after work, someone at home is waiting for a meal, watch TV on the sofa after eating, play computer on the chair, how happy you are, but you haven't cherished it! It doesn't matter if you give points or not, I hope you can learn to cherish what you have.

In fact, if you have enough money, you can find activities that interest you, and then you will find fun.

Ask yourself what you want to do, whether you can do it, and implement it when you implement it.

Keep it simple, but don't get too tired.

In fact, when everyone is confused and at a loss, in fact, at this time you have to calm down and tell yourself, what is your original intention? What are your goals? What's your final thought?

Let yourself quickly calm down to determine what you are striving for, and think about the future, so that you will quickly get out of the confusion.

Because I used to have this kind of thought, and it was very strong, I also thought carefully about some of my own questions, and I ask the questioner to forgive me for this question.

First, I don't have confidence in what I do. I am always afraid that I can't do anything well, I am afraid of being laughed at by others, I am afraid of being criticized by others, and I am afraid that I will be scolded by others for being stupid. Second, I don't like to use my brain to do things.

I will only do the specific things that others have explained, and I can do it myself, and I don't want to use my own brain, that is, I do something very dull. Third, there is no concept of time. Now if you have something to do, you can do something, and if you have nothing to do, you will be extremely bored.

Fourth, there is no long-term vision. I don't know what I'm doing, I feel like I'm just being a monk for a day, hitting the clock for a day, and I don't have a specific goal. In fact, to be honest, I know my shortcomings and advantages very well, but I just don't know what I should do, what I should do, how to progress, how to correct my shortcomings, these problems, I have thought about it n times, I still don't have a clue, and it just so happens that only I can solve these problems, and others can't help, I also know that as long as these problems are solved, We can also make a difference and make a difference, so these problems hinder us from moving forward and progressing.

Here, I can only wish you to get out of the "blind spot" as soon as possible.

If you're really upset, you might as well stop everything, go out and go crazy for a few days, go to the bars more, indulge yourself, go on a trip, feel the nature, and divert your disordered emotions. Go for it, friend, thank you!

1. Find something you like to do 2. Think about what you want to be 3. Concentrate on your work 4. Study more and exercise more 5. Go out and see more of other people's lives.

What should I do when I am very confused? At this time, we may be pursuing the wrong thing, trying the wrong thing in the wrong place. Need to wake up in time.

I believe that each of us will have times when we are lost, and there will be different confusion at different stages of life. Often the goal is the brightest when you are confused.