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Going to work on holidays, social practice, so that you can't avoid having to contact people, be prolific, add some group activities, try to get together in crowded places, think in my head, I want to be in them, try to talk, don't be afraid to say the wrong thing, they will forgive you.
You can read more books, not textbooks, some more classic books, to increase your language base.
Make more friends, generally those who have a lot of friends are very confident and cheerful, don't always leave yourself alone, say what you think in your heart, let others understand you.
It's okay to look at those who are not as good as yourself There are many people in the world If you want to be confident, don't keep looking up Look down more You are already very good Slowly self-confidence will come out Look in the mirror more and praise him in the mirror.
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In fact, I used to be like this, but now that I think about it, I may care too much about other people's thoughts and visions, but in fact, who knows who on the road? Right, to be honest, I still tremble when the teacher calls me up, which is normal, but I rarely care about other people's eyes now, which is made by me going out to work during the holidays, and I was shy at the beginning, and slowly became bolder, really, it is recommended that you start to change yourself from a part-time job, it is really effective, but it is a very direct communication between people, such as selling things and sending flyers, which can effectively improve your courage and eloquence and so on. Seriously, what you said is really too similar to me, what's the problem hi me, I'm going down, it's three o'clock, I can't bear it, I'm going to sleep, bye-bye
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I was the same as you when I was in school! In fact, you are a very face-loving person, many times you don't know how to express yourself, you will sometimes be very confident, and when you meet someone stronger than you, you will become very unconfident! I used to be like this, I don't know if you have this mentality!
But I'm better now, because it's actually easy to change, and the more I think about it, the more scary it becomes! Find someone who loves you very much, so that you can be more confident, be cool about doing ugly things or answering wrong questions, you are wrong, it doesn't mean that other people are better than you, laugh at them for their ignorance, elevate yourself, but don't be arrogant! It's good to leave the campus, and in retrospect, that's it!
That's how I got here! It turns out that I'm just different, and if I do well, I can lift my head! Everyone is human, and no one else is a big deal.
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I have now summed up an incisive sentence: if you want to change your situation, you must first change your mouth, and then change your body. I don't know if you agree?
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If you want to change your luck, the most important thing is to know your fate before you can change yourself...Different people will have different fates under the same circumstances. A person's destiny is not determined by the Divine, nor by others, but by natural generation.
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The 11 books in The Parchment are written by successful people in various industries in the United States over the past 200 years, who have informed the world about the secrets of success and the meaning of a happy life that it brings.
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A simple method is formed through many practical actions, and in the process, new habits are established. At least it seems to me that maybe it's just a small step, but it's done repeatedly.
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Psychology is a science that studies human psychological phenomena and their mental functions and behavioral activities under their influence, taking into account both outstanding theoretical and applied (practical) aspects.
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Abide by the law and discipline and self-restraint. If we are always in a demanding environment to study and live, it is difficult to progress, so we should learn to restrain ourselves, demand ourselves, change from passive to active, consciously abide by the daily behavior norms of middle school students, and use it to restrain our words and deeds.
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How can you change your fate?
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Do the following and change yourself in a month!
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To completely change yourself during the summer vacation, you must do these five things.
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How do I change my tone?
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Be a man and be confident, and be a woman is even more confident.
Don't want others to look down on you.
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Don't feel inferior, be confident and pull.
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Striving is not to learn repeatedly, but to surpass oneself and do better than oneself in the past time and again. That's effort, and I think there's a lot of effort, and it depends.
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How can you change your fate?
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Do the following and change yourself in a month!
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To completely change yourself during the summer vacation, you must do these five things.
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How do I change my tone?
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Communicate with people more, especially those you don't know well, so that you can not only exercise your abilities, but also make new friends.
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Wake up in the morning to read, be louder, and preferably go to the park. When you speak, don't go through your brain, just say what you want, there will be a certain difficulty in the early stage, and slowly improve in the future, read more news and extracurricular books, expand your knowledge, find topics, and have your own ideas! If you are afraid of life, go to the park and find children and say, you must know that they are more afraid of life than you!
Pick up, on the road, on the bus, and communicate with strangers! You can ask for directions, how to go? I didn't know if I asked him to say it again, remember to say thank you!
There are a lot of people reading newspapers on the bus, eh! Any interesting news today? Can you borrow one for me to see?
Then find a topic!! You must know that most of them are strangers and will not know you, there are so many people in the world, just eat a little food, anyway, they don't know each other, and they will not meet again in the future.
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It's right to study hard, but there is no need to swallow your anger when you are bullied, because the more you endure, the more others have to make inches, learn not to offend me, I don't offend people, read more books, read more newspapers, eat less snacks and sleep more, you improve yourself not to let others look at you differently, but to really improve yourself, for your own efforts and don't pay so much attention to the gap with others, you will one day raise your eyebrows.
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You've transformed into a very idealistic person and you're trying to be gentlemanly, which is very good. You just have to be yourself and you're going to be good.
However, your two problems reveal that you still need to study and think to improve your overall quality and become a person who can realize your beautiful ideals.
You want to work hard to improve yourself through transformation, with the aim of giving your classmates and teachers who looked down on me before a slap in the face. This is nonsense!
You do well for your own future, which is fundamental and has nothing to do with others. If you do well, you will impress your classmates and teachers and get the respect you deserve, which is expected. If you do a good job, your classmates and teachers will not feel like a bedding, but if you think so, you can only say that you are still worthless.
You want to distance yourself from your former classmates, which you can't do for a long time because you don't compare. If you really want to compare two people, you must first look at the quality, and then look at the ability, can you compare?
Take care of yourself and try to make yourself better!
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Everyone will have some changes when they reach a certain age, but it will also vary from person to person. Also, it's hard to say if you widen the distance. This depends on your own efforts, don't go back to the old way. Work hard, work hard, come on!
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Arise, you who do not want to be slaves.
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How can you change your fate?
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To completely change yourself during the summer vacation, you must do these five things.
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It's very simple that you don't have a life goal that you think is great, and this goal can be seen by you, you can do it with your own efforts, and many of your problems are in this area.
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Judging from the shortcomings of your self-report, it seems to be a bit introverted. In fact, it is difficult to completely change the personality, introversion is not necessarily a shortcoming, if you are sincere and humble to people, honest and selfless, serious and responsible, some other problems do not have to be changed, let it be natural. Someone advised you to go with the flow, why not if you want to stay alone?
Some extroverts are busy with socializing all day, and you persuade him not to contact so many people and stay quietly for half a day, can he do it? This is the personality that does not have to be changed reluctantly. Of course, if you reach out to the masses and pay attention to it, it will be good for you to have a good relationship and expand your work.
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If a person wants to change his fate, he must first change his mentality, and his mentality determines everything. Only in the process of doing can continuous experience grow and reap your own success.
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Help others more.
Put your temper away.
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There is nothing to be inferior to, just have good grades, there is no need to compare.
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It's simple, do something you think is incredible, come out, be like Li Yang, haha.
PS: Change refers to changing from one normal to another.
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There's always a hobby, and there are a lot of like-minded people on the Internet, and many of them are in a similar situation to you.
Don't worry too much about it, you have to live a focused life.
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You may want to buy a copy of the "Encyclopedia of Success", which has a five-section section on "Charming Personality" that will teach you how to change yourself.
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Life is torn in the world, the important thing is not what you want to do, the key is to feast Wang Zheng to confirm what you can do! Correct your social positioning!! In this way, the growth will be smooth, and there will be a lot of trouble!!
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