Is it that you don t want to move your nest when you re older?

May you go away for half your life and come back as a teenager", this is probably the best gift of the years. When I was young, I always wanted to jump out, as far as I could, and I couldn't go out of other provinces, so I could go to a few cities. Just like eating, Jiangnan people who eat white porridge and salted melon and dried radish every day feel very fragrant when they eat a multigrain pancake one day.

Everyone probably has this kind of restless moment, and wants to go out and hang out on their own. The best recent time, of course, is when I was in college, The admissions brochure is flipped through every day, but I can pick a city that I like and am far away from home, and I fantasize that I can finally get rid of the shackles of my parents, what access control, what kinds of rules and regulations, the sky is high and the emperor is far away, and I am a strong wave Anyway, who knows. After graduation, I probably still don't want to go home, just a few years, I feel that I haven't wasted enough, and besides, my small county ** can meet my inflated and heroic ideals of struggle.

Probably after all, it's still young.,It's still tender.,Settle or something hasn't entered the brain yet.,It's still very indifferent to move a nest casually.,Of course, aside from the tiredness of the dog when moving.。。。 Speaking of this, I have to rent a house, finding a comfortable nest is one of the most important key factors in the same nest for a long time, a well-equipped kitchen, shiny and shiny, and a super clean bathroom is the most important condition for me to pick a house, no one, yes, yes, Gemini people are slightly clean and obsessive-compulsive. Writing this, I suddenly found that what I wrote has nothing to do with the first sentence "May you go away for half your life, and return to be a teenager", this is actually my vision, I always hope that I will return to the place where I grew up after "wandering" outside, and find that my city is still like that, and I am still full of vitality.

A colleague of mine used to be, twenty-seven years old, more anxious to get married, but her parents required the man to have a house, she and her first love talked for four years, three times, his parents didn't know, and then the scumbag's ex-girlfriend came back to him when she was pregnant, they got married, and then she may have died of heart, and wanted to find someone to settle down, so she was introduced to a man by others, the man's family background is average, not very good, there is a house but to repay the loan, but it can be seen that people really want to be friends with her, She doesn't like people talking to others while enjoying the kindness of others, and at the same time she goes back to find her second ex-boyfriend under her first love, and then she married her ex-boyfriend, I think it's particularly unfair to that man, if you like it, talk to others, don't delay people if you don't like it, <>

When you get older, you can't stand the toss, and the older you get, the more you love your home, and it's not as good as your previous home.

Times have changed.

The tree dies, and the man lives.

Many traditional concepts and understandings are being challenged by changing social realities.

It means: stay in a certain place all the time, don't change places. This word has nothing to do with age.

I've been confused all my life and I have to forgive her because she's old, what bullshit logic, I really don't have a backache when I stand and talk.

She passed away a few weeks ago at the age of 94, and although she is considered to be a long life, we still miss her.

I am in my 30s this year, and for various reasons, I have been living with my wife and grandmother.

Grandma has been paralyzed for more than 10 years, and injections, infusions, and gastric changes ......We did it ourselves.

But there are no complaints, because she is here, there are more people in the family and more popularity.

The kind old man, the righteous old man, the tree of the house, fell.

With no teeth, small eyes, small head, and neat short hair, she will never forget her smile.

Life has to go on, but I never forget her, I miss her very much.

After I finished reading it, I still cherish your grandmother, otherwise you will regret it when you pass away, like me, a lifetime of regrets.

I also wish my grandma died soon, because she I have been scolded a lot, and she is not good to me, I have no feelings for her, and the only thing I have some feelings for is because of her relationship with my mother.

If your grandma dies, you can't call grandma anymore. It's painful.

Did your grandmother pass away My mother took care of my grandmother for seven years, my grandmother was paralyzed for seven years, and my mother took care of eating, drinking, and lazing.

I started as a clerk, a clerk for foreign trade, contacting ** merchants for internal orders, and I do everything related to orders except for ordering containers, and because the name of the job is a clerk, I have been openly and secretly said that reading is useless.

If you have been working in the position of a clerk for a period of time, and you feel that there is no future, no prospects, and no money, then it is better to do it, and if you are tired of one job, you will yearn for another job, and with a yearning, it should not be so difficult to act, unless you are a person who has great ambitions but cannot make any changes in his body.

I have a friend of a friend, don't ask me why I remember it so clearly, because one of my friends told me about this friend of hers from time to time to encourage me to be restless all the time.

Friends of friends,After graduation, I went to Shanghai.,I really don't have any strength.,It's not good to learn professionally.,There's nothing special about it.,There's no way to find a job as a clerk.,But self-esteem is heavy.,Not willing to be a small clerk.,Just sign up to learn ps and some other software.,Learn it for more than a year.,Do game design in the largest game company in China.,The monthly salary has also begun to be tens of thousands.。

Well, since then, this girl who has never met has become my idol.

So, what if you don't want to be a clerk?

The only thing you can do is to improve yourself, whether you are already in the clerical position, or you feel that you are not capable of applying for it except for the clerk, there is only one word, promotion.

I'm like that, a thing can be solved very early, but I have to put it off again and again until it's really on fire, and I'm willing to do it, this is a disease that can be cured, otherwise it will be too painful.

We don't procrastinate like this, everyone has their own temperament, and your heavy procrastination is understandable, so you can slowly get rid of it, and it will slowly disappear with age.

If you're a guy, it's invisible, and no girl would like a guy like that.

If you're a girl, it's not as serious as a man, but it's a good idea to change your personality because most men don't like that.

Do you have a job? People who go to work on time every day are so busy that they can't stop, how can you have this good fortune, and procrastination shouldn't miss a big thing. You spend your days in a daze, go see a psychiatrist.

Alas! If this is the case, it will inevitably be empty of both people and money. When you're a little older, your body has already collapsed!

It is indeed a place to raise lazy people. I think your husband's situation is caused by his own personality and because you failed to play a good guiding role.

In fact, as a man, his wife has a salary so much higher than his own, so he should work hard. Why take such a thousand pieces and take them for six years and be satisfied for six years? I don't believe that he is so mentally retarded that he doesn't even know that he is a man, I would rather believe that you have been spoiling him and making him unwilling to grow up If it is the latter, I don't think you can ask him to change jobs immediately, this kind of compulsive move is very difficult for him to accept.

You should let him know the heavy responsibilities that he should have as a man, and try to transfer the stress of life to him, such as making the household expenses clear to him, and even dividing which expenses he needs to pay. And your salary, try to save as much as possible (you can use your child's future tuition fees as an excuse). After he knows the family's accounts, I believe he knows the situation at home without you saying more.

If you don't have to worry about your future like his mother, what's the difference between you and raising a son? If you want him to really grow, you have to give him the opportunity to grow.

If he knows the situation and still doesn't change it, then you should relax your heart. Don't take the blame on yourself. On the surface, you have to live a carefree life like him, but in private you have to save more money for yourself, and don't take out all the money you make to spend it.

In this way, when there is a problem, you let him figure out a way, let him go through the ordeal, and then decide whether to help him or not. After a few more experiences, he will truly grow into a man with commitments.

In fact, you are equivalent to a man's role in the family, and your personality dictates that you want to change his current attitude: a mention of a person he respects very much; Another one is that he experienced a setback!

Dogs will move their nests because they are frightened, and people often pick up or pick up small dogs, causing big dogs to be frightened, and the best thing to do is not to disturb the big dogs, and the big dogs will not move their nests.