What kind of habits make the other person unbearable?

Your habits aren't necessarily bad, but they can mean they don't fit well.

For example, if I am a person who has helped me, I like to say thank you, thank you, there is nothing wrong with this. But if you use it on your girlfriend, it will look raw. You know, our thank you makes you feel at ease, but what do you make your girlfriend think?

Do you think you don't like her anymore, or do you think she did something wrong? That's right, to put it mildly, but you have to look at whom.

There is also diet, for example, you have a lot of taboos in eating, not that you can't eat or you don't want to eat, so will it make people feel that you are difficult to accept? It won't make people think you're picky. For example, if you are a Muslim, you have your religious beliefs, you don't eat pork, you feel disgusted when you see a pig, no one cares about you, after all, it's your own business.

But you can't let your habit affect other people, you can't sit at the same table with you to eat, and you just happen to have pork on the table, and you can't wait to stay away.

You're keeping your beliefs, you're keeping your habits, but you're inadvertently hurting other people you're with, and that's embarrassing. Whether it is with your boyfriend or girlfriend, or ordinary friends or even passers-by, you need to abide by the minimum etiquette and give others the most basic respect.

It's unbearable, not only those bad habits, but also the sentence, you need to use it in the right place, and you have to think more about others.

You like to wake up early, and that's good, it's good. But you don't have the right to ask others to get up early like you, and you certainly can't just because they get up late that you have to be like them. It's just that when you wake up early, think more about others in your heart, and try to be as small as possible to cause disturbance to others.

It's the same with studying all night.

You like to listen to **, it's your own hobby. You don't have to put out loud your favorite songs, whether it's when others are resting or not, because people don't necessarily like to listen to them, and they may prefer to be quieter.

Some habits seem reasonable, but they invisibly affect other people, and they are not so obvious, so we should always have other people in our hearts.

From birth to adulthood, it is difficult to say that people have always grown up in a greenhouse, and they will definitely be affected by external interference, and some rough habits and bad habits will also be learned inadvertently when they are young, and then they will not be able to change anything.

For example, when a friend smashes his mouth during a meal, I can't stand it. I thought that my education at home since I was a child was not to make a sound when eating, not to make a sound when drinking soup, and to try not to talk when eating. I was fine when I was a child, but although I was very strict, I would be murdered.

My grandmother said that when she was a child, if she didn't follow the rules when she ate, she would just hit her. I was very scared to hear it, so I have always been very regular when I was a child, and of course chopsticks can't knock on the bowl, nor can they be inserted into the rice, etc., I have been educated since I was a child.

Now that I'm older, I still follow this kind of parenting, so when I meet someone who smashes his mouth when he eats and is very loud, I can't stand it very much. I was very resistant, but I didn't know what to say, so I could only try not to eat with such people. Otherwise, I will definitely not be able to stand the obsessive-compulsive disorder in my heart, and I feel that when I eat, my ears are filled with the sound of chirp and smashing my mouth.

Some families may feel that smashing their mouths when eating is a way to eat particularly delicious and fragrant, but some people, such as me, will be particularly unbearable for this kind of behavior. I feel that this is contrary to the education I have followed for many years, just like telling us from a young age to respect the old and love the young, and to respect the elderly, but now there are some old people who are disrespectful to the old, rely on the old and sell the old, and all kinds of tricks and unreasonableness.

But, anyway, I'm still very resistant to smashing my mouth. I think it's better to eat quietly, although it's not that I'm well-educated, I'm just an ordinary family, but I feel that it's a responsibility for myself and respect for others. For example, at a dinner table, everyone is eating, just you smash your mouth, and the sound of the bar is very loud, and everyone will definitely feel very uncomfortable when you listen to it.

But if everyone is in a babbling environment, then there is no problem.

I can't say which one is good and which one is bad, just that I can't stand this kind of behavior myself. Maybe I'm a perfectionist, and I usually have a high level of self-restraint, which leads to many times, there will be some things that I can't get used to.

Influence of various factors such as region, ethnicity, family environment, customs, education level, etc., even the two brothers from the same family may have very different personalities, which may be the biggest difference between humans and animals, what kind of people or habits do you have around you that you can't stand it? Personally, I don't like people who are lazy to eat, and this kind of person is delicious and lazy as the name suggests. The root cause is laziness.

In fact, it is understandable that you are lazy in your own affairs, after all, people are inert, but when working in a team, your laziness causes delays or even mistakes in work, which is very undesirable.

If it's a girl, he definitely can't bear it, that is, his boyfriend takes it out to smoke anytime and anywhere, and if it's a boy, he definitely can't stand his girlfriend's special sloppiness, and then the family doesn't clean up like this at all.

In fact, I think many people will have some bad habits, but I think there are some things such as not caring for hygiene, sloppy, these things will be difficult for people to accept, because everyone doesn't want to be like him when they get along.

There are some behaviors of boys that are the most unbearable for girls, so let's take a look at everyone's contributions.

There are a lot of bad habits, and I have thought about many of them and expected him to correct them, but he just listens to them, and whether they are changed or not is another matter. He always likes to pick and choose when he eats, and this practice is very annoying when he eats with his family. I don't like to tidy up the house, this is my most unbearable habit, I really don't know how he grew up, did his parents teach him that?

Speaking of this, I sighed, this is not once or twice, when I was at home, it was good to say, you don't have to clean up with me, I can also go to clean up the room, when I go home, the most afraid is to come to the house dirty to make me outrageous, in fact, every time I will not let me down, when I go, the home is very clean, the sofa is very tidy, after two days I came, as soon as I opened the door, I couldn't help but want to curse, the ground is so dirty, the sofa is so messy, what the hell is this, a dirty dish in the kitchen when I left, he was still there when he came, he cooked and washed the dishes, so how can the dirty dishes still be there, the place has not moved, can I not be angry.

When I was eating with my brother, he always picked and picked with a chopstick, and a dish was just that, you could read it at a glance, what kind of strength did you pick there, what was there to pick, and you were not the only one who ate, you were very disgusted by others, I would say it once when I met one, and the result would be the same next time. I'm speechless, I really can't stand it anymore. I'll be thankful when he'll get rid of that habit.

There are still a lot of habits that I won't say much, let's just pick out the typical ones, just these two I can't stand and don't want to endure. It's going to go crazy like this.

There's a person who is already very happy, what do you want to do?

My object's habit that I can't stand may be.,Walking too slowly.,I don't know if I'm lost or what's wrong.,Don't take a taxi, do you take a plane and take a rocket or something.,Is it because I lost my wallet?,Hey,It's really not okay, I'm going to pick him up.。

I don't know what it looks like.

Maybe he is too good in all aspects, and God can only close a window for him and give him an extremely slow speed. Come out to see me in the finale.

But it's been so many years, can we hurry up, I still want to keep the best look for you, and finally I want to spend a good time with you, I want to share with you what I like, and I want to eat with him for the first time, watermelon hearts for you, crispy cone tips for you, egg tarts if you want to eat the trap, if you want to eat the shell, you want to eat the shell.

But I really can't stand it anymore, I have to lose weight.

Totally unbearable, totally unbearable.

If I had a partner, I would spoil him for the rest of my life, no matter what habits I had.

It's a beautiful dream.

He doesn't like sports, doesn't like to do housework, and doesn't pay much attention to personal hygiene, but fortunately, he is more obedient and will change it slowly!

Ticket evasion, parks, buses, none of which I want to pay