How can I not think much about being with my girlfriend Now that I am full of her, I am so depressed

I can only say that you are finished, as for how to get out of that whirlpool, is to endure the pain of love, otherwise you will regret that the present good times are all buried, you are not living for her, you still have a lot of responsibilities, you can't stop you from moving forward for her, maybe she is your favorite, but I can be sure that she is not the most suitable for you, because she has become an obstacle for you, you think about it.

Like someone, you should have such a worried feeling, it's normal, nothing, you can occasionally text her, call **, tell her, how much you miss her, even if you can't meet, her heart will be warm

You can try to confess to her!

Be brave! Happiness is also after that step!

Break up, don't, she's going to be very sad

There are people who are in love with this feeling, so you have to endure it.

Discuss with Andy Lau. Ask him to sell you a cup of forgetful water! It works.

Communicate more with other girls, and you will find that your girlfriend is not so good.

Find a way to marry her

There's no way unless you don't love her anymore.

Try to get in touch with other girls!

Come out to meet more, **SMS is not face-to-face, just like netizens meet, and it always feels different when you are familiar with each other.

So go out and have fun more, don't be too anxious, you have just started, she doesn't dare to approach you when there are people, which means that she is very introverted, and you confess as soon as you hit **, it means that you are a very extroverted person. So you're worried about her performance, because you're just getting started.

Sweat. It's because she's too introverted. Multi-touch. Although texting and calling ** can brew feelings, if you don't dare to meet, it's a bit abnormal.

Do you have love over time, hehe, more contact.

Since she doesn't like to show that she is interested in you in front of others, then you create some two-person worlds, take the initiative to date her, don't be afraid of rejection, you can always figure out some of each other's thoughts when you are together, and when the time comes, it is better to chase or release and grasp it accurately, it is better than guessing alone like you.

Hehe, you're madao, when you meet this kind of little girl, just find a place where no one is around when the two have a private meeting, and go straight on! Of course I didn't tell you to do that, hehe, just have a long kiss first, and then people will take the initiative... After that, I'll be obedient to you, this is my experience in watching anime for many years, haha, of course it's not a serious anime, oh haha

After reading what you said, I think it is necessary for you to sit down with her and have a good talk to see what the problem is.

It's when she has a bad tone, you already have a problem.

Or when you called you later, your attitude was not good, and you didn't contact her for more than ten days, which made your relationship go wrong.

In addition, at that time, you were angry because your girlfriend had a bad tone, what was the specific situation, if it was just because of some misunderstanding, you wouldn't break up

To be honest, what you did at the beginning was really wrong, men should take the initiative to admit their mistakes, yes, they can also take the initiative to admit their mistakes, women need to be cared for! You haven't taken the initiative to contact her for more than ten days, which will make a person very insecure! You also need to reflect on it!

But I read your description, according to my experience: 1. She at least returned your text messages, indicating that she still has feelings for you, and if she really has no feelings, she doesn't need to reply to the text messages; 2. When it rains, she will give you an umbrella, which shows that she still has you in her heart and knows that she feels sorry for you! Although I had a hard mouth, I thought that you should have hugged her directly, hugged her and apologized to her, and gave her a sincere promise, I think there will be a turnaround.

3. If you text her occasionally, she may be really busy at work, but you can text at work when you are busy, what can you say... You should understand, and you should learn to understand!

I don't know how you're doing now, but I think if you meet again, give her a hug, give her a little promise, I think it's more tangible than an apology.

The main thing is that if you still care about the relationship and want to change your temper, I think you have most of the responsibility for this happening. If you still have any questions, you can talk about it, and I can help you think about it.

I studied psychology. Finally, I wish you all a speedy reconciliation! Happy!

Find a time that is really convenient for her, talk to her calmly, don't question, don't get angry, don't be aggressive, and chat quietly.

Time has to be when you're free, and she's not busy. Because once a person is busy, no matter what topic they talk about, it will be easy to inexplicably bring boredom, so the best time to chat is a moment when both of you can breathe a sigh of relief. ）

Everyone has unhappy things, if you really have to find a way to redeem it, that is, the relationship between you is really problematic, the first thing to solve is not how to coax her, because you don't know what she's angry with you at all, and if you can't find a reason, you can't follow her heart, and then even if you can coax her to soften your heart now, but believe me that you will have a conflict again in a few days, which is the inevitability of the existence of contradictions.

Some unsatisfactory things, it doesn't mean that if you ignore it or deliberately don't mention it, it will disappear on its own, and it must be solved by two people.

After all, 4 years is not a short time, I believe you still have a chance, but it depends on whether you will grasp it.

First of all, you have to be clear that you are doing something wrong, and you should not treat your object with that attitude anyway, towards your relationship for four years. So when you make amends, you should lower your posture appropriately.

Solution: First of all, you should find a way to ask her out, and it is best to talk to her calmly, after all, whether you are together or separated, you should talk about it well. If she doesn't listen, you can block her on the road, but remember not to get too emotional.

The best place to choose is one with memories of four years. The conversation was divided into three parts:

1.What do she think you are lacking in, and what does she think of your quarrel this timeHow you were feeling at the time and how you felt about the relationship.

3.You love him.

4.Finally, you should lower your tone and ask her if she forgives you.

I wish you all the best time you can be together again

Brother remembered.

It's not your problem anymore, now she doesn't want to be together, no matter how you do, it's useless if you believe me, there's only one way.

I know that maybe you can't part with her, and you can't give up on her.

But now the softer you are, the more she annoys you.

All you can do is be ruthless like a man who can afford to take it and put it down.

Only then will she miss you very much after a while, and feel that you are very manly and come back to you.

If you don't believe us, bet that people are so cheap, especially women.

Believe me. I'm a stark example of this, then I ignored her, and she came back to me two months later, and we're married.

So don't be soft at this moment, if you are soft, it means that you and her will definitely have no play.

Remember to talk to her less and be silent more. Trust me.

Waiting for your good news.

This incident may just be a trigger point, you usually get along, do you have anything else to make her unhappy? Or has it become a habit for you to have a bad tone? Because if your girlfriend breaks up with you just because of this incident, it's obviously impossible.

My boyfriend and I also broke up, although the cause was just a fuse, but there were too many things that had accumulated before, and I realized that we couldn't get together at all, and it wasn't suitable. I think your girlfriend is probably because of this as well. There are too many things that have accumulated, and you can't bear it anymore, you don't want to apologize to her now, but to reflect on what you get along with her normally, and what you have not changed that she can't get used to.

Women are like this, it is estimated that the iron heart is much stronger than that of men, and it is basically impossible to regain the beauty. Women who fall in love are more sensitive and neurotic. Alas, I'm also a woman, but sometimes I don't understand it myself, and I can be described as a fan of the authorities.

If you want to redeem it, you can't do it, you need a process, and you just need to change.

Tempered? Why do you ignore people and have a bad attitude, after all, there is a reason, find a problem.

Men have to be generous, who makes you a man, although my boyfriend is not perfect, but he is smart and knows that girls have to be coaxed.

Kid paper, you have to coax you to know no.

You have to coax it properly. Calm down, make an appointment to have coffee together, talk slowly, talk about good, talk about before, talk about just together, talk about repentance.

What to talk about. Anyway, if you can talk back, you'll come back, and if you can't talk, you really have to repent every day.

You're so weird.,I just don't want to quarrel with my girlfriend.,Why do you quarrel every time? Does this also mean that you don't love and tolerate your girlfriend as much as you think? I'm also a wayward girl, I sometimes quarrel with my boyfriend for a little thing, we used to almost quarrel as food, and then there was a time when my boyfriend went to the field, went for almost half a year, I cried every day because I missed him, but when he came back, I still couldn't help but quarrel with him because of some trivial things, but he didn't quarrel with me, such as we went out to eat, he was late, I murdered him, he would come back fiercely before, it was not a matter of importance, but now he smiled and said to me:

I know you're worried that I'm afraid that something will happen to me and I'm afraid I'll be hungry, I'm fine, I'm sorry, don't worry I just feel that my boyfriend, who has been with me for three years, has suddenly matured a lot, and a few simple words have touched me so much, he finally knows what I'm thinking, right? He has a motorcycle, but he pushes the car to accompany me every day when he gets off work and sends me home, I asked him why, he said: I know you want the two of us to stay together longer than I do, I used to send you home in a hurry and left, it must make you feel insecure, I think I don't care about you My tears are almost overflowing, and I suddenly found that I really don't know how sensible, and I suddenly found that he really has a hobby, maybe he is still a new worker in society, and he can't give me any big benefits, But these little things make me feel that he loves me, he really tolerates me with his heart, and I am very happy!

So, I'm starting to slowly control my temper and think about him now, so now that he walks with me, I'm a little worried about him, I'm afraid he's tired, you may not treat your girlfriend like my boyfriend, right? Although it is true that it is said that love requires two people to tolerate each other, there is always one person who has to take that step first, right? Your girlfriend didn't take that step first, so what about you, why don't you try to start by tolerating her first?

ps: I want to get your score right, but this is also what I really think in my heart, not sensational, not pretentious, thank you!

The quarrel is bai

A good thing. If du

The two people don't quarrel, that means.

Zhi feelings are dangerous But after a long time, you won't be noisy, don't be too scared Oh Men's rights, you have to learn to control your emotions, don't be too careful. After all, life still has to be lived well You must learn to understand a man's heart, care more about each other, and respect each other more. Remember, the big husband can bend and stretch, don't be too careful Feelings need to be accompanied, in fact, women are used to coax.

You have to cherish your relationship. Coax her more, and when she's unhappy, you can make her happy with a few jokes.

You're a college graduate! But I still do.

Junior high school! But how can you be inexperienced? Probably in zhi

People in love are confused! DAO is unavoidable to quarrel! You know what!?

I've been arguing with my boyfriend over a little thing! But have you ever thought about it! I can quarrel with you because I care about you!

If I don't like you, I don't care who you are, so I'm too lazy to quarrel with you?! I don't like you, you care about you, I don't even care about you! If it's your girlfriend, I'd love to tell you this!

It's normal for people who love each other to quarrel, but it's not normal to quarrel without quarreling!! The more noisy the feelings, the better!!

Find out why you quarrel My husband and I also quarrel a lot, but the more we quarrel, the better the relationship There is a degree in between, you know?One of the two sides must bow their heads first, be considerate of each other, and accommodate each other. I wish you all happiness.

Hey, I'll give you a word

There is a destiny to be artificial

You're saying that he's not good-looking, and you're saying that he's not good-looking, and it's definitely not the object of your liking, and you're saying that to quote the words above, "God is fair, and the opportunity is equal!" ”

Since she's not very good-looking, why are you so depressed? I just feel unwilling and unconvinced, don't you? So wouldn't it be nice to find a girlfriend who loves you and is much more beautiful?

God is fair, and opportunity, and equal!