How do I get out of the maelstrom of feelings?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-28
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Since the other person's performance is so indifferent, maybe you can let yourself go and not struggle to the death.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you just like it, it's okay, if you fall in love with someone, it's troublesome, you are mentally prepared, if you really can't let go, you fight to the death, so as not to regret it later, life has no way to come.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Brother, I also think you should give up. Try to keep yourself busy and pay less attention to her. Over time, you'll get better.

    I'm glad you still have a chance to be friends, and she doesn't care much about you. I'm different, I let a kid hate me for the rest of my life. I'm like this because it's hard to give up.

    I'm in favor of fighting for a career, but in fact, we tend to think that in a few years we won't be so simple and good girls. In our hearts, we have always thought that society will make people change, and girls will not be the girls in our minds. Actually, it's not like that, life includes a lot.

    Love is just a part of life, just a spice in life. If you're really uncomfortable, do more and talk to your friends. It doesn't matter if you shout loudly, or work hard to do a good job, these can be relaxed.

    The so-called scholar is still free of it. Believe in yourself and you will do it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It feels like you're at least a co-worker, so it's too hard to forget someone, unless you like someone else now, if you really want to forget that she's better to see less or not see each other at all, let time fade everything, I hope it can help you...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Sooner or later, you will forget.

    If it is not suitable, there is no need for development.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

    When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you.

    There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

    They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

    In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

    If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

    Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

    In this world, everyone has someone they want to look for.

    Once you miss it, you won't come back.

    If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, and you may regret it for a while.

    But you give up.

    It could make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Always trying to forget, in fact, is constantly reminding yourself, remembering this person, these things! As a result, the memory is deepened, and of course it cannot be forgotten.

    In fact, the best thing to do is not to think about forgetting, at least not intentionally.

    Deliberately forget, you will remember it more deeply, since you want to forget him.

    It shows that the traces he once left in your heart should be relatively deep.

    There are some things that have existed and there are so many emotions paid for them, why forget them. A lot of things are respected, and if you want to forget, you just run away.

    And there are some things that really need to be let go.

    Only the face can make a difference. We fled to another world of ruin, grabbed someone else, immersed ourselves in something else, but that past remained.

    It's better to calm down, recall the beginning and the past, count the steps with that person, and then tell yourself that the gains and losses are meaningless.

    It is also a value. I still remember the memories of the past, because it was a part of life, and life was perfect because it was imperfect.

    Because of pain, we can grow, these sound exaggerated, but we will only understand it when we walk through it. Don't forget it, face it bravely.

    And cherish this experience of your life! is the best choice ...

    May you be happy every day in 2010, always happy, every minute is wonderful, and every second is happy. Huh

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Time will make you understand love, time can prove love, and it can also overthrow love. There is no kind of grief that cannot be alleviated by time.

    If time can't make you forget those you shouldn't remember, what's the point of our lost years?

    How good would it be if the sorrows, pains, and failures that Sochang had in his hands were all fake? It's a pity that there are a lot of false feelings and false meanings in the world, and their own pain, failures, and sorrows are always true.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's good to be alive alone!

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