Facing the loneliness of graduation, won t college students feel lonely after graduation?

Keep playing, and don't get caught up in the fact that you feel like you're wasting your time. Graduation exams, ** or something should be spent on it, it's too late to quarrel and work hard, and you have to get the certificate by all means. If you don't have any grades in school, you can go to the job fair or not, you can feel the atmosphere, mainly depends on the social relations at home, don't be naïve to think that you can get a good job with a certificate, especially the current employment situation.

If you don't know how much time you have to play, you'll regret not having fun later. I'm just like you, I graduated last year.

It's nothing, after graduation, you will find that seventy or eighty percent of people are engaged in jobs that have nothing to do with their major, so if you want to go on in your major, you will continue your studies; If you don't want to pursue a related major, choose the career you want to engage in and start from scratch. In fact, when you leave school, you will find that what you learn in school is not used much in your work, except for individual majors, such as foreign languages. In short, cheer up and move forward bravely...

I am also facing a graduation student.

But I'm in a good position.

I also wasted a few years of college.

Afraid of what? The greatest asset of young people is not to be afraid of making mistakes.

The key is to make mistakes and reflect on them.

Looks like you're aware.

The most important thing now is to analyze yourself.

What to do.

Then run a few more job fairs.

When things are at the worst they will mend.

Good luck.

If you have a certificate, go find a school to teach dancing. If you have a relationship, go to a dance troupe, although I think it's still reliable to be a dance teacher.

Don't work hard with dreams, finding a job to eat and dress is the most important thing to consider now.

One step at a time.

Do you know the point of this sentence?

In this "go" word.

I'm the same, I didn't learn anything in college, and I worked for two years only to find that I was too far away from my ideal life. So there's a goal again.

If you don't "go", then you can only be confused here. That's the worst you can get. Let's take a look around, can it be worse than now?

Start from scratch and start studying at a real university! This university is society!

See what you like to do!

Cultivate a hobby! Make use of your strengths!

It's OK to work in that direction.

No, it won't. The omen of work will be busy in the morning.

How can I have time to take the test and think about this?

I think it's very normal for college students to have such a mentality after graduation, because people will definitely take care of it when they face an unknown new environment, and then they are a little scared in their hearts.

To deal with this situation, the first thing is to correct your mentality, so that you feel not afraid from the bottom of your heart. People should be afraid when facing a new environment, but if they can get rid of this fear through strong psychological cues. You can instill in yourself that you are already good at it, and then you can handle problems well, and this kind of perspective can make you more confident.

In addition, after graduation, before entering the workplace, college students can ask experienced senior teachers for advice and ask them to tell them some things that need to be paid attention to in the workplace, which can invisibly reduce our sense of urgency. Because the more we know about something, the less we will be afraid of it, and it is precisely because we don't understand it that we will be afraid, so after learning some knowledge of the workplace, we may get rid of this feeling.

It's all like this, on the eve of my graduation from college, I was also very scared, I didn't know what to do after I made a friend draft, and I didn't know if I should continue to stay and apply for graduate school to study, at that time everyone was almost like this.

I remember those days, although we still go to class and end normally every day, eat and sleep normally, but obviously talk about more topics after the conversation, although everyone can avoid this topic many times, after all, no one wants to talk about separation, and they are not ready for graduation, so no one wants to talk about it, but some things that should happen will eventually happen, it is unavoidable, the closer to graduation, the more tense the atmosphere in the dormitory, and often there will be parents who come to ask what they plan, Therefore, it is inevitable that it will be mentioned, and then it will not be stopped.

I remember that there was such a thing, Bei Bei in the dormitory was the one with the best relationship with me, that day we had dinner or went for a walk on the playground as usual, at that time the freshman children were still in military training, we watched quietly, unconsciously thought of their military training, the two of them were a sigh of emotion, but looking at it, chatting and chatting, we said that after we arrived, she said that she had decided to go out to work, her family situation was not good, and she didn't want to study.

And even if you continue to read, it may not be better than going out to work now, sooner or later you still have to work, two years earlier and two years later, but my situation with her is still different, my family wants me to continue to read, but I don't want to read, I have become a pig-like character in three years of college, I have eaten, slept, slept and ate all day, I have no intention of studying, and I can't really learn.

But my mother still mentioned to me over and over again to go to graduate school, and said that she would respect my ideas, but I think she wants me to follow her ideas, I don't want to disappoint my mother, I don't want to study in school, I don't want to work, I don't know what I want to do, maybe I want to be a rice worm all the time.

I told Beibei about my situation, she didn't speak, I could see that she didn't want to study, but it showed that she didn't allow it, her parents were in their sixties and still working outside, and one brother was still asking her parents for money all day long, she felt that she shouldn't be increasing the burden on her parents, and I finally chose to come out to work, and my mother was angry as I expected.

Now I have been working for more than six years, I really feel the true meaning of learning to learn if you don't learn in the school of filial piety, everything has to be returned, and you can only come out to study if you don't study well in school, but I don't regret the choice at that time, because I know that even if I stay in school, I can't learn, why pay back, I'm the kind of person who won't work if I don't force it.

So, don't be afraid to hesitate, think about what you want, what you want, and everything will be solved.

Perhaps, some people are excited and excited to graduate, and some people may be hesitant.

Not necessarily because some people can't find a job for a short period of time.

There is some truth in what was said upstairs, reading books can promote you, but more importantly, the internal factors must work, and you yourself must be motivated.

Transitioning from a student role to a job role does require a transition. What kind of job you are suitable for, which direction to develop, only according to your personal ability and quality, preferences, market demand and other factors to a comprehensive analysis, we can only give you suggestions, say the general direction, you have to consider it yourself.

When you first start looking for a job, you just need to avoid being too picky. What is certain is that your confusion is temporary and normal at the same time. Everyone feels more or less lost in the process of growing up.

To get out of this situation, it is recommended that you set a goal for yourself, that is, planning, according to your own ability and the future needs of the market. Then set some stage goals, the kind that can be achieved by jumping on your own. When it is achieved, set a goal that can be achieved by hard work, so that the final goal is reached step by step.

The goal should not be too big, but it should be within reach, so that you will not be confused and discouraged, and in this way, you will be able to get happiness from the success of achieving your goal.

The goal can be any aspect, such as finding a job you like, or determining a skill training you need, and then setting a work-study goal, so that you can make a little progress every day, work and study steadily, and accumulate experience, so that you will definitely gain something; After that, set a new stage goal and work hard. Give it a try, instead of being confused and entangled, make something that will be beneficial to you in the future.

What are you doing with Wen Zou Zou, you don't have the ability to see anything in vain.

If you are very good in chemistry, that is very good, which means that you are not a problem with your learning ability, but an interest and self-confidence. I guess you are more interested in chemistry at the beginning, and if you inherit well, you will be more confident and proud of him, and you will be more willing to put some energy into it, so your grades are still improving.

In fact, the learning methods of each subject are similar. By the third year of junior high school, with the same methods and interests and confidence, there is no problem at all in accepting high school studies. When I was in my third year of junior high school, the school needed a bad habit environment, and there were only a dozen people in the class of 64 people, and a few of these dozen people rode the window to shoot birds while attending classes, but they could still be admitted to college in high school.

First of all, you need to eliminate your boredom and fear of learning, and you are not confident, chemistry itself is a subject with both arts and sciences, as long as you work a little hard, you can change your mentality very well, and you can also achieve progressive results.

It's not that you can't take the secondary school exam, but remind you to think clearly, because it is difficult to find a job after the secondary school comes out, unless you have a better plan for your future, and you have an estimate of what to do after graduating from the secondary school, otherwise it will be painful.

If you still think that you are not suitable for high school, you should talk to your parents, because even if you work hard in high school, you may not get good grades, and technical secondary school can allow you to enter the society earlier, practice your ideals, and you can also be admitted to university after graduating from the transfer.

But no matter where you go, you have to work hard, otherwise you will be eliminated when you get to **. I still support you to go to Bo, remember that when you are young, anything can happen, even if it is a miracle!

Confusion is a common problem in our time, not your case. So, you don't need to blame yourself too much. Now there are a few questions that you need to figure out.

First: When the age reaches this point, the parents are also old. Regardless of your family background, a job is necessary if you do not have the relevant further studies. That's a premise.

Second: the so-called confusion is the anxiety caused by the lack of self-understanding and the pressure on you from society and the people around you.

a。For the lack of self-awareness, you can calm down and think about your own experience, your own studies, your own strengths, your own interests, and so on. So if you have a clearer understanding of yourself, go for a job and pay attention to the targeted search.

b。For the second pressure. It's not your fault, it's something you can't change. Although we can't fully accept it from our hearts, we must at least be calm, or it can be the driving force for us to move forward.

Finally, I wish you all the best.

You can first find a job that suits your major or your favorite job, accumulate some experience, and pave the way for better development in the future. Don't be afraid of the so-called interviews or anything, be brave enough to take that step and face it calmly, no matter what the outcome of your interview is, you should also stick with it until you get a job. This is also a great experience in life, it depends on whether you dare to try it, come on.

1.After graduating from college, you will be disappointed because you didn't learn much when you were in school, 2After graduating from college, you will be disappointed because you have not published a good ** in your major. . . Things.

3.After graduating from college, I will be disappointed because I have been in love many times and wasted time renting friends... A lot.

Just temporarily confused.

The uncertainty of the future, the uncertainty of the future. It will get better and better in the future, and there is no need to dwell on it.