I m very unwilling to break up with my ex, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-04-17
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you are unwilling to break up with your ex, then in this case, you have to work hard to chase the other party back. First of all, analyze why you broke up and find the problem. Find a way to solve the problem.

    When necessary, you can also make some changes to yourself, only if you really change, it is possible to save the other party. So what we have to do now is to make some necessary changes to get the other person back.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you are unwilling, chase her back, and if you meet someone you like and don't want to let go, then find a way to chase her back, because of what to break up, what reason to change until the other party is satisfied.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Retain. Because since he is unwilling, he should try his best to keep him for so long, impress him with his sincerity, and let him give up the idea of breaking up.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    1.Transferring emotions, people are always easy to remember what they have paid, because they have really paid, and it is normal to be unwilling to experience a breakup. After all, you don't get the final emotional reward for your efforts, but the personal experiences of the two of you can still cancel out what you call "real results".

    Try to calm down and think about how the next person can live their lives to be happier, rather than lingering in this dead relationship. Try to do something, relax, travel, see the scenery, and slowly relax, maybe the mood will be much better.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's good to be together if you can't do without him, but you have to learn to respect him, give him a certain amount of freedom and space, and don't care too much. Another thing you have to learn to be independent, learn more and improve your quality, work hard, and let him do without you, so that you can be together for a long time. Good luck.

    It's good to be together if you can't do without him, but you have to learn to respect him, give him a certain amount of freedom and space, and don't care too much. The other thing is that you have to learn to be independent, learn more and improve your own quality.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's very unwilling to break up with your ex, so you try to change yourself, so that after your ex sees these changes in you, he regrets breaking up with you and comes back to you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you are unwilling to break up with your ex, the best way is to let go. To understand one thing, two people are together because of a good relationship. It is hurtful for each other to want to continue after a rift in the relationship.

    Therefore, breaking up is respect and understanding, and the problem of unwillingness should not be considered. It's not that you're not good, it's just that you're not suitable.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If two people break up if they feel inappropriate together, there's nothing. Not willingly. When you break up, tell yourself that it's time to move forward and stop clinging to the past. He doesn't cherish you, there are always people who cherish you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you are not reconciled, what can you do?

    What you can do, everything is in the past.

    So be calm, let go of yourself, let go of everything, everything will pass, there is nothing that cannot be passed.

    When it passes, you will find that the road ahead is more exciting, so don't fall in one place, this is not the beginning or the end, just an unbeautiful scenery on the way.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Since you have broken up, don't be unwilling, living your future life is more important than anything else, if you are just immersed in unwillingness, then what is the point of getting into the horns of the bull and having a bad time? As long as you live happily in the future, it is better than anything else.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you are unwilling to break up with your ex, you will strive to come back, believe that you have an emotional foundation with her, take the initiative to approach him, let him understand that you are still the most suitable for him, and he will be with you again.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's very unwilling to break up with your ex, so you go and chase it back.

    But it is not recommended that you do this, if you are just unwilling, if it is not because of love, there is no need to bother the other person.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    After breaking up with your ex, you are very unwilling, so if your ex already has something you like, you should learn to let go. But if you're still single and like you, you can find an opportunity to get back together.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you are particularly unwilling now, or you still have the other party in your heart, you should still directly propose to the other party to redeem or propose to reunite, and then see what kind of performance the other party is, or response.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You can be unwilling to break up with your ex, at this time, you should be active and work hard to confess, let the other party know, you come to chase the place back, so that you can. If you're not happy, take the initiative.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's very unwilling to break up with your ex, so you have to learn to let go. To understand that if two people break up because they are not suitable, it does not mean that you are not good. If you can understand it this way, you will be less entangled.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you feel particularly unwilling now, you can directly redeem your ex, or pursue your ex again. I think that if you do this, you will be able to make your heart more comfortable.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Be a human being. Be sure to look forward. Don't be reluctant. After all, the two of them really love each other when they are together. But for many reasons, they didn't end up together. But at least it's worth it to have it once. Don't embarrass yourself.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Since you have such a feeling, then quickly propose to the other party to get back together, because you still like your ex more, so your kind of reunion is also very important for your ex, so say your thoughts.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you are very unwilling to break up with your ex, you have to find your ex and make an appointment with your ex to sit down and talk to each other sincerely to see if you can save this relationship.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The breakup is very unwilling, which means that you still love your ex, so the only thing you can do now is to redeem him, of course, before redeeming it, you should first make sure that your ex is now single.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The ex is unwilling to break up, you have to see who broke up with whom, if you take the initiative to break up, then what is unwilling, but if the other party proposes it, then you are unwilling, it is more normal to fight for it, I wish you success.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Since you have broken up, even if you are unwilling, there is no way, if you can redeem it, then you go and do your best, if you really can't do it, you should give up and start your new life.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You have to know what aspects of your unwillingness to show up, whether it is because you are unwilling to break up, or because you have true love in your heart, if you still have love for your ex in your heart, then you can pursue it.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you are not reconciled, you can calm him down for a while, and then sit down with him and have a good talk to see if you can redeem it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You can tell yourself that since you have broken up, there is nothing to be unwilling about, don't think about it when you are separated, you still have to start a new life, and you can't continue to think about your ex.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I'm a girl, in my personal opinion, I think unwilling is not the same as liking, since you are just unwilling, then you should find a way to divert your attention, after all, people always have to look forward.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I think that if the breakup between the two of you is irreconcilable, and it is a breakup caused by dissatisfaction with the way of life and personality, I don't think there is a way to change it, and I can only say that I accept such a breakup.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    is very unwilling to be a predecessor, and Shen Draft needs to do these things.

    The first aspect of the matter, in fact, it is not the people who can't be forgotten but the memories, maybe they paid a lot at the beginning, but they didn't come together, there are many factors in this. No matter how good a person or thing is, it no longer belongs to you, so put it in your heart, think about it occasionally, and cherish what you have now and what is in front of you.

    The second thing is to think about the reason for the separation, and dissect whether it is worth taking up so much of your time. Think about it, because you can't forget him, you go to him, what will happen to him, how he will treat you after that, the previous contradictions, whether the reason for the separation still exists. If you can ignore the previous problems between the two of you and you are willing to pay more, you can of course go to him.

    Spend more time on yourself, such as studying, exercising, learning about financial management, learning makeup, learning new knowledge, starting a side hustle, and so on. Let your friends and colleagues pay attention to the disadvantages of the right age, and you can consider starting a new relationship.

    The third aspect of the matter, since it can become an ex, it means that it is still not suitable. The only way is to improve yourself, make yourself better, deserve better, even if one day you meet your ex, your light makes him regret it, let him bless it, you have to work hard to make yourself better, because the only one who will not let yourself down is yourself!

    The fourth aspect is that it is difficult to forget a relationship, but how to deal with this relationship is up to you. If you have a family and found a significant other, then cherish your current marriage, take how to maintain the family as the first priority, and only keep your ex in a certain part of your heart to treasure. We must not compare ourselves with each other, but we must be responsible for the present, and we must be more responsible for the society and the family.

    The fifth aspect of things, since you are separated, if you just miss him, you can look forward, maybe you are just used to him being by your side, do what you like, focus on work or study, no one will always stop in place, and don't be sentimental, and the girl may be hurt in the end.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Even if you are no longer willing to be empty, don't show it, ignore him, ignore him, just like transparency, only in this way, when you take Li Jian long, you will slowly let go of the argument.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It depends on whether the ex has a male manuscript and a friend or girlfriend banquet now, if there is, die, there is no need to disturb his life in order to guess unwillingly, it seems cheap, if you don't have a boyfriend or girlfriend, then be brave enough to chase it.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    You can chase him back, if you are not willing to break up with him, then chase him back again, you will not regret it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    At this auspicious time, you should change your imitation, make yourself better, and work hard to change your opinion, so that you will no longer choose to be assigned to the previous banquet.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I think I can change my mentality, and secondly, since I have broken up, I should not disturb the other person's life.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    is unwilling, because it is not hurt enough, and the heart hurts enough, so he lets it go, because he is not worth it! If he is really good, for a person who is leaving, let him go, because no matter how good he is, it doesn't make sense to benefit you in the world of feelings! In the emotional world, what can bring you down-to-earth happiness is the only criterion!

    Of course, all this, first of all, you have to be strong enough, really strong people, including economic and personality independence, to be qualified to choose and picky, otherwise, maybe you can only exchange grievances for the value you want! In the adult world, it is cruel, the value is not equal, and it can only be eliminated!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    There are many reasons for being unwilling, but you must think clearly, whether you still love him, if you still love, improve yourself, pursue it boldly, no matter the result, always give yourself an explanation.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    For saying that you are very unwilling to your ex, you must first ask yourself, is it happy to be with your ex, or is it too sad to be happy? If both parties can't let go of this relationship, I think we should actively strive for it. But don't harass the other person too much.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Then try to see if you can get back together, and if not, don't bother others and live your life well.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Time is the best medicine for wounds, it is able to dilute everything. It would be better to find a way to keep me busy, enrich the scum himself, or invite a friend to come in for a trip to relax, and divert my attention. As time passes, you'll meet someone who is more suitable for you.

    It's nothing more than that I feel that I haven't been repaid for my efforts, and I entrust my innocent feelings to people who are not worthy of entrustment, and I am not worth it.

    1.Because of unwillingness, he turned around and sought to get back together, and once again accepted the torture and blow of feelings? Or in the face of the cold words of the past lover, let my majesty disappear, or stalk, rebuild the old good, and compromise in the sympathy of others.

    Or it is difficult to suppress the indignation in my heart, and I am excited to do something that I regret. I don't think it's a wise choice after a breakup.

    2.Rightly or wrongly, for whatever reason, since it was once a thing of the past.

    Face the price you have to pay in your growth. Turning around elegantly is the best explanation to me, and the rest will be handed over to Ran Jian time, one day, the pain you once thought you would never forget will become light. Mentioning the past is like mentioning other people's stories, and there are no more waves in my heart.

    3.Either keep me busy, my attention is diverted, I do work, I do housework, I am so busy that I don't have time to take care of emotional things. Immediately freeze the relationship with the other party.

    No matter how much you think about the other person, don't contact the other person, because you will only think more and more about the other person, which is very bad about getting rid of the other person's distraction. And in this way, it will deepen the other person's disgust with you.

    4.Either let me relax, give my soul a vacation, do something I like, tour, paint, photography, listen to songs, play games, you will find that life is so wonderful, how can you have time to entangle bad people and bad things? Why do you have to drill the tip of the horns?

    After a wry smile, shake your head and stride forward, maybe happiness is beckoning you.

    All in all, in a word, relieve my mood, do not contact the other party, and divert my spirit.

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